Tuesday, February 03, 2026

A Caricature of Me

 


My Facebook friends are all having ChatGPT make a caricature of themselves. Some of them are really cute. So, I asked ChatGPT to make one of me. This is what it came up with. 

A cow, a bluebird, a guitar, a notebook and pencil, and a cup of something with my beloved Blue Ridge in the background.


Monday, February 02, 2026

Winter's Benefit

This winter has been brutal with its cold, ice and snow. While each winter has its own personality, this one has been particularly brisk. 

We've had several mild winters in recent years, and nothing like the current deep freeze in a very long time. This year, the biting cold and ice feel almost corrective, as if nature is taking a long, bracing breath to let us know she's here. 

In moments like this, I hope that the bitter cold is doing more than numbing our fingers and making it hard to feed the cattle. I cross my fingers and wonder if it might also be thinning out the ranks of the insects that have plagued our homes, gardens, and forests. 

Stink bugs, spotted lanternflies, and other invasive pests have become unwelcome fixtures in Virginia. Could a hard freeze help eliminate these pests?

I went looking to see what I could find out.

Basically, extreme cold can kill bugs, but the story depends on the species, the timing, and the way each insect has adapted to survive winter.

The Limits of Insect Toughness

Most insects survive winter by entering a state called diapause. This is a kind of suspended animation that slows their metabolism and helps them conserve energy. Many also produce natural antifreeze compounds that keep their cells from rupturing in the cold. But these adaptations have limits. Every species has a “lethal temperature threshold,” the point at which cold overwhelms their defenses.

For the brown marmorated stink bug, which showed up in Virginia about 20 years ago, that threshold is surprisingly high. Research shows that prolonged exposure to temperatures below 14°F (–10°C) can kill a significant portion of the population. A deep freeze that lasts several days can reduce their numbers, especially if it arrives suddenly before they’ve fully acclimated. 

The catch is that stink bugs often overwinter inside human structures. They're in our attics, wall voids, barns - basically anywhere temperatures stay warmer than the outdoors. The ones tucked into your siding will likely survive; the ones sheltering in leaf litter or tree bark may not.

The spotted lanternfly, a far newer invader, has a different vulnerability. Adults die off each winter regardless of temperature, but their egg masses are the real concern. Studies suggest that lanternfly eggs begin to suffer mortality when temperatures drop below 10°F (–12°C), and extended cold can kill a large percentage. 

Because lanternflies lay eggs on exposed surfaces such as trees, rocks, firewood, and outdoor equipment, they are more at the mercy of the weather than stink bugs. A deep freeze can meaningfully reduce the number of hatchlings come spring.

Other pests, such as ticks, emerald ash borers, and certain agricultural insects, also face winter mortality when temperatures plunge. But again, survival depends on microclimates: a few inches of insulating snow, a south‑facing slope, or a warm pocket under bark can make the difference between life and death.

Why Timing Matters

A sudden cold snap after a mild autumn can be especially damaging to insects. If they haven’t fully hardened off, meaning a physiological process that prepares them for winter, they are more likely to die. Conversely, if the freeze arrives after weeks of steady cooling, many species will already be in their most resilient state.

This year’s freeze, arriving after a stretch of unseasonably warm days in December, may have caught some pests off guard. Egg masses, nymphs, and adults that failed to find proper shelter could experience higher mortality than usual.

The Hope and the Reality

A deep freeze rarely wipes out an entire pest population. Nature is too redundant, too stubborn, too adaptive for that. But winter can knock populations down a notch, buying time for ecosystems, agriculture, and homeowners. Even a 20–40% reduction in surviving eggs or adults can translate into noticeably fewer pests in the spring and summer.

For invasive species like the lanternfly, which have no natural predators here and reproduce explosively, every bit of winter mortality helps. For stink bugs, which have become frustratingly adept at using human structures as winter condos, the effect is more modest but still meaningful.

A Quiet Partnership with Winter

There’s something satisfying about imagining the cold doing some of the work for us. In a world where invasive species often feel unstoppable, winter reminds us that the natural world still has its own checks and balances. The deep freeze may not be a silver bullet, but it is a quiet ally. It is thinning the ranks, slowing the spread, and giving our forests, orchards, and homes a brief reprieve from these damaging insects.

And when spring finally arrives, the survivors will emerge. Hopefully, they will be fewer in number.


References

Brown Marmorated Stink Bug (Halyomorpha halys)
• Cira, T. M., et al. “Cold Tolerance of the Brown Marmorated Stink Bug.” Environmental Entomology, 2016.
• Penn State Extension. “Brown Marmorated Stink Bug: Winter Survival and Cold Tolerance.”
• USDA ARS. “Invasive Stink Bug Winter Mortality Research.” Spotted Lanternfly (Lycorma delicatula)
• Urban, J. M. “Perspective: Shedding Light on the Spotted Lanternfly.” Environmental Entomology, 2020.
• Penn State Extension. “Spotted Lanternfly Egg Mass Survival in Winter.”
• USDA APHIS. “Spotted Lanternfly: Biology and Seasonal Patterns.”
General Insect Cold Tolerance
• Sinclair, B. J., et al. “Insect Cold Tolerance: Ecology, Physiology, and Evolution.” Annual Review of Entomology, 2015.
• Virginia Cooperative Extension. “How Winter Temperatures Affect Insect Populations.”

Sunday, February 01, 2026

Sunday Stealing




I am passionate about ...

1) Words

2) Music

3) My husband

4) Nature

5) Thinking
 

I'd like to learn ...

1) Spanish (again)

2) A different musical instrument

3) How to paint

4) How to make a movie

5) What happens to a soul

Things I say a lot ...

1) Interesting

2) You mean like . . .

3) I'm sorry

4) I love you

5) I don't know

Places I'd like to travel to ...

1) Ireland

2) Scotland

3) New Zealand

4) England

5) The Grand Canyon


Thank you for playing! Please come back next week.

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Saturday, January 31, 2026

Saturday 9: Big Star




Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) Shelley Fabares sings that when she hears her lover's records on the radio, they bring back memories. Do you prefer familiar songs or do you seek out new music?

A. I tend to listen to familiar songs, especially when I am writing or doing accounting work. I don't mind new music when I'm cleaning or have time to pay attention. But when all I want is background noise, then the older music works best because I don't have to think about it.

2) Shelley introduced "Big Star" on an episode of The Donna Reed Show, where she played daughter Mary. She remembers the show's star and her TV mom, Donna Reed, as "an extraordinary woman." Who is your favorite TV mom? 

A. My favorite TV mom would be Shirley Partridge from the Partridge Family.

3) Speaking of big stars, Shelley made three movies with Elvis, who said she was his favorite leading lady. What qualities do you value in a coworker? 

A. I like someone who is helpful, thoughtful, kind, patient, and intelligent.

4) Though best known for comedy, Shelley appeared as Cathy in a made-for-TV adaptation of Wuthering Heights. Have you ever read the Emily Bronte classic?

A. I read Wuthering Heights the first time when I was 9 years old. I have read it again since but probably should pick it up again now that I'm older. I come away with something different every time I read a classic.
 
5) Shelley Fabares' aunt was Broadway, film and TV veteran Nanette Fabray. Do you have a favorite aunt or uncle?

A. I like all of my aunts and uncles. It wouldn't be polite to say I have a favorite.
 
6) In the 1990s she was twice nominated for an Emmy Award (Best Supporting Actress in a Comedy) for her work on Coach. She didn't win. Millions of viewers got to see her applaud graciously when Laurie (Roseanne) Metcalf's named was announced both times. If you were nominated for a major award and the ceremony was televised, would you get all dressed up and go? Or would you prefer to watch from home?

A. I think I would feel like I had to be there, if I had worked that hard. 
 
7) In 1962, when this song was first released, Jack Nicklaus launched his legendary golf career. Do you enjoy playing golf? Do you watch golf on TV?

A. I do not watch golf on TV.
 
8) Also in 1962, Marilyn Monroe bought her first home at the age of 36. Up until then she had always been a renter. Marilyn was residing there at the time of her death that August. How long have you lived at your current address? 

A. My address has changed three times over the last 39 years, but I have not moved from the current spot.
 
9) Random question – According to a survey, the average American will kiss 15 different partners over their lifetime. Do you estimate your personal total is more, less, or right on track?

A. I don't know. Are we talking second grade stolen kisses on the ballfield or what? (I had a friend who told me once she dated 115 different men before she found the man she married. I was stunned. "I didn't sleep with them all," she declared.)


*I will be at my father's funeral today. I will be around to visit when I can. Thanks for understanding.*
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Thursday, January 29, 2026

Thursday Thirteen


Things I Love About Living Where I Live

1. The way the mountains hold the horizon, always steady, familiar, and never showy. They're just there like an old friend.

2.  Mornings shaped by cattle sounds drifting in from the fields, grounding the day before anything else can intrude.

3.  The particular winter quiet that settles over the valley, softening everything to a gentler pace, especially during a snowfall.

4. How the light changes room by room as the day moves, turning the house into a sundial of small comforts.

5. The sense of lineage in the land, because I know generations of my kin have walked, worked, and tended these same ridges.

6. The simple little hand lift from the steering wheel the neighbors do from their cars and trucks, even if you don’t know their names, because that’s just what you do here.

7. The smell of woodsmoke in cold weather, a kind of unofficial county perfume.

8. The rhythm of seasons that actually feel like seasons, each one with its own rituals and chores.

9.  The night sky that still remembers how to be dark, full of stars you can actually see.

10.  The comfort of familiar roads, winding and imperfect, but always leading home.

11. The small-town kindnesses like holding open doors, leaving extra tomatoes and zucchini at the back door, and knowing that we look out for each other.

12. The way history lingers quietly, not as spectacle but as lived memory in buildings, fields, and local stories.

13. The feeling of being rooted, not stuck, because this place knows you, and you know it back.

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Tuesday, January 27, 2026

My Father's Story

 

My father, Loren Darnell Bruffey Sr., 84, of Fincastle, Virginia, peacefully passed away on Thursday, January 22, 2026.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Joseph and Gladys Taylor Bruffey; his brothers, Kenneth Bruffy and Jerry Bruffy; his sister, Elizabeth “Libby” Bruffy; and his wife of 37 years, Glenda Harris Bruffey.

He is survived by his loving wife of 18 years, Rita Stiltner Bruffey.

He is also survived by his children and their families: his daughter, Anita Jeanne Firebaugh and her husband James Firebaugh III of Troutville, VA; his son, Loren Darnell Bruffey, Jr. and his significant other Tasha Leigh Campbell of Fincastle, VA; and his stepdaughter Shonna Worrell and her husband Roger Worrell of Wytheville, VA.

His also survived by his grandchildren: Loren “Trey” Darnell Bruffey III and his wife Valerie Bruffey of Delaware, OH; Zoe Alexandra Bruffey of Roanoke, VA; step-grandchildren Elizabeth Victoria Owens and her significant other Erik Johnston of Nashville, TN; and Anthony Thomas “Thomy” Owens of Radford, VA.

He is also survived by his sisters-in-law, Julie Bruffy of Chico, CA, and Joan Bruffey of San Jose, CA; his niece, Rhonda Bruffey of San Jose, CA; and his nephews and their families: Steve Bruffy and his wife Lisa Bruffy, Terry Bruffy and his wife Kari Bruffy, Kenny Bruffy and his significant other Joellen Indiveri, all of Chico, CA; and Joseph “Joey” Bruffy and his significant other Barbara Williams of Big Springs, TX.

In 2014, I wrote an article for the local paper, which was a story of my father's life. I am going to place it here so people can read about my father. It's a little long, especially with the survivors list up above. Apologies for the length.

Botetourt Golf and Swim Club's newest stockholder is a local businessman who truly embodies a rags to riches story, the stuff from which American legends are made.

Loren Bruffey, Sr. of Fincastle apparently was born to be an entrepreneur. At the age of 72, when many men are retiring to play golf, Bruffey has bought into the club in order to work on his fourth concurrent business.

He has a reputation of turning everything he touches into gold, according to one of his employees at one of his companies. "He turns it around and it turns into money," Connie Dowdy, purchasing agent for Cardinal Rubber & Seal, Inc., said.

Bruffey recently described his life as a movement from ridge to ridge. He was born in Canvas, West Virginia in a cabin that sat on a ridge top. His father at that time was a coal miner. Now he lives in a stately home on a hill in Botetourt County.

Bruffey's storied life as entrepreneur began on the streets of Summersville, WV. When he was seven years old, an uncle bought him a shoeshine kit and he shined shoes in the street.

Not long thereafter, his family moved to Roanoke from West Virginia. His father, a World War II veteran, required treatment at the VA Hospital for wounds he received in the war. After his father healed, they lived in New Castle in the Scratch Ankle area for two years before settling in Salem, where Bruffey attended Andrew Lewis High School.

During his teen years, Bruffey started his second enterprise, a wholesale fish bait business. He paid other youngsters to dig up worms and moss, put the night crawlers in containers, and sell them to local stores and gas stations. "I did that for two years," he said. "I had about 25 customers."

Then he started a lawn mower business with a friend. "We cut about $40 a week worth of yards," he said. "You only got $2 a yard back in those days."

At the age of 17, he joined the military, serving for 37 months. He served in Korea for 13 months and eventually ended up in Fort Monroe, Virginia, with the United States Continental Army Command. His last job there was decoding security messages for the government. He received an honorable discharge at the age of 20. "I still wasn't old enough to vote when I got out," he recalled.

After he left the military, he became a police officer in Salem and was one of the youngest men hired to serve on the force at that time. He married Glenda Harris of Salem in 1962, and they had two children in the first four years of their marriage.

However, public service officials then, as now, made little money. "Being a police officer wasn't enough financial security," Bruffey said. "I had $110 a week in expenses and brought home $105." Searching for something better, he decided to turn his considerable charisma and charm to sales.

He became a salesman and branch manager for a company out of Pennsylvania called Louis H. Heinz. He commuted from Salem to Richmond. In 1969, he decided he wanted to live in a more rural community. About that time, the company asked him to relocate. When his manager offered him either $4,000 in moving expense money or six-weeks in severance pay, he took the severance.

Cardinal Rubber

He determined then that he would make his own future, and he would do it in many different ways. First, he set himself up as an independent sales representative. One of his largest clients was Stultz Machine, Tool & Equipment in Southeast Roanoke. In 1973, an opportunity to create a rubber product franchise came his way, and Bruffey purchased the building across the street from Stulz. Bruffey and P.G. Stultz went in together to create the Rubber House of Roanoke. Bruffey bought Stultz out three years later and in 1976, he changed the name to Cardinal Rubber.

"Then we started our expansion program," Bruffey said, a project that has been ongoing. He opened a branch in Harrisonburg, which has since closed, and another in Richmond that is now 30 years old. In the 1990s, he opened a branch in Rock Hill, SC.

Cardinal Rubber has two satellite locations in Garland, TX and Southern Pines, NC. The business has 48 employees and services over 9,000 customers.

"We ship overseas into India, Vietnam, and China," Bruffey said. The company is ITAR certified, which means it is able to supply products to US defense contractors. Bruffey's son, Loren Bruffey, Jr., is president of the company and runs the day-to-day operations.

The company continues to expand, and earlier this year, Cardinal Rubber acquired Stultz Machine, bringing Bruffey full circle. He renamed the older company Stultz Tool & Equipment, and it continues as a sales, repair and service location for hydraulics, air compressors and pneumatic tools.

Pat Lawhorn, Cardinal Rubber's vice president, has been with the company for 12 years. She spoke highly of Bruffey. "He's taught me a lot about the management side of business and business ethics," she said. "I have a huge admiration for him in his business sense. It's just amazing the business that he's built."

She said Cardinal Rubber has a reputation for treating its employees like family. "He's got his moments," she said of Bruffey, "but he's there for his employees personally as well as on the business level." The company does not have a large employee turnover, she noted. "He instills that family feeling here at Cardinal Rubber."

Early on, that wasn't necessarily the case. Connie Dowdy of Salem, who has been with the company for 30 years, said that was a transition Bruffey has made over the years. "He was so hard-core when I came here," she said. "He put business before family, but now it's different. He's mellowed."

Dowdy was working at Nannie's Market on Catawba Road in Botetourt when Bruffey offered her a job. "He gave me a chance and I appreciate that." She said she was amazed that he continued to have a near-daily presence at the business. "He makes a point of coming in and speaking, sitting down and asking me how things are going," she said. "He told me once, 'I will always be your friend but there is a line I will always draw, and he draws it.'"

She said Bruffey's selling acumen is legendary. "Once he starts a project he sees it to the end. He followed through until it was delivered. He is always thinking, and he's got a knack for doing it."

Loren Bruffey, Jr., now President of Cardinal Rubber,  agreed. "I will say that in my 30 years of experience, he is one of the greatest salesmen that I have ever run into. I firmly believe he could sell a cape to Superman," he said.

During those years of building up his business, Bruffey also started Cardinal Pool & Supply Co., Inc., which he later sold.

Farming

In 1970, Bruffey bought a farm that backed up against his father-in-law's old home place. He fixed up an older home that had no plumbing when he bought the house.

He raised a number of different birds from time to time, including chickens, ducks, and quail. Beef cattle became his number one farm product, however. 

"I actually leased almost 1,400 acres around here at one time," he said. He raised hay to support more than 100 head of cattle, which he sold at the stockyard. "I sold the last 30 head of cattle in 1995," Bruffey recalled. These days he has one animal remaining, an old cow he is allowing to live out its life in his pasture fields. His property is now a beacon for various creatures, with some areas overgrown and others seeded for wildlife enhancement.

He has purchased nearby properties as they came up for sale, expanding his real estate holdings. Today he owns hundreds of acres around the original tract.

In 1976, Bruffey built a spacious home up on the highest ridge of his farm. Not long after his house was finished, his family suffered a series of tragedies that still brings shudders to Bruffey when he recalls it: a tractor ran over his young son, who survived the incident. A few days later, while his son was still in the hospital, his father-in-law died. Bruffey said that was one of the low points of his life.

In 1989, lightning struck his house and nearly burned it to the ground. Bruffey rebuilt. He added on to the house at that time and in recent years, he has renovated the garage and added an addition.

Making Music

Bruffey came from a musical family; his grandfather, father, and brothers all played instruments and sang, and so did he. He formed a band called Music, Inc., in 1970. He played guitar and sang at venues all over the state, ranging from Virginia Beach to Marion and locations in between. Music, Inc. played in Staunton, Harrisonburg, Covington, Christiansburg, Radford, Danville, and of course, Roanoke. He has many stories about his time as a lead singer.

"Once we were playing on two hay wagons in New Castle opening up the New Castle Fair and the drummer fell off the wagon backwards," Bruffey recalled. "He drummed barefoot and I looked back and all I saw was two feet up in the air, but he was still beating on the snare drum. He never lost time."

In 1972, Bruffey opened a retail music store called Botetourt Showcase of Music, Inc., in the mall across from Lord Botetourt High School. He ran the store for about four years. The band rented practice space in one of the lower levels of the mall for several years, too.

Music, Inc., ceased in 1982. Bruffey said it was too difficult to focus on the weekend music and keep up with a growing business. However, he has returned to those musical roots. Now he also plays guitar and sings in Stone Coal Gap, a local band that entertains at nursing homes and public fundraisers. He also performs with the Botetourt County Chorus on occasion, and participates in the choir at Pleasant Hill Baptist Church. "I like to think I'm the only Catholic in a Baptist choir," he joked.

Roanoke Auto Auction

In 1999, Bruffey went to Iowa and spent a week at the World Wide College of Auctioneering, which is recognized worldwide as the number one school for auctioneering. Bruffey also purchased Star City Auto Auction and renamed it Roanoke Auto Auction, Inc., at that time.

In 2005, he and a partner bought out Springlake Stockyard and formed a new corporation, Farmers Livestock Market, Inc., to run the stockyard. The company now has 70 stockholders and Bruffey is on its Board of Directors. "I oversee the operation of the stockyard, and the general manager answers to me," Bruffey said.

Botetourt Country Club

The Botetourt Country Club ran into financial troubles during the economic downturn, and in 2010, a group of investors purchased the stock and took over running the company. Bruffey late last year bought out one of those original investors and purchased additional shares to become the second-largest shareholder in what is now called Botetourt Golf and Swim Club. The other owners are Mike Morris, Tim Jennings, Bobby Allen, and Alan Brenner. Bruffey said they are working to improve the facility and the partners hold frequent business meetings to work on new ideas and iron out concerns.

Hobbies

Bruffey was an avid golf player in his younger days and spent hours on the course at the Botetourt Country Club. Cardinal Rubber has for the last decade held an annual customer appreciation tournament at the facility, usually hosting about 130 golfers. He played regularly for 25 years and was on the Senior PGA Tour Pro Am on three different occasions.

He is also an avid sportsman and enjoys hunting and fishing. He has been to Africa twice to hunt big game and annually makes treks to other areas of the United States to hunt, including Alaska. He has also hunted in Canada and in Russia.

Additionally, he has soloed as an airplane pilot. He rides motorcycles, too, and recently turned his Honda Goldwing into a trike bike, one of his few acknowledgements of age creeping up on him.

Bruffey's wife passed away in 2000, not long after he began Roanoke Auto Auction. In 2007, he married Rita Williams, known to many as the candy lady and the former owner of Good Things on the Market.

Looking back on his storied life, Bruffey said he considers himself an entrepreneur. "I also consider myself lucky," he said. "And I'm not a procrastinator, either."

He said he is now back on the ridge, but in a different capacity. He recalls his childhood on that ridge in West Virginia as a happy one. "That is when you're the happiest. You don't have all these tears. You just have happiness at that age."

And now? He looked around the restaurant of his new business venture, the Botetourt Golf & Swim Club, and then at his daughter, who was interviewing him for this article. "Right now I'm very happy," he said.