Monday, May 11, 2026
I Still Watch Commercials
Tuesday, July 15, 2025
TV Talk - The Women Who Walk With Me
I don’t watch a lot of TV. But when I do, I find myself drawn to the same thing over and over again: strong women. Some are funny, some are fierce, some are flawed. All of them speak to something inside me, maybe something I wanted to be growing up, or still want to be now.
These are the shows that have reminded me of what it means to be powerful in a world that often doesn’t make space for women to be that way.
Hacks
Starring Jean Smart, Hannah Einbinder, Carl Clemons-Hopkins
Jean Smart’s Deborah Vance is a powerhouse: funny, sharp, self-made, and unwilling to fade quietly into the background. Paired with Hannah Einbinder’s Ava, a messy and ambitious young comedy writer, the show becomes a study in generational push-pull and female resilience.
I loved Hacks from the start. Deborah is exactly the kind of woman I admire: someone who fought her way to the top and keeps evolving. But in the 2024 season finale, Ava blackmailed Deborah into making her head writer on a new late-night show. That betrayal shifted the dynamic, and Season 4 lost me for a while.
It wasn’t until the final three episodes—when their relationship snapped back into focus—that I felt the show again honored what made it great: two women challenging each other, needing each other, growing because of each other. That’s a kind of strength we don’t often see, especially between women across generations. I’m glad it’s coming back for another season. Maybe the next season will fully repair what the last season broke.
The Bionic Woman*
Starring Lindsay Wagner
I was 13 when The Bionic Woman first aired, and Jaime Sommers was like nothing else on TV. She wasn’t there to be rescued. She was the rescuer. She was powerful, kind, smart, and human. And Lindsay Wagner had a way of bringing vulnerability and depth to the role that still holds up.
The show itself didn’t always hold up. By the third season, the writing had veered into strange territory - bionic dogs, aliens, Big Foot, and too much clumsy action. Jaime stopped being a grounded, thoughtful character and became more of a plot device.
But even with all its flaws, I’m glad I rewatched it. Jaime was one of the first TV women I saw who didn’t shrink from power. She didn’t have to be loud to be strong. That stuck with me.
The Gilded Age
Starring Carrie Coon, Morgan Spector, Louisa Jacobson, Denée Benton, Christine Baranski, Cynthia Nixon
On the surface, this show is about money - old money versus new money in 1880s New York - but beneath the corsets and chandeliers, it’s about women asserting themselves in a world run by men.
Marian Brook is supposed to be the emotional heart of the story, but the series has drifted toward the Russell family’s rise, especially Carrie Coon’s formidable Bertha Russell. She’s ruthless, clever, and refuses to be dismissed just because she wasn’t born into the “right” class.
There are quieter forms of strength here, too. Denée Benton’s character, Peggy Scott, is a Black writer and activist navigating racism and sexism with extraordinary dignity and drive. I admire all these women, but I do wish the show would slow down a little. There are a lot of characters, and I crave a deeper emotional connection with a few instead of quick glances at many.
Still, visually and thematically, The Gilded Age reminds me that female strength doesn’t have to be loud to matter. It can be strategic. It can be quiet. It can be dressed in silk.
M*A*S*H
Starring Alan Alda, Loretta Swit, and ensemble cast
This might not seem like a “female strength” show at first glance. After all, it’s about a bunch of male doctors in a Korean War field hospital. But watching MASH again, I’ve been especially drawn to Loretta Swit’s portrayal of Major Margaret Houlihan.
When the show began, she was little more than a punchline, "Hot Lips," a caricature of the uptight Army nurse. But over the seasons, she evolved into one of the show’s most grounded, complex, and admirable characters. She found her voice. She questioned authority. She led. She cared. And she never stopped fighting to be taken seriously.
That transformation - the writing, yes, but especially Swit’s performance - is what I’ve appreciated most on this rewatch. In a setting dominated by male egos and wartime absurdity, she became a woman with backbone and compassion. Watching her reminded me that growth is its own kind of strength.
Xena: Warrior Princess*
Starring Lucy Lawless and Renée O’Connor
Xena was the first time I saw a woman on TV who could save the world and look like she meant it. She wasn’t just tough. She was dangerous, complicated, funny, and constantly trying to be better. Paired with Gabrielle, who started out innocent and grew into a warrior in her own right, Xena became a show about transformation, redemption, and partnership.
The series was campy and mythological, full of gods and monsters and moral dilemmas. But beneath all that, it was about two women finding purpose - and strength - in each other.
I was deeply involved in the original Xena fandom. I wrote episode synopses for Whoosh magazine under the name Bluesong, Spoiler Princess. We had a C-band satellite dish and could catch episodes before they aired. That community meant something to me. It was a place where women (and some men) shared their love for a show where the women weren’t sidekicks. They were the story.
Looking at this list, the pattern is clear: I’m drawn to strong women, especially those who fight for something bigger than themselves. Some do it with humor. Some do it with grace. Some, like me, probably do it because no one else would do it for them.
Maybe that’s what I’m really watching for: proof that strength takes many forms - and that women have always had it, even when the world refuses to see it.
*I’ve watched or am watching these shows while walking on the treadmill.*
Monday, May 12, 2025
No Joy in Hacks
Spoilers for Hacks ahead. Maybe. You've been warned.
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My husband and I both loved the first three seasons of Hacks, which shows on MAX. The show is about an older female comedian Deborah Vance (played by Jean Smart) who takes on a young writer Ava Daniels (played by Hannah Einbinder), and how they work together to make Vance's career improve. Together they create a gateway to stardom.
Season 3 ended with Ava blackmailing Vance in order to get the head writer's job as Vance became the first female late night talk show host.
Season 4 has, in my opinion, been perfectly awful.
Oh, it's well acted, and I see accolades online about it, but I have not found anything funny about it. The hostility between the leads has been beyond the pale and so over the top as to be stomach churningly disgusting.
I do not find hate and bitterness funny. I find it sad.
The trampling of a relationship, even one that may be salvaged by the season's end, is nothing to laugh about. I appreciate a little tension as much as anyone, but not vile hatred.
The boss/underling dynamic is overwrought, and the supporting characters are, generally speaking, not helping anything one bit. I don't care about the agent and his co-agent woman, nor do I care about the HR lady who must keep Deborah and Ava from snapping at one another. I don't know the names of any of the other writers for the make-believe late-night show, nor do I care to know them. There has been no reason for me to care.
There have been good moments, and the acting is superb for what it is, but they have taken away what I liked about the show. I liked the relationship between Deborah and Ava, I liked that there was an older woman making friends with a younger woman, and that they both were trying to learn about each other's worlds. That was what I liked.
I don't like the constant sniping and bitchiness.
The show that just dropped offered a glimmer of hope that the last few episodes may turn things around a bit, but if the next episode isn't an improvement, I don't know that I will finish out the season.
Friday, February 07, 2025
Review: The West Wing
Seasons 1-7
- In the first season, the Bartlet administration is in its second year and is still having trouble settling in and making progress on legislative issues.
- The second season covers the aftermath of a shooting at Rosslyn, the 2000 midterm elections, and dealings with a new Congress and sees scandal when the White House is rocked by allegations of criminal conduct and the President must decide whether he will run for a second term.
- The third and fourth seasons take an in-depth look at the campaign trail and the specter of both foreign and domestic terrorism.
- In the fifth season, the President begins to encounter more issues on the foreign front, while at home he faces off with the newly elected Speaker of the House, battles controversy over Supreme Court appointments and oversees a daring plan to save Social Security.
- The sixth season chronicles the quest to replace President Bartlet in the next election, following the primary campaigns of several candidates from both parties, while the President himself attempts to build his legacy but finds his ability to govern compromised by his illness.
- In the seventh season, the President must face a leak of confidential information about a secret Department of Defense program from inside the White House, while the Democratic and Republican candidates battle to succeed him in the general election.
Tuesday, November 19, 2024
My Brilliant Friend - The HBO Series
Tuesday, July 23, 2024
Ugly People Doing Ugly Things
Tuesday, May 07, 2024
Reviews & Complaints
Reviews
We started watching Hacks on Max over the weekend. Highly recommended! Jean Smart is terrific. Wish I'd been watching this all along, but it's a good binge in the nights when nothing else is on but Big Bang reruns.
Also saw the first episode of Maryland on PBS. It stars Suranne Jones, Eve Best, and Stockard Channing. Didn't hate it, it's only 3 episodes, will probably watch it all. I first encountered Surrane Jones in Gentleman Jack on HBO. I liked that series. In Maryland, she's a bit of a sobby thing while her sister is quite stoic. I guess I related a bit more to the stoic one. And who doesn't love Stockard Channing when she shows up in something? The plot is the mother, who passes away, has a secret life on the Isle of Man and the sisters are unraveling it.
***
Friday night, we checked out a new restaurant in Daleville. It's a steak and seafood restaurant, and since I'm giving it C- I won't name it. It was expensive ($70 for the two of us), and LOUD. At first it wasn't too bad when we arrived before 5 p.m. but as the place filled up, it grew so noisy in there that I had a headache when we left (which was as quickly as we could). I don't think we will be going back.
***
While I'm "reviewing," I prefer Food Lion to Kroger in Daleville. Food Lion is bright, it has actual people running the checkout lines, and the prices are lower (on some things). Kroger is dark, the shelves are too tall for me to reach many things up high and they are also too close together, and it looks like an outdated warehouse that someone thought would make a grocery store. It used to not look like that, it used to be bright and had flooring (not the cement floor), and the walls weren't painted black. I don't know who thought this make-over (several years old now) was a good idea but I only go in there for my prescriptions now. Brighten that store up, make it more user friendly! Please, I beg you. (Also, the parking is better at Food Lion.)
***
Complaints
Facebook makes me feel stupid just for looking at it, because there is so much stupid on it. There are some things that aren't stupid, but you have to weed out a lot of stupid to find something that isn't. And sometimes I stupidly go and look at the stupid just to see how stupid it is! Doesn't that make me stupid?
***
I would very much like to see adults act like adults. When did that become too much to expect?
***
People who say the climate isn't changing do not raise cattle and need hay to feed them.
***
Why can't I upload only my contacts to the Apple cloud? It wants to upload everything, and I don't want to upload everything. Just the one thing. My contacts. The rest of it doesn't matter. If I lose the notes or the reminders or the pictures, I don't care, but I do need the phone numbers. If I could just upload the contacts I wouldn't have to pay for any extra storage space, the space that comes with the phone would be plenty. But no, it has to tell me every time I think about uploading to the cloud that I need to buy more storage space. I have it all backed up to my computer but it's in iTunes and who knows if that's even accessible to a newer phone. My phone is an iPhone 5(SE). I have had it since 2017. No, it's not worth anything apparently, so I just keep using it. Why not?
Monday, March 11, 2024
Movies, TV, & Books
Wednesday, February 14, 2024
La Brea (The TV Show)
| Natalie Zea in La Brea |
Wednesday, February 08, 2023
Playing Catch-Up
Tuesday, September 27, 2022
Review: House of the Dragon
House of the Dragon, on HBO, is a spin-off from Game of Thrones.
I enjoyed Game of Thrones, even the somewhat messy ending.
House of the Dragon is no Game of Thrones.
Sunday night as I watched the latest episode, I thought about 40 minutes into that I really did not care if I watched any more of this show.
I do not care about the characters. There isn't a likeable one among them.
Nor do I care who keeps the throne, gets the throne, eats the throne, or does whatever on the throne. I already know who ends up on the throne in 172 years after this prequel, so what does it matter?
I have read reviews calling this masterful, etc., but I find it incredibly boring and boorish. I can find better things to do at 9 p.m. on Sundays.
For a show that premiered as the highest rated show on HBO ever, it has been the quite the letdown for me.
I like fantasy, but this isn't fantasy. This is just Dark Age overkill with a few dragons thrown in.
Entertainment Weekly has called it Epic Fantasy for Dummies, but I would go even further and call it Useless Fantasy for People with No Attention Span. It is so boring you can look away and miss five minutes of it and still know it will continue to be boring when you return your attention to it.
People riding dragons does not make good fantasy. It's just fantasy if the characters are insufferable and the world they're in is untenable.
We will likely tape the remaining episodes and watch them at some point, but this certainly is not must-see TV.
For that, check out Amazon's Rings of Power. Now that's decent fantasy. I'll review that when I've seen the whole season. I don't see myself giving up on that one half-way through.
Wednesday, March 23, 2022
TV and Movie Thoughts
Friday, November 12, 2021
Talkin' TV
Friday, March 05, 2021
Batwoman Review
Batwoman, Season 2, is playing on the CW. I'm recording it and am a few episodes behind. Season 1 was so bad I wasn't going to inflict more of it upon my husband.
Season 2 is slightly better than season 1, so far. That isn't saying much, because the writing in Season 1 was absolutely awful. The acting was fine but the writing was among the worst I have ever seen.
Season 2 had a rough start. The show had to replace character Kate Kane, who was Batwoman, with a new person, Ryan, as Batwoman. The actor who played Kate Kane bowed out after the first season (I could hardly blame her, as bad as the writing was).
The first few episodes have been establishing this new Batwoman. It goes beyond credibility more than once, and sometimes I feel like the show has simply leapt over significant plot holes, but it is an improvement over season 1, to a point.
The writing is still bad, but the introduction of a new villain shows promise. We'll see.
When this show was first announced, I had high hopes for it. I like Supergirl, which is in its final season this spring. I like shows with strong heroines.
But I also like shows with good writing, and Batwoman suffers from a serious lack of imagination.
Wednesday, September 09, 2020
Flu Shot Day
Today was flu shot day. It was also "husband is home and doesn't know what to do with himself day," which means I was a little out of sorts myself.
Tomorrow, hopefully, we will be both be back on our schedules.
I found out early this morning that my name is going to be in a book called Xena: Their Courage Changed the World, which is about the Xena fandom of the late 1990s and early 2000s. I am mentioned because of my involvement in WHOOSH.org, a website devoted to all things Xena: Warrior Princess. I wrote many show synopses for the show, a few articles for the website, and also did some editing for the website owner.
That was exciting news.
I meant to blog earlier but things were simply out of my hands today.
So here's a new song by Sheryl Crow that I really like.
Wednesday, August 14, 2019
Happy I Have Morals
I think this was the second episode. I missed the first one.
The premise is that Billionaire Man will go into some city and in 90 days create a $1 million company. This is to prove, I think, that people who are poor are poor because they aren't smart or can't figure out how to beat the system or something. It's obviously slanted in that direction.
It's propaganda.
To my absolute horror and dismay, in the first minutes of the episode last night, Mr. Billionaire went onto private property (some vacant industry), then drove around back and waded through a pile of tires until he found several good ones. He then STOLE those tires and sold them for $1500 to get his "seed" money for his business. (Actually it was to get him a room because he'd been sleeping in his truck.) I don't know what happened after that because I turned the TV off.
The moral here I guess is that if you're willing to (a) trespass and (b) steal, then you can move forward in life. (Can you see my eyes rolling?)
He is nothing but a crook. If he thinks this is ok, then I doubt he's a billionaire because he did something legal to earn his millions.
This morning I am happy that I am not a crook. I am happy that I know right from wrong, and that I do not believe that just because your bicycle is out next to your house, I have the right to take it. Basically that is what Mr. Billionaire did. Even if the property had been reposed by the city, that land and its contents belongs to the taxpayers and the stuff wasn't Mr. Billionaire's to take.
So I am content to be mediocre and not of great wealth, because at least I have my principles.
I am happy that I have good morals.
Each day in August you are to post about something that makes *you* happy. Pretty simple. And, it doesn't even have to be every day if you don't want it to be. It's a great way to remind ourselves that there are positive things going on in our lives, our communities, and the world. Check out the gal that initiated this here.
Monday, April 29, 2019
Game of Thrones Fatigue
Don't worry, I won't give away anything in case you've yet to see it.
I stayed up until 10:30 p.m. to watch the show, and then stayed up another half-hour waiting on my sweetie. So I went to bed a little later than normal.
Us older folks need our shut-eye time, you know. Can't be out prowlin' around like them young kids. Or the young kids we used to be.
I am enjoy Game of Thrones but I do not rewatch the episodes all the time. I find them gruesome and they have many bad things happen to women. But I like the story line and some of the characters, although everyone knows by now not to like characters in this show because they generally die.
I was thinking back though to my very first "fandom," which wasn't Star Trek or anything like that. No, it was Xena: Warrior Princess, which started in 1995 and came along about the time the Internet was becoming a thing. We were tied into our desktops then and half of us could only access through dial-up with America Online, but it was the first place and first time I ever found myself involved with other people who liked the same TV show to an extreme that others found, well, nerdy or weird, I suppose.
The fandom gave me many friends, a number of whom I am still friends with today, mostly on Facebook. But these are some of the people that I have known the longest now, people who have been on my radar for almost 25 years.
That's a very long time.
Fandoms are interesting. I found myself with trading cards, dolls, comic books - anything Xena-related suddenly became a prized possession. I think most of my collection is now rotting away in the storage shed, with the exception perhaps of the trading cards and one Xena doll that sits on a bookcase.
Now I have a few Wonder Woman dolls on my shelves, but nothing like with Xena. It can be exciting to throw yourself into a TV or movie show, into its world, to visit with other folks who enjoy the nuances and weird eccentrics of a show.
But not to the point of fatigue.
Part of that fatigue comes from GoT not being on for a year and a half. I'm straining my brain trying to remember the characters and why they matter. Or if they matter. Or what they did to bring them to where they are now. But after seven years, those fine details have fled my brain.
Like I said, I didn't rewatch GoT because of the gore and nudity. I can see it once but I have no desire to revisit it. I've not read the books, either, and have no plan to do so. The TV show is all the gore and gruesome I care to deal with.
That said, if you like fantasy, then Game of Thrones is an interesting watch. If you like intrigue and character assassination, it's interesting to watch. There are many elements to it. People who automatically dismiss it because it's fantasy are missing the point.
Fantasy is dream come to life. It also harbors a lot of truth buried beneath the dragon hordes. Fantasy makes you think, makes you feel, makes you empathize with others. Besides, mysteries are fantasies, really. There's no Dick Tracy wandering around out there. Most fiction is fantasy of a sort. I'd argue that the Bible is the most fantastical of all books, really. The Lord of the Rings has nothing on that piece of work.
I suspect people who say they dislike fantasy have never seen a good fantasy. Their loss.



