Saturday 9: Drive My Car

Saturday 9: Drive My Car (1965)

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

 

1) Who would you allow, without hesitation, to drive your car?

A. My husband, family members, friends. Anyone I know, really. 

 

2) When you're riding in the backseat, do you use your seatbelt?

A. I don't ride in the backseat. I get carsick. 

 

3) In this song, a young girl tells her boyfriend she wants to be a movie star. What were your aspirations when you were in your late teens/early 20's? Did you realize them?

A. I wanted to be a writer, and that's what I did. I also wanted to be a musician, and in my teens, I played in a band, so I guess I did that too.

 

4) The song was reportedly inspired in part by the relationship between popular British singer Cilla Black and her future husband. Cilla wanted him on the record label's payroll, so he became her road manager and driver. Have you ever worked for, or with, someone with whom you were romantically involved?

A. No.

 

5) Although this Beatles song is credited to Lennon-McCartney, it was written mostly by Paul. He recalls showing up at John Lennon's house with the tune ready to go, and lyrics they both agreed were "crap." John gave Paul the car theme, and he took it from there. When has someone recently helped you out of a jam?

A. I can't think of anything recent.

 

6) Paul also handles the lead vocals. When you hear a Beatles record, can you tell which band member is singing lead?

A. Not always, but I can tell it's the Beatles.

7) When it was first released, this record got a lot of attention for the intricate guitar work by Paul and George Harrison. It's got a lot of percussion on it, too, including cowbell and tambourine. Have you ever played either cowbell or tambourine? (Do you think it sounds like fun?)

A. I have played both at one point or another. They're rather boring instruments, frankly.

8) Lava lamps were already popular in England but they weren't introduced to the United States until 1965. Today Walmart carries more than 20 different lava lamps. Have you ever owned one?

A. I think I had one when I was a teenager, but to be honest I'm not sure. I might have just admired them in the window of Spencer's. (Anybody remember Spencer's?)

 

9) Random question: Do you have a recurring dream?

A. I used to have a recurring dream about a bathtub full of blood, but thankfully I no longer have that.

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One for the Short People

The Prompt: Recall a brief interaction with a stranger this week. What was a small moment of human kindness you witnessed or experienced?

On Tuesday, I saw a woman who is a little taller than I am approach a grocery store employee and ask for assistance with something on the highest shelf. The grocery store employee wasn't taller than the woman, but she climbed up the shelves (!) to get what the woman wanted on the top shelf. The customer was very grateful and the employee, in my opinion, very brave. They need a little ladder for short folks. Or at least a step stool.

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Kwizgiver has started a gratitude challenge. I like the idea so I will give it a try. As she states, "The Non-Challenge Gratitude Challenge. This isn't about being perfect. There are no points, no "failing" if you miss a day, and no pressure to perform. It’s just a gentle nudge to look around. I’ll be posting prompts here on the blog, and I’d love for you to join me in the comments--but only if you feel like sharing."

And that's her picture from her blog. I swiped it.

Thursday Thirteen #955

Things that happened (mostly) in Virginia on April 16 -

1. 1780: The General Assembly relocates. On April 16, the Virginia legislature formally moved from Williamsburg to Richmond, shifting the political center of the Commonwealth inland during the Revolutionary War.

2. 1862: Peninsula Campaign tensions rise. Mid‑April saw Confederate forces withdrawing toward Richmond as Union troops advanced. April 16 marked a day of repositioning and uncertainty in the early stages of the campaign.

3. 1862: The Confederate Conscription Act takes effect. April 16 was the date the first national draft in American history went into force, requiring white men 18–35 to serve. Many Virginians were swept into the war by this law.

4. 1864: Battle of Plymouth (North Carolina) begins. Though just across the state line, many Virginia regiments were involved. April 16 marked the opening movements of a battle that would ripple through Tidewater communities.

5. 1906: Norfolk’s streetcar system expands. April 16 saw the announcement of new electric streetcar lines, part of the region’s shift from horse‑drawn transit to modern infrastructure.

6. 1912: The Titanic’s sinking reaches Virginia papers. On April 16, Richmond and Roanoke newspapers carried the first full reports of the disaster, including the names of Virginians aboard.

7. 1947: Shenandoah National Park reopens Skyline Drive sections. Winter closures lifted around April 16, marking the unofficial start of spring tourism in the Blue Ridge.

8. 1951: Richmond’s Byrd Airport expands service. April 16 brought new commercial routes, part of Virginia’s post‑war aviation boom.

9. 1963: Civil rights organizing intensifies in Danville. Mid‑April, including April 16, saw planning meetings that would lead to the Danville Movement’s major demonstrations later that summer.

10. 1978: The James River floods recede. After days of heavy rain, April 16 marked the beginning of cleanup efforts in communities from Botetourt to Richmond.

11. 1993: Virginia Tech’s Lane Stadium expansion approved. On April 16, the university announced plans that would eventually transform the stadium into the powerhouse venue it is today.

12. 1996: NASA Langley begins wind‑tunnel tests for the X‑33 program. On April 16, engineers at Langley Research Center started a major testing phase for the X‑33, part of Virginia’s long-running role in aerospace research and experimental flight.

13. 2007: Virginia Tech. The deadliest school shooting in U.S. history unfolded in Blacksburg. Many of us remember exactly where we were, what the news looked like, and how the numbers kept rising. It remains a day that sits heavily in Virginia’s collective memory.

*An AI tool helped me with this list.*

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When the Deer Trust You

 

There are two deer right now outside my office window. I've been up and down getting water and doing chores, and they aren't moving. The photos are with my cellphone and that's my curtain and the shoestring I use to pull down a blind in the afternoon when the sun shines in that window showing.

They frequently settle down in the yard like this, but not normally outside of my window.

Currently

Currently, I am:

Reading . . . Mary Johnston, Memoirs, by Mary Johnston and The Atlantic magazine. 

Watching . . . The Voice, which I think has finished its season, some stuff on the History channel, Hacks, and Downton Abbey when we can't find anything else to watch.

Listening . . . to the sound of the air conditioning in the hallway, until I say "Alexa, play some music" and then she coughs up Fleetwood Mac playing "Silver Springs." Not a bad choice.

 
Eating . . . nothing in particular, although I am trying to add more protein to my diet.

Thinking . . . that I have grown old and never saw it coming.

 
Feeling . . . perturbed that the custom orthotics that I paid $$$ for are causing more pain than they are helping, and I will have to go back to see if they can redo them.

Celebrating . . . warmer weather and things turning green.

 
Thankful . . . for my friends who check in on me.

Enjoying . . . a Pepperidge Farm Montauk chocolate chip cookie. 

I swiped this, at least in part, from Stacy. I don't know where she got it, maybe she made it up.

Simply the Best

1. What was the best thing you have ever bought?

A. The best thing I ever bought was a computer. And the first computer I bought myself was a Commodore 64, followed by a Radio Shack Tandy computer. I actually started out on a Commodore Vic 20, but my mother bought that. I was still in high school.

       

2. What was the best book you have ever read?

A. I don't know what book I would consider "the best" book I've ever read. I've read a lot of books I've enjoyed, some that were well written but incredibly boring, and others that felt like guilty pleasures. I'm a very eclectic reader. So far this year, I've read books by C. J. Archer, Harper Lee, Debbie Macomber, Janet Evanovich, S.A. Chakraborty, Stuart Woods, and Louise Penny. 

3. What is the best trip/vacation/holiday you've ever had?

A. One of the best vacations my husband and I went on was a trip to Charlottesville, where we toured Monticello and the University of Virginia campus, and just had a really nice weekend looking at historical things and shopping around downtown.

4. What was the best movie or TV series you've ever watched?

A. The best movie(s) are The Lord of the Rings trilogy, all three are very good. The best TV series is harder to answer.  I thought Cagney & Lacey was an excellent series, but then Hacks is good, and so is Downton Abbey and The Big Bang Theory. And of course, there is MASH and The West Wing. I'm not sure I can pick just one.

These questions came from the Tuesday 4 meme.

Virginia 250: Blacksmiths, Builders of the Nation

With Virginia and the nation celebrating 250 years of freedom from England in 2026, I thought it might be fun to occasionally bring up some local history. At one time, Botetourt County stretched all the way to the Mississippi and into Wisconsin, which means my county's history is also the history of much of the nation.

A version of the following article appeared in 2004 in The Fincastle Herald under my byline.

Blacksmiths were very important and necessary folk during the colonization of America. They were needed to make iron tools, like plowshares, so the hard work of planting and building structures could be completed. 

Farriers were smiths who specialized in shoeing horses. But smiths not only shod horses, they created springs and wheel parts for carriages, made nails, pots, pans, and other utensils. 

The work was done with a hammer and anvil, using iron heated in a fire kept hot by hand-operated bellows. Without blacksmiths to work iron, the settlers could not have moved west as quickly as they did.

Today, mass production methods have all but eliminated most work done by blacksmiths.

In Fincastle, the county seat of Botetourt County, VA, one blacksmith shop still stands. The smell of molten metal and the hiss of fire in water do not echo on the town’s Main Street anymore, but visitors can see the efforts of blacksmiths of old in the Ludwig Wysong Blacksmith Shop museum at Wysong Park.

Imprints from horse hooves are visible in the sidewalk outside of the restored building. Inside, tools of the trade line the walls and two portable forges show how the smithy could haul his trade from place to place if need be.

The museum was dedicated in 1978, a gift to Historic Fincastle, Inc. (HFI) from two brothers: Rufus and Dr. H. D. Wysong. During the 1970s, while researching family history, they became interested in the old shop. It was the last remaining smithy in town, and they purchased it and restored it as a tribute to Fiedt Wysong, their ancestor.

The Wysong brothers partnered with HFI to reconstruct the sagging building. Wysongs from all over the United States donated money, and HFI provided additional funding to help acquire the lot, which is now called the Ludwig Wysong Memorial Park, in honor of Fiedt Wysong’s father. 

The family originally hailed from France and Wales. The Wysongs have traced their roots to 1558, where an early family member named Vincent fled from France to the Rhineland area of Germany to escape religious persecution. There, it is reported, the German pronunciation of the name “Vincent” corrupted it to “Weissanz,” which eventually became Wysong.

Fiedt Wysong (1755-1837) was an early Fincastle settler who owned many properties in town. The museum may not have been his shop – there were several in the area and no one knows which was his.  

But the current building was a working smithy until 1932.

Fincastle Historian Dottie Kessler says Fiedt Wysong operated a blacksmith shop in 1791.

His father, Ludwig Wysong moved to Wales from the Rhineland. He entered the English king’s service and landed in America in 1715. He located to York County, PA and married at age 60. He had 11 children, 7 boys, and 5 of those sons fought on the side of the patriots in the American Revolution, including Fiedt and his brother Valentine, who also lived in Fincastle. In April 1824, the Wysongs lived on the corner of Main Street and Water Street.

HFI members helped the Wysong family clear the lot on the corner of Main Street and US 220, and local attorney Ralph C. Wiegandt and other citizens donated authentic blacksmith tools for exhibit. 

Today, one room of the museum contains benches and furniture, and is called the Wysong Meeting Room. The Wysong family holds reunions in Fincastle occasionally, bringing many hundred visitors to town. The building stands as a museum to the public and a memorial to the Wysong family. The building is open to the public during the Fincastle Festival and by appointment.

Almost 300 people attended the 1978 dedication and reunion, with Wysong representatives from 24 states present. The Wysongs turned the property over to HFI at that time. Mayor Harry Kessler, who was also an HFI member, accepted the deed to the property.

HFI later constructed a new Wysong Blacksmith Shop directly behind the older building. The blacksmith shop, complete with a working forge, cost HFI $30,000 and took two years to construct.

Members hoped to lure a blacksmith to town. However, that did not work out and the building became a source of rental revenue for the non-profit organization until this year, when HFI turned it into its offices.

Information courtesy of Fincastle Historian Dottie Kessler (now deceased) and Historic Fincastle, Inc.

Sunday Stealing

Tell Us Something

1. Can you touch your nose with your tongue?

A. I had to give that a try to see, but no, I cannot do that.

2. What foreign language did you study in school? How much of it do you still remember?

A. I had three years of Spanish and one year of Latin. I remember very little of it. I keep thinking I should return to the Spanish so I can become fluent in it again. When you don't use things like that, they disappear.

3. What recipe did you most recently prepare? Where did you get the recipe and how did it turn out?

A. I hate to cook and I've had a shoulder impingement, so I've not really done much "recipe" cooking of late. I guess the last thing I made was a version of K&W's baked spaghetti. K&W was cafeteria chain, and we liked to eat there. Alas, it has gone out of business, taking its baked spaghetti with it. Their baked spaghetti did not have tomato sauce in it so I could eat it even with stomach ulcers. When we make it at home, we leave out the onions. The recipe makes a good 13" pan full of baked spaghetti and I have discovered it freezes well if you wrap it up in wax paper first.

4. What song have you listened to over and over and over again?

A. When I learn a song on the guitar, I tend to listen to it over and over again to try to get the chords and rhythm right. I don't recall the last song I did that with. It was easier before Amazon messed with Alexa so that now when you ask for a specific song, sometimes you get it, sometimes you don't. Before I could play a song continually until I had it in my head. The last song I really remember doing that with was Comfortably Numb, by Pink Floyd, which I've now since forgotten.

5. Are there currently any pets in your household? Are you considering adding another? 

A. There are no pets in the house. There are about 40 cows and two bulls in the pasture fields, though. We also have a nice bit of wildlife that includes deer, bear, turkey, coyotes, and now a bobcat!

6. As an adult, have you ever performed with a drama group? (Student productions don't count.)

A. I have never performed with a drama group as an adult. I have, however, been involved in drama but that was not theater.

 

Thank you for playing! Please come back next week.

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PS: This is my 630th Sunday Stealing. That's 12.12 years of doing Sunday Stealing.

Saturday 9: Leather and Lace

Saturday 9: Leather and Lace (1981)

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) As you answer these questions, are you wearing leather, lace, or both?

A. I have on Minnetonka moccasins that I use for house shoes that I suppose are of some kind of leather. It says it's a leather upper with faux fur in the shoe.

2) This song is a duet between members of two superstar groups – Stevie Nicks of Fleetwood Mac and Don Henley of The Eagles. Which band do you listen to more often, Fleetwood Mac or The Eagles?

A. I think Alexa tends to play more Fleetwood Mac, but I have both on my playlist.

 

3) In this duet, "lace" tells us she is stronger than we know and "leather" admits that sometimes he's vulnerable. Do either side of this lyrical equation apply to you? Do you think you're either tougher than people realize, or more sensitive than they know?

A. I think I am both tougher and more sensitive than people give me credit for. Many people think they know me, but they really don't.

 

4) Both Stevie and Don are born Westerners. Stevie spent her early childhood in Arizona and Don was born in Texas and stayed there through college. Today Stevie has two homes – one in Pacific Palisades and another in Phoenix – while Don has a beautiful home in Dallas. Do you feel rooted where you are? Or can you see yourself moving to another city or state in the future?

A. I have lived in the same house since 1987. I don't see myself going anywhere any time soon.

 

5) Stevie and Don were romantically involved in the 1970s, but after they broke up they remained friendly. Not only did they record this song in 1981, but they also went on tour together in 2005. Have you recently heard from an ex?

A. I have not heard from an ex in about 45 years.

6) Stevie admits a lifelong passion for Animal Crackers, those little cookies shaped like tigers, bears and elephants. Is your go-to snack sweet, like Stevie's, or is it salty?

A. I am afraid I have a bad sweet tooth, with a particular affinity for chocolate.

7) Don likes Velveeta on his burgers. Describe your ideal cheeseburger.

A. My ideal cheeseburger is a nice bun without seeds on it, a decent sized but not overly large hamburger patty, thick American cheese (like it used to be before the pandemic, not those anemic things they sell now as cheese), a piece of lettuce, a slice of tomato, and a little mayonnaise, mustard, and ketchup.

8) In 1981, when this song was popular, both Maserati and Mercedes Benz introduced luxury convertibles. Have you ever owned a convertible? Would a convertible be practical for your lifestyle?

A. I have never owned a convertible. I don't even use the moon roof on my Camry, so I don't think I would like a convertible. I'm not one for having pollen blown in my face while I drive.

 

9) Random question: What are you most looking forward to this week?

A. I am looking forward to seeing a dermatologist this week. Because I am in my 60s now and that is what you look forward to! Although I am also hoping maybe the bobcat will come around again. It was very cool to see that.

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The Bobcat

On Thursday, April 9, as I was putting away groceries, I saw the groundhog come out of his hole under the shed behind the house. I kept glancing at him, and then he disappeared.

The groundhog, not yet under siege.

Then I saw this thing up against the shed. I thought, is that the groundhog? And I stopped what I was doing and peered out the window. 

That's some kind of cat, I thought. And it sat there and it sat there and I got my cell phone and tried to take a picture but of course it captured mostly screen in the window. So, I went out to the garage door where there are no screens, and I took a picture. I looked at the ears and I said aloud, "That is a bobcat! Oh damn, where is my camera?"

I raced into my office and got the camera off the charger, threw it on my tripod, and went back out into the garage. By then the cat had moved in front of the shed.

I tracked him, trying to zoom in and click. I really wanted to get him in full body because of the tail, so my husband couldn't say, "Oh, it was just somebody's house cat."

It was a magnificent looking animal, just sort of investigating the area. It looked in my flower cart that lies sideways so it doesn't trap the rain, and it went around a tree. 

Investigating the flower cart.

I thought I had lost it, but then its head poked around the oak. I got a great picture of that.

Hello there!

Then it came on out and I got a wonderful full body shot of it.

I was so excited I was yelling, "Siri, call James on speaker phone" and when he finally picked up - he was visiting with his mother - I yelled, "There's a bobcat in the backyard, it's down where the ash tree was now, it's heading toward Lanetta's, oh it's in the field, I can't see it anymore." 

And I sent him a picture and he was pretty excited, too.

That's the first time we've ever seen a bobcat here.

My Bed

 

The Prompt: What is one "background" object in your house that you are grateful for today?

I am grateful for my bed. It's something I take for granted but it is such a relief to flop into it after a long day. I pull the covers all around me - my husband says I "nest" when I sleep - and get warm and comfy. In the mornings I wake up and lie there, thinking, "If I don't move, nothing will hurt," but of course one must get up anyway.

Some people do not have beds. Soldiers sleep on the ground. Homeless people sleep under bridges or in little tents. I am not that tough. I need a nice mattress.

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Kwizgiver has started a gratitude challenge. I like the idea so I will give it a try. As she states, "The Non-Challenge Gratitude Challenge. This isn't about being perfect. There are no points, no "failing" if you miss a day, and no pressure to perform. It’s just a gentle nudge to look around. I’ll be posting prompts here on the blog, and I’d love for you to join me in the comments--but only if you feel like sharing."

And that's her picture from her blog. I swiped it.

Thursday Thirteen

April Thoughts

1. The way redbuds hold their color like they’re not quite convinced it’s time to commit.

2.  A cardinal perched on the shed roof, giving that clear, insistent tseeer it uses when the air feels like rain.

3. The annual negotiation with the pollen: you again. Achoo! Somebody hand me a tissue.

4. The first evening you realize that it is still light at 8 p.m. Longer days, more sunshine.

5. The small, stubborn pleasure of finishing a task you’ve been circling for days. Taxes are in the mail!

6. The kind of silence you only get when the ground is thirsty and even the insects seem to pace themselves. We're in a drought; you can see the cracks in the dirt make the uneven land look like a 3-D jigsaw puzzle.

7. A stack of envelopes that all want something, and the quiet satisfaction of telling them they can wait. Or maybe they can all be dealt with online.

8. The particular blue of the sky that only shows up between fronts.

9. A Wordle solved in a way that makes no sense to anyone but you.

10. The dogwood buds that look like they’re holding secrets. And then that wild spectacular white when they finally bloom!

11. The relief of a sentence finally landing the way you meant. And then the wondering if that ever really happens.

12. The smell of the ground warming, that odor of leaf mold and damp bark, and the particular scent of something green thinking about becoming greener.

13. The steadiness that comes from naming what’s here, not what’s missing.

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Thursday Thirteen is played by lots of people; there is a list here if you want to read other Thursday Thirteens and/or play along. I've been playing for a while, and this is my 954th time to do a list of 13 on a Thursday. Or so sayth the Blogger counter, anyway.