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Sunday, May 12, 2024
Sunday Stealing
Saturday, May 11, 2024
The Northern Lights
Saturday 9
Thursday, May 09, 2024
Thursday Thirteen
It can be hard to identify toxic traits in oneself or in others. Here is a list of some types of toxic traits.
1. Emotional Manipulation: Trying to control others by guilt-tripping, using tears, or bossing them around.
2. Lack of Empathy: Ignoring other people’s feelings and acting solely based on personal desires.
3. Self-Centeredness: Always putting oneself first without considering others.
4. Hostility: Being blunt, rude, or aggressive, which can leave others feeling anxious.
5. Defensiveness: Reacting defensively to feedback or criticism.
6. Negativity: Constantly focusing on the negative aspects of situations.
7. Jealousy: Feeling envious of others’ success or happiness.
8. Sabotaging Others: Undermining others’ efforts or success.
9. Perfectionism: Setting unrealistic standards for oneself and others.
10. Gossiping: Spreading rumors or talking negatively about others.
11. Blaming Others: Refusing to take responsibility for one’s actions.
12. Passive-Aggressiveness: Indirectly expressing anger or frustration.
13. Dishonesty: Lying or withholding information.
There are many more, such as competitiveness, disregarding boundaries, dismissiveness, or avoidance.
I have trouble with perfectionism, though I expect it only of myself and not other people. Sometimes it can be stifling and lead me to not doing something because I'm afraid it won't be perfect.
I also can be quite negative sometimes. I try to work on the traits I've identified but am not always successful. Some are deeply embedded, such as self-blame, which isn't listed but is something I do. (I say, "I'm sorry," a lot.)
Some of these I picked out of a long list of toxic traits because they seem to fit a certain famous person who is in the news a lot.
Tuesday, May 07, 2024
Reviews & Complaints
Reviews
We started watching Hacks on Max over the weekend. Highly recommended! Jean Smart is terrific. Wish I'd been watching this all along, but it's a good binge in the nights when nothing else is on but Big Bang reruns.
Also saw the first episode of Maryland on PBS. It stars Suranne Jones, Eve Best, and Stockard Channing. Didn't hate it, it's only 3 episodes, will probably watch it all. I first encountered Surrane Jones in Gentleman Jack on HBO. I liked that series. In Maryland, she's a bit of a sobby thing while her sister is quite stoic. I guess I related a bit more to the stoic one. And who doesn't love Stockard Channing when she shows up in something? The plot is the mother, who passes away, has a secret life on the Isle of Man and the sisters are unraveling it.
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Friday night, we checked out a new restaurant in Daleville. It's a steak and seafood restaurant, and since I'm giving it C- I won't name it. It was expensive ($70 for the two of us), and LOUD. At first it wasn't too bad when we arrived before 5 p.m. but as the place filled up, it grew so noisy in there that I had a headache when we left (which was as quickly as we could). I don't think we will be going back.
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While I'm "reviewing," I prefer Food Lion to Kroger in Daleville. Food Lion is bright, it has actual people running the checkout lines, and the prices are lower (on some things). Kroger is dark, the shelves are too tall for me to reach many things up high and they are also too close together, and it looks like an outdated warehouse that someone thought would make a grocery store. It used to not look like that, it used to be bright and had flooring (not the cement floor), and the walls weren't painted black. I don't know who thought this make-over (several years old now) was a good idea but I only go in there for my prescriptions now. Brighten that store up, make it more user friendly! Please, I beg you. (Also, the parking is better at Food Lion.)
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Complaints
Facebook makes me feel stupid just for looking at it, because there is so much stupid on it. There are some things that aren't stupid, but you have to weed out a lot of stupid to find something that isn't. And sometimes I stupidly go and look at the stupid just to see how stupid it is! Doesn't that make me stupid?
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I would very much like to see adults act like adults. When did that become too much to expect?
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People who say the climate isn't changing do not raise cattle and need hay to feed them.
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Why can't I upload only my contacts to the Apple cloud? It wants to upload everything, and I don't want to upload everything. Just the one thing. My contacts. The rest of it doesn't matter. If I lose the notes or the reminders or the pictures, I don't care, but I do need the phone numbers. If I could just upload the contacts I wouldn't have to pay for any extra storage space, the space that comes with the phone would be plenty. But no, it has to tell me every time I think about uploading to the cloud that I need to buy more storage space. I have it all backed up to my computer but it's in iTunes and who knows if that's even accessible to a newer phone. My phone is an iPhone 5(SE). I have had it since 2017. No, it's not worth anything apparently, so I just keep using it. Why not?
Monday, May 06, 2024
Birds
I am not sure what the bird in the first two photos is. I thought at first it was a red-bellied woodpecker, but my bird book doesn't show all those spots and the black on the chest. Maybe it's a fledgling?
The other is a cowbird at the feeder. I think that's a tufted titmouse in the back but not sure. I'm not the best bird identifier.
Sunday, May 05, 2024
Sunday Stealing
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Saturday, May 04, 2024
Saturday 9: Rocket Man
Friday, May 03, 2024
Toodling Around a Town
After we left The Old Brick Hotel in New Castle, we decided to walk the block of Main Street to see what there was to see.
This used to be a bank building when I was writing over there. |
The Craig County Courthouse from the front. |
Main Street. It looked like someone had spruced up the buildings with fresh paint. |
They have a brand-new farmers market. |
It looks really nice and should be a great addition to the community. |
We walked back toward the car, and I said, "Let's go in here." The shop was called The Emporium, and it was set up kind of as an old-fashioned grocery and had a small bookstore in the rear.
I saw a man enter just after us and I thought he looked familiar, but I had written over there for a long time and many people would look familiar. I was looking around up at the front when I heard someone say my last name out loud.
My husband responded, "Well, how are you!"
I went back to discover, to my surprise, a former firefighter who used to work with my husband. He is also my aunt's ex-husband's brother, making him my cousin's uncle. So family. Sort of.
We did not go to New Castle expecting to run into anyone we knew. To run into someone we considered extended family was incredibly unexpected. We hadn't seen this long-distance relative since 2017 and hadn't had much of a chance to speak then as we were at a concert.
We spent a pleasant 15 minutes or so catching up on family news.
Definitely a nice surprise. Given the earlier surprise of finding paperwork that dealt with my father's family in a county that was not known for that family, (plus seeing a camel), we felt like this afternoon drive had a bit of cosmic coincidence going on with it.
Then we drove around the town some more and saw a cemetery that I couldn't recall seeing before:
I really liked the angel on top. I love old cemeteries anyway; they give off such a cool vibe. They don't make statues like that in new cemeteries.
And that was the end of our adventure. We really should get out of the house more often.
Thursday, May 02, 2024
Thursday Thirteen
- Economic challenges: There’s widespread poverty that the citizens must endure, or there are massive gaps in wealth that create a ruling class of elites and relegate everyone else to a life of scarcity and hardship.
- Environmental damage: Environmental devastation wreaks havoc on the lives and fates of the characters. This destruction might take the form of major weather events, like earthquakes or floods; climate change and its disastrous effects; or the ramifications of pollution, overpopulation, or disregard for the planet and its finite resources.
- Government influence: Typically, there’s either no government overseeing law, order, and civilization, or there’s a domineering government that operates a police state and controls and monitors the lives of all citizens.
- Loss of freedom or individual identity: A dystopian society often robs its citizens of their basic freedoms and/or individualism. It reduces them to sheep who must blindly follow the dictates of a tyrannical and unjust system.
- Propaganda: The existing power structure in a dystopia produces propaganda to keep the citizenry in line. Such propaganda might present a deceptive “everything is fine“ picture of life in order to control the population, or it might incite fear and terror and, thus, generate an excuse to engage in further domination and subjugation.
- Survival: The characters in a dystopian setting are in a fight to survive the oppressive conditions in which they find themselves. They must resort to extreme measures to protect themselves and those around them, which usually means rebelling against the powers that be.
- Technology: Advancements in technology tend to play a key role in controlling or tracking the citizens of a dystopia. Rather than solving problems, technology creates them—damaging relationships, reinforcing hierarchies and power structures, and reducing quality of life.
Wednesday, May 01, 2024
New Castle
The Civil War display, found mostly in the southern U.S. |
Other military display. |
The dining area of the hotel/bar. |
A kitchen replica. |
Some plates I liked showcasing various things about the community. |
The museum office/welcoming section. We saw this last because we went in the back door. |
Monday, April 29, 2024
First, We Saw a Camel
Sunday, April 28, 2024
Sunday Stealing
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