Friday, November 04, 2022
Dona Nobis Pacem
Thursday, November 03, 2022
Thursday Thirteen #780
Wednesday, November 02, 2022
Past Peak
This has been one of the prettier Autumns we've had in a long time. For a number of years, the leaves have had a bit of color, turned brown, and departed quickly, but this year has been quite lovely.
It's been an Autumn like the ones I remember from my childhood.
Dispelling a Myth
Occasionally, I see weird stuff cross my Facebook feed, generally from people who seem incredibly obsessed with sexual items, gender identity, and children, to the point where I think they may have a mental illness of some sort.
One of the weirder ones that some local folks continually insist is happening in our schools it something called "furries."
Allegedly, this involves young people dressing up as animals, speaking only as that animal would, and using litter boxes.
Reuters looked into this in July and found absolutely no instances of this taking place in public schools, yet there is a segment of the population that insists this happens. The New York Times refuted it in January.
There is not a single legitimate news site that pops up that corroborates anything about this. While some might consider The New York Times to lean left, Reuters is, as best I can tell, one of the most middle-ground news media groups out there.
I certainly do not think it is happening in my local public schools, even though I see posts that insist it is. There are never facts involved, just hearsay (my friend said her friend said she saw it happen) and I honestly find the people posting these things can trip out mentally over practically anything - they are incredibly sensitive and easily riled up over any perceived slight that doesn't meet their idea of a perfect world, whatever that is.
I do not believe this is happening at all, except maybe in some cosplay somewhere (like pretending to be a superhero), and in the minds of folks who apparently need better things to do with their time.
But let's pretend, just for a moment, that this allegation is true. That all over the United States, we have a percentage of children who are dressing up as dogs or cats.
Nobody asks why this would be happening. Why would children suddenly want to be animals?
Might it be because we take better care of our pets than our children?
Perhaps they see momma kissing on the pup while she screams at the kids?
Or they see dad idly stroking the purring cat while he's looking at his smart phone, and then yells at the kids for distracting him?
If this is a constant in their world, wouldn't the children, at some point, conclude that the parents love the animals more than they love their children? Wouldn't they do whatever they felt they had to obtain their parents' attention and love?
And if this is the case, then don't we have a parenting problem, not a school problem? Don't we have here a perfect (though fictional) example of horrid parenting gone wrong?
But these posts never blame the parents, never consider what might cause this kind of action on the part of a child. The posts just announce their horror that the school system might be taking this seriously and adding litter boxes to the bathrooms.
As I said earlier, I think this involves a sick mental illness on the part of the protesting posters, who want desperately to believe this kind of thing is actually happening for whatever reason.
It is part of the weirdness we have going on right now - we have a subset of the population who literally are making up stuff to upset other people. These folks who believe these types of lies and fairy tales are living in an alternate reality, some kind of fantasy that I cannot pretend to understand. Nor do I want to.
Instead of simply passing on stuff as truth and being outraged about it, whatever happened to asking questions, such as why would this be happening? Or doing a little fact checking to see if it's real or just some strange thing someone's put out there to rile up nervous people?
What will it take to shake some of these folks out of their bubble, and back into the real world?
Tuesday, November 01, 2022
Sunday, October 30, 2022
Sunday Stealing
2. What are 5 facts about where you live?
3. What are the must-sees sights around you?
4. What’s your favorite restaurant meal?
5. What was the last thing you cooked or ate?
6. What is something you learned from your grandparents?
8. Share an interesting fact that you’ve learned, and which most people are not aware of.
9. What was the last concert you attended?
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Saturday, October 29, 2022
Saturday 9: Haunted
Friday, October 28, 2022
Poem
Thursday, October 27, 2022
Thursday Thirteen
Wednesday, October 26, 2022
Who Has This Job?
Tuesday, October 25, 2022
Walked It Back
A few weeks ago, I wrote about leaving the fellowship of a video game that I've been playing for over five years.
I am back in that fellowship.
Not only am I back, I am the fellowship leader.
I returned on my own, so this is no one's fault but mine. Playing this city-building game by yourself is a bit boring. But I wasn't stopping. I had hoped the boredom would lead me to quit playing.
It didn't.
Maybe I needed to give it more than two weeks. I decided, though, that if I were still going to play, I may as well find a fellowship so that the rewards were better. Just until I finished up the current chapter I was in, mind you. It was taking a lot longer than I'd thought it would.
My old fellowship had not yet replaced me. Better the devil you know, right? I had friends there. I asked if I could return, but I said I didn't want to return to my old role of mage in charge behind the scenes.
But upon arriving back into the fellowship, I found it in disarray (fortunately mostly behind the scenes and not in front of the majority of the players). I had greatly underestimated my impact on this group. The leader was incapable of managing the thing alone. Another good player left shortly after I arrived because of something the leader said.
The next thing I knew, I was dragged into this, and then I was the archmage. I agreed to take it because everyone expected me to.
Things settled down almost immediately.
I still think I need to drop this game. The problem is, I don't have faith in myself to replace it with something as satisfying, or time consuming, or whatever need a video game meets.
It doesn't help to call myself an idiot, but I shouldn't have gone back. I did not expect this turn of events.
If I accept a responsibility, I tend to it, so I will deal with this as best I can now. But I know I need to make changes somewhere. I know I should be using my time better.
I know this isn't permanent.
Motivation, it seems, eludes me. Or maybe it really is an addiction.
Eventually, I will figure this out.
Damn it.
Monday, October 24, 2022
Sunday, October 23, 2022
Sunday Stealing
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Saturday, October 22, 2022
Saturday 9: Things
A doe suckling her twins in the early morning light. |
Friday, October 21, 2022
Thursday, October 20, 2022
Thursday Thirteen
Wednesday, October 19, 2022
Poplar Forest
The exterior octagon shape isn't as visible as one would think, but it's there. |
The story of how Jefferson built the house. |
A front shot. |
Still trying to show the octagon sides. Note the structure attached. This was the kitchen and guest rooms. |
Just another exterior shot. |
From left: A privy, the overseer's house, and the enslaved persons quarters. |
Enslaved persons quarters in the forefront. |
A sign designating the two structures. |
The overseer's house. |
An interior room in that long side portion. |
Jefferson had one of the better equipped kitchens for the time period. It's in the long portion, too, away from the main house. |
He constructed an ingenious set of guttering within the rafters to keep water off the roof. |
Interior of the house. |
Information exhibits take up a lot of the space, but it's rather a small area by today's standards. |
This was in the middle of the house proper. |
The octagon shape does not lend itself to good use of space. |