Saturday, May 18, 2024

Saturday 9: Tunnel of Love




Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) In this week's song, Doris Day tries to convince her lover to share a kiss in the Tunnel of Love. What's your favorite amusement park ride?

A. I haven't been to an amusement park in years. When I was young, I liked the Ferris wheel.

2) In the 1950s, when Doris recorded this song, Tunnel of Love rides were popular in the US. Couples would climb into small boats that only seat two and float through a dark tunnel, accompanied by romantic music. Today less than 100 of these rides still exist. Have you ever taken a ride through the Tunnel of Love?

A. I don't think so.

3) This week's featured artist, Doris Day, made approximately 40 films and a TV series. She said one of her favorite things about being an actress was the clothes. She loved collaborating with the experts who created her wardrobe. Her contemporary, Betty Grable, found all the fittings boring and just let the wardrobe department do their job without offering much input. Imagine you are a performer: Would you be more like Doris or Betty?

A. I'd probably be more like Betty. I generally don't care what I have on, so long as it is neat and clean.

4) There was persistent rumor that, after Doris appeared on Bob Hope's radio show, the two had an affair. She always denied it. Have you ever been the subject of workplace gossip?

A. Probably. But nothing that I specifically recall.

5) Doris never liked to fly, and her fear increased as she got older. After she retired, she refused to fly at all. This caused her to decline lifetime achievement awards and other events in her honor. Have you more recently extended, accepted or declined an invitation?

A. I invited myself over to my father's house so I could take my stepmother a plant on Mother's Day. I'm not quite sure what category that fits in.

6) After show biz, Doris devoted herself animal welfare. She used to say that we should be more sensitive to the loneliness and sadness people feel when they lose a pet. Think of a time when you were grieving. What words or gestures helped you get through the difficult time?

A. Hugs are always comforting.

7) In 1958, when this song was on the Billboard chart, "The Purple People Eater" was also popular. It's a silly song about a creature from another planet. Have you ever seen a UFO (unidentified flying object)?

A. Yes. I saw weird lights in the sky when I was young. But it could have been from air force maneuvers or something. I always considered it to be a UFO though, because I didn't know what the lights were.

8) Also in 1958, Americans were watching 77 Sunset Strip. The show revolved around the LA-based private investigators whose office was at that address. Who is your favorite TV PI?

A. I don't watch too many PI shows. Can I choose Christine Cagney from Cagney & Lacey? She was an investigator/detective with the New York City police force. But not a private investigator.

9) Random question -- In the 1950s, stewardesses used to famously ask passengers, "Coffee, tea, or milk?" If asked that right now, which of these three beverages would you prefer?

A. Tea.

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Friday, May 17, 2024

Odds & Ends

For more than a decade, I have used blog2print.com to print off a hard copy of my blog. I have it all in bound books that take up about 2 feet of shelf space. But alas, blog2print has sent notices that as of May 15, it is no more. My account is still there but the e-mail said it was going out of business. When I received the first notice, I had the first four months of 2024 bound up and shipped to me. But I don't know what to do now about keeping a hard copy.

I do this because blogger is free, and nothing free lasts forever. I have no idea how many blogs Google hosts for free, but one day, I feel sure, there will be a big notice that says, "Blogger is going away," and then what will I do with 20 years of posts? At least this way I have them. I'm not saying that I write great words here. But there are things written here, and pictures posted here, that aren't anywhere else except in those hard copies I have printed out. One day those hard copies may go into a burn barrel, but I want them for now. So I guess I will have to look for another printer company. Anyone use some other company to keep up with their blogs?

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I recently listened to a book called The Whole Town is Talking, by Fannie Flagg (2016). It was characteristic of her writing, but it had a bit of a musing that wasn't what I would have thought to have found in one of her books. In this story, people die and go to the cemetery, where they then talk to one another, sometimes for generations. But some people (already dead) disappear from the cemetery, and no one knows where they go. The reader is left to assume they go somewhere - apparently the Christian heaven or hell - but it's not spelled out.

At the risk of spoiling the book, I will note what Flagg suggested: that they become other living things. She doesn't reveal this until the end, when some of the characters are birds, grass, bugs, etc. In other words, every living thing is spirit.


I have often thought about this myself without actually looking into it (I had to look up what it was called). If one subscribes to more scientific theories of origin, then one must wonder about such things as souls. It is hard to deny that living things have something going on inside of them. A robotic dog isn't going to be as much fun as a real dog, after all. 

All one has to do is gaze into someone's eyes to see that there is such a thing as spirit.

Given that, then, where does spirit come from? If it was here in the beginning, how is that we continue to expand the human population? Where would the new spirits come from as the population grew from hundreds to billions?

If the spirit was a piece of every living thing, then potentially all of the humans were at one time a bug or a fish or a piece of grass, maybe.

I don't know the answer to this question; many people will consider only what they have been taught via their various religions. That's fine. I like to roll the thoughts around in my head, though, to see where they fall. I truly was surprised to find this concept in Flagg's book, but I feel like she introduced the topic in such a way that most people would not find it offensive, but a bit of silly fun.





Thursday, May 16, 2024

Thurday Thirteen

Things that scream "1970s" -

1. Pet rocks

2. School House Rock

3. Bean bag chairs

4. Avocado-colored appliances

5. Hi Fi Stereos

6. Tupperware

7. Wood paneling

8. Lava lamps

9. Mood rings

10. Terrariums

11. Shag carpet

12. Psychedelic posters

13. 8 track tapes

Do you still have any of these items or remember them? I can still quote some School House Rock jingles - "Conjunction junction, what's your function? Hookin' up words and phrases and clauses. Conjunction junction, how's that function? I got and, but, and or to get most of my job done."

At one point I had all of these, except the avocado-colored appliances. I don't recall my parents having those, and by the time I was in my own home that was no longer a thing.

We have a small piece of accent wood paneling in my kitchen. It's hidden under the bar part of the kitchen counter.

My bean bag chair developed a hole, and my husband hauled it to the dump at some point.


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Tuesday, May 14, 2024

Sugar and Salt

Sugar and Salt
Audio Version
Copyright 2022

I haven't been reviewing books for a while, but this one deserves a nod.

This is the fourth Susan Wiggs book I have listened to. If you'd asked me what she wrote before I listened to Sugar & Salt, I'd have said forgettable beach reads. The Apple Orchard was the only one of the four I could recall, and then I only remembered it because it was something about selling the family orchard. That would have stuck with me because I've seen that happen locally. And I live on a farm.

The other books I've read are The Goodbye Quilt, Welcome to Beach Town, and The Summer Hideaway. Honestly, I cannot tell you what they were about unless I go read a synopsis. I had Wiggs on my reading list as one of those authors I listen to or read when I want something light that I don't have to focus on.

But Sugar & Salt is a book to focus on.

This book is a break-out for me as a reader of this author. Wiggs shows she can pack a punch and address important issues with her fiction. Romance? Sure, there's a bit of romance in this book. But this book takes on all kinds of important issues - race, interracial marriage, abortion, rape, guns, and poverty, to name a few.

This book is a gut punch that says, "Hey, look around you. There's a whole world out here and I have a little something to say about it."

I liked what she said and the way she said it. She didn't sugarcoat it, either. In this story, Margo is an up-and-coming restaurant owner in San Francisco. She's reached the peak of her career. Next door to her restaurant is a bakery, owned by a Black family.

As the two family's stories intertwine, we learn lots of back history about Ida B., the Black older retired owner of the bakery, and her son who has taken it over. Then we learn Margo's backstory.

And she has quite the backstory, one of poverty and sadness. I won't go into details because this book needs to be read, but at the end of the book, the author points out that the character of Margo is an amalgamation of many women who have been treated poorly by life, circumstances, and our failing justice system. In other words, while her story may sound like it couldn't happen, it happens all the time.

Wiggs has moved up on my list of authors to look for after listening to this book. I may have found her earlier work to be light, but now I will listen to her with a different ear. She certainly caught my attention with this book.



Sunday, May 12, 2024

Sunday Stealing




1. Write about the best decision you ever made. How did you make it? Was it reasoning or gut instinct?

A. Marrying my husband was the best decision I ever made. I knew I wanted to marry him within a month of meeting him. It was a heart decision.

2. What ONE thing would you change about your life? How would your life be different?

A. I would like to be healthier, which means I would be more athletic, move more, maybe even have friends who like to walk and we'd encourage each other.

3. What is the hardest thing you have ever done? Why was it hard for you? What did you learn?

A. I tried to have a child. It was hard because I failed at it because my body wouldn't cooperate. I learned there are some things I cannot control no matter how much I try.

4. What is your greatest hope for your future? What steps can you take to make it happen?

A. My greatest hope for my future is well, I don't really have one. I'm just hoping for a decent next 20 years.

5. If you can time travel, what will you tell your teenage self?

A. I'd tell my teenage self to exercise, go straight to college, even if it wasn't the place she wanted to be, and to not go into journalism.

6. Write about the most glorious moment in your life so far.

A. I think the most glorious moment was when my husband proposed to me. He did that at the Coach and Four Restaurant (still in business); he had the ring down in his cowboy boot. He asked me to marry him, and I said yes, and he gave me my engagement ring. Then we went to tell his parents and my parents.

7. What did you struggle most with today?

A. A headache.

8. What made you happy today?

A. Talking to a friend on the phone.

9. What did you dislike most about growing up?

A. I didn't dislike growing up. I like being an adult a lot more than I liked being a child.

10. Write about 3 activities you love the most and why you love them.

A. Writing, because it allows me to express my thoughts and share and connect with others; reading, because it takes to places I'd never go otherwise; and playing music, because it centers me and puts me in the moment. It's hard to play music when you are worrying about other things.

11. What has been your best trip so far?

A. That time I fell down in my grandmother's basement and broke my arm when I was 12 was a pretty good trip. ;-)

12. Write a list of 3 things (physical or personality-wise) you love about yourself, and why they make you unique.

A. (1) I'm very loyal to the people I care about. Lots of people aren't. They only think about themselves.
    (2) I have expressive eyes, apparently. My husband says I do, anyway. It's for me to hide my feelings.
    (3) I am interested in many topics and can speak intelligently about a vast array of things.

13. Discuss 3 things you wish others knew about you.

A. (1) I need a lot of hugs.
    (2) I miss being a student.
    (3) I do not ever stop thinking

14. Write about your top 3 personal strengths.

A. 

15. Is social media a blessing or a curse?

A. It's out of the bottle now, and it is a reflection of humanity, for good or ill. Looks like a lot more ill than good, alas.

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Saturday, May 11, 2024

The Northern Lights

A big solar storm sent the Northern Lights all the way to Virginia last night! They were breathtaking. No wonder people trek north simply to see them. Spectacular! I was awed. I've caught occasional glimpses of a little color during these storms, but nothing like this.








From what I see on Facebook, people using cellphones caught more purple colors than my Nikon did. But this is pretty much what we were able to see with our naked eye. My brother who lives about 2 miles away as the crow flies said he couldn't see them except through his cellphone when we were outside about 10:15 p.m. 

Simply amazing.

Saturday 9




Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) In this song, a boy celebrates the life of love he's received from his mother, saying it's more precious than any diamond or pearl. Do you have a piece of jewelry that means a great deal to you?

A. Just my wedding band. 

2) NSYNC licensed their name and likenesses for use on a variety of products, and their official key ring was a big seller. Tell us about your key ring.

A. My "key ring" is the key fob to my car these days. I used to have one that said Hollins College on it, though. I am not sure where that went but I hope I still have it, since the college changed its name to "Hollins University" in the 1990s.

3) NSYNC's lead singer, Justin Timberlake, is now a parent himself with two sons. He enjoys sitting on the floor so they can play Legos together. Today Lego sets for adults and adult coloring books are popular. As a grown up, do you enjoy coloring books or Legos?

A. I went through a coloring phase, but I haven't done it in a long time.
 
4) In 1998, when this song was popular, Seinfeld ended its 9-season run. Were you a fan?

A. No.
 
5) This week's song was chosen in honor of Mother's Day. Some mothers will find themselves treated to breakfast in bed this weekend. Is that a luxury you would appreciate, or would you worry about spilling food on the sheets?

A. I'd just as soon eat at the table.

6) Garrett's Popcorn offers a special tin for Mother's Day (the "O" in MOM is a daisy). When did you most recently have popcorn?

A. I don't eat popcorn, as a rule. So, I don't recall. My husband had some the other night.
 
7) Florists see a spike in sales for Mother's Day, too. Would you rather receive a plant or a bouquet of flowers?

A. A plant. Preferably something I could plant outside.

8) Crazy Sam's own mother is big on couponing, while Sam thinks coupons simply aren't worth the effort. Are you more like mother or daughter?

A. I don't think coupons are worth the effort either, but I do check the digital ones before I make a grocery run, so I suppose I'm somewhere in the middle.

9) Sam is celebrating Mother's Day with her mother's favorite, Hershey Bars. Would you prefer classic milk chocolate, dark chocolate or chocolate with almonds?

A. Classic milk chocolate, please. Thank you, Sam.

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Thursday, May 09, 2024

Thursday Thirteen


It can be hard to identify toxic traits in oneself or in others. Here is a list of some types of toxic traits.

1. Emotional Manipulation: Trying to control others by guilt-tripping, using tears, or bossing them around.

2. Lack of Empathy: Ignoring other people’s feelings and acting solely based on personal desires.

3. Self-Centeredness: Always putting oneself first without considering others.

4. Hostility: Being blunt, rude, or aggressive, which can leave others feeling anxious.

5. Defensiveness: Reacting defensively to feedback or criticism.

6. Negativity: Constantly focusing on the negative aspects of situations.

7. Jealousy: Feeling envious of others’ success or happiness.

8. Sabotaging Others: Undermining others’ efforts or success.

9. Perfectionism: Setting unrealistic standards for oneself and others.

10. Gossiping: Spreading rumors or talking negatively about others.

11. Blaming Others: Refusing to take responsibility for one’s actions.

12. Passive-Aggressiveness: Indirectly expressing anger or frustration.

13. Dishonesty: Lying or withholding information.

There are many more, such as competitiveness, disregarding boundaries, dismissiveness, or avoidance.

I have trouble with perfectionism, though I expect it only of myself and not other people. Sometimes it can be stifling and lead me to not doing something because I'm afraid it won't be perfect.

I also can be quite negative sometimes. I try to work on the traits I've identified but am not always successful. Some are deeply embedded, such as self-blame, which isn't listed but is something I do. (I say, "I'm sorry," a lot.)

Some of these I picked out of a long list of toxic traits because they seem to fit a certain famous person who is in the news a lot.

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Tuesday, May 07, 2024

Reviews & Complaints

Reviews

We started watching Hacks on Max over the weekend. Highly recommended! Jean Smart is terrific. Wish I'd been watching this all along, but it's a good binge in the nights when nothing else is on but Big Bang reruns.

Also saw the first episode of Maryland on PBS. It stars Suranne Jones, Eve Best, and Stockard Channing. Didn't hate it, it's only 3 episodes, will probably watch it all. I first encountered Surrane Jones in Gentleman Jack on HBO. I liked that series. In Maryland, she's a bit of a sobby thing while her sister is quite stoic. I guess I related a bit more to the stoic one. And who doesn't love Stockard Channing when she shows up in something? The plot is the mother, who passes away, has a secret life on the Isle of Man and the sisters are unraveling it.

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Friday night, we checked out a new restaurant in Daleville. It's a steak and seafood restaurant, and since I'm giving it C- I won't name it. It was expensive ($70 for the two of us), and LOUD. At first it wasn't too bad when we arrived before 5 p.m. but as the place filled up, it grew so noisy in there that I had a headache when we left (which was as quickly as we could). I don't think we will be going back.

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While I'm "reviewing," I prefer Food Lion to Kroger in Daleville. Food Lion is bright, it has actual people running the checkout lines, and the prices are lower (on some things). Kroger is dark, the shelves are too tall for me to reach many things up high and they are also too close together, and it looks like an outdated warehouse that someone thought would make a grocery store. It used to not look like that, it used to be bright and had flooring (not the cement floor), and the walls weren't painted black. I don't know who thought this make-over (several years old now) was a good idea but I only go in there for my prescriptions now. Brighten that store up, make it more user friendly! Please, I beg you. (Also, the parking is better at Food Lion.)

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Complaints

Facebook makes me feel stupid just for looking at it, because there is so much stupid on it. There are some things that aren't stupid, but you have to weed out a lot of stupid to find something that isn't. And sometimes I stupidly go and look at the stupid just to see how stupid it is! Doesn't that make me stupid?

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I would very much like to see adults act like adults. When did that become too much to expect?

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People who say the climate isn't changing do not raise cattle and need hay to feed them.

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Why can't I upload only my contacts to the Apple cloud? It wants to upload everything, and I don't want to upload everything. Just the one thing. My contacts. The rest of it doesn't matter. If I lose the notes or the reminders or the pictures, I don't care, but I do need the phone numbers. If I could just upload the contacts I wouldn't have to pay for any extra storage space, the space that comes with the phone would be plenty. But no, it has to tell me every time I think about uploading to the cloud that I need to buy more storage space. I have it all backed up to my computer but it's in iTunes and who knows if that's even accessible to a newer phone. My phone is an iPhone 5(SE). I have had it since 2017. No, it's not worth anything apparently, so I just keep using it. Why not?



Monday, May 06, 2024

Birds




I am not sure what the bird in the first two photos is. I thought at first it was a red-bellied woodpecker, but my bird book doesn't show all those spots and the black on the chest. Maybe it's a fledgling?

The other is a cowbird at the feeder. I think that's a tufted titmouse in the back but not sure. I'm not the best bird identifier.


Sunday, May 05, 2024

Sunday Stealing




1. Who is your best friend and why? What do you like to do together?

A. My husband is my best friend, but I also have some female friends of whom I am especially fond. We have similar interests and enjoy each other's company.

2. What is your town like? What are your favorite places to go?

A. I don't live in a town. I live in a rural area. We have farmland around us, although there are five houses visible to me. I see cows, deer, turkey, bear, raccoons, squirrels, hawks, various birds, and other critters from time to time. I don't see many people. The seasons change right outside the window; I can watch the trees go from dead to bud to full leaf, see the sky turn from light blue to sunny summer darker blue, see the haze of a hot August, watch the snow fall. 

3. What is your favorite meal? Where and when do you eat it?

A. I don't know that I have a favorite meal. I like to eat baked spaghetti at the cafeteria sometimes.

4. What is your job like? What do you like about it?

A. I don't really have a job. I used to freelance, and I still do a little, but not enough. I liked the writing and editing that I did in the past and I'm pretty good at it. I like learning new things and writing offers that - an opportunity to always learn something new.

5. What is your favorite place to go on vacation?

A. I don't have a favorite place, really. Most of our vacations have been at Myrtle Beach, SC, but I would not be unhappy if we never went back there. I enjoyed Williamsburg when we went there, as well as touring Charleston, SC. I like places where I can learn history, eat a few good meals, and sleep in a good hotel room.

6. What country would you like to visit one day?

A. A long time ago, I wanted to go to Egypt to see the pyramids. But now I think I'd rather go to Scotland or Ireland.

7. What bores you the most?

A. I don't know that I find anything boring. I might find it trying, but there is usually something to learn in whatever I'm doing. Even the laundry.

8. What are you looking forward to this summer?

A. I am glad winter is over. I don't like the cold. I am looking forward to warmer days and seeing the trees all nice and full. I am looking forward to seeing the new fawns in June.

9. What is your favorite film?

A. The Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King. It is the best of the three movies, although I like them all.

10. Do you sing in the shower?

A. Yes. This morning when I showered, I was singing Chevy Van. I have no idea why. But it seemed like a good shower song.

11. What is the best gift you’ve ever received?

A. Just having people love me is a wonderful gift. That's the best gift, having people care enough to want to spend time with me because they love me.

12. Do you prefer being indoors or outdoors? 

A. Indoors. I'm allergic to everything outside.

13. When was the last time you cried, and why?

A. Oh gosh, I don't know. It's been a while. 

14. What do you keep in your bag or handbag?

A. Stuff. A little hairbrush, an asthma inhaler, Dramamine and Benadryl (I get car sick), tissues, lip balm. Nothing out of the ordinary. 

15. Can you play a musical instrument?

A. Yes. I play guitar now. Long ago, I could play the flute, the saxophone, the guitar, the piano, the banjo, the accordion, the mandolin, and probably others I've forgotten. Oh, the ukelele. But mostly I stick with the guitar now.

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Saturday, May 04, 2024

Saturday 9: Rocket Man




Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.
 
1) In this song, Elton John tells us he's taking off for outer space at 9:00 AM. What will you be doing at 9:00 AM tomorrow morning?

A. Taking a shower. That's usually about the time I get to that.
 
2) He sings that even though he uses it for his astronaut job, he doesn't understand science. Was science one of your better classes in school?

A. I liked Earth Science in particular, learning about mammals and soils and such. I wasn't too keen on biology, or dissecting a frog, but I liked learning about the world around me. I was a smart kid who made As in everything except gym, so I can't say it was one of my better classes, but it was one I didn't mind.
 
3) Lyricist Bernie Taupin recalls writing the first verse of "Rocket Man" while stuck in traffic as he tried to make his way to his parents' home. Have you recently been stuck in traffic? If yes, where were you headed?

A. I don't recall the last time I was stuck in traffic. Some people around here think if they hit a red light they are "stuck in traffic," but that's ridiculous. I don't know that I've ever been stuck in traffic for more than 15 minutes.

4) Thinking of cars ... Nigel Olsson, who plays drums and sings back-up on "Rocket Man," is a self-proclaimed "race car fanatic." What hobby are you passionate about?

A. Reading, playing the guitar, and blogging.

5) Davey Johnstone, who plays guitar on "Rocket Man," recently posted on Facebook that he was thrilled to meet Joni Mitchell. Are you on Facebook? Instagram? Twitter? Pinterest? Tik Tok?

A. I am on Facebook and Twitter. I seldom post on either one. I have a Pinterest account but don't use it. I don't have an Instagram or a Tik Tok account. I also don't have a Threads or Truth Social account.

6) Elton John once played charades with Bob Dylan. But only once. Elton laughingly says he can't get over how "hopeless" Dylan was at the game. What's the last game you played? Did you win?

A. We played Scrabble and I lost. My husband hit all the triple letter spots.
 
7) In 1972, when this song was popular, Winnie the Pooh was on the cover the Sears Christmas Wish Book. That year, kids asked Santa for plush Pooh, Tigger and Eeyore. Did you have many plush toys as a child? If yes, do you still have any of them?

A. I had some plush toys, but I do not have any of them now. I don't recall having any that were based on TV or movies, though.
 
8) Also in 1972, TV cowboy Dan Blocker died. He played the middle brother, "Hoss," on Bonanza. Do you enjoy watching westerns?

A. Sometimes they are ok. I did not like Yellowstone, which I suppose one could consider a modern western, and only watched the first 4 episodes before I gave up on it. But Bonanza was ok, as was The Big Valley

9) Random question: What inspires you?

A. Something should, shouldn't it. But I can't come up with anything at the moment.

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Friday, May 03, 2024

Toodling Around a Town

After we left The Old Brick Hotel in New Castle, we decided to walk the block of Main Street to see what there was to see.

This used to be a bank building when I was writing over there.

The Craig County Courthouse from the front.

Main Street. It looked like someone had spruced up the buildings with fresh paint.

They have a brand-new farmers market.

It looks really nice and should be a great addition to the community.

We walked back toward the car, and I said, "Let's go in here." The shop was called The Emporium, and it was set up kind of as an old-fashioned grocery and had a small bookstore in the rear.

I saw a man enter just after us and I thought he looked familiar, but I had written over there for a long time and many people would look familiar. I was looking around up at the front when I heard someone say my last name out loud.

My husband responded, "Well, how are you!"

I went back to discover, to my surprise, a former firefighter who used to work with my husband. He is also my aunt's ex-husband's brother, making him my cousin's uncle. So family. Sort of.

We did not go to New Castle expecting to run into anyone we knew. To run into someone we considered extended family was incredibly unexpected. We hadn't seen this long-distance relative since 2017 and hadn't had much of a chance to speak then as we were at a concert.

We spent a pleasant 15 minutes or so catching up on family news.

Definitely a nice surprise. Given the earlier surprise of finding paperwork that dealt with my father's family in a county that was not known for that family, (plus seeing a camel), we felt like this afternoon drive had a bit of cosmic coincidence going on with it.

Then we drove around the town some more and saw a cemetery that I couldn't recall seeing before:


I really liked the angel on top. I love old cemeteries anyway; they give off such a cool vibe. They don't make statues like that in new cemeteries.

And that was the end of our adventure. We really should get out of the house more often.



Thursday, May 02, 2024

Thursday Thirteen

Spoiler Alert: This discusses some of Amazon Prime's Fallout, in case you haven't seen all 8 episodes. I don't discuss it in great detail, but if you want to miss any talk of it all, there's your warning.

1. We finished watching Amazon Prime's series, Fallout, on Tuesday night. Fallout is based on a Bethesda video game and is set in the future, where the people who "mattered" in 2070 moved underground to live in vaults while whatever was left the world fended for itself. The story takes place 219 years later, so in the 2300 century.

2. The Wasteland, as the world above the vaults is called, is sandy, without much grass or trees, and lots of remnants of the former civilization still showing. Like many other pieces of dystopian literature and movies, Fallout shows the world after some sort of catastrophic war or bombing as being sandy, dry, covered in radiation, and full of strange animals (and humans) who have adapted to this manmade hellhole.

3. The basics of dystopian literature, movies, and video games make certain assumptions about things like:
  • Economic challenges: There’s widespread poverty that the citizens must endure, or there are massive gaps in wealth that create a ruling class of elites and relegate everyone else to a life of scarcity and hardship.
  • Environmental damage: Environmental devastation wreaks havoc on the lives and fates of the characters. This destruction might take the form of major weather events, like earthquakes or floods; climate change and its disastrous effects; or the ramifications of pollution, overpopulation, or disregard for the planet and its finite resources.
  • Government influence: Typically, there’s either no government overseeing law, order, and civilization, or there’s a domineering government that operates a police state and controls and monitors the lives of all citizens.
  • Loss of freedom or individual identity: A dystopian society often robs its citizens of their basic freedoms and/or individualism. It reduces them to sheep who must blindly follow the dictates of a tyrannical and unjust system.
  • Propaganda: The existing power structure in a dystopia produces propaganda to keep the citizenry in line. Such propaganda might present a deceptive “everything is fine“ picture of life in order to control the population, or it might incite fear and terror and, thus, generate an excuse to engage in further domination and subjugation.
  • Survival: The characters in a dystopian setting are in a fight to survive the oppressive conditions in which they find themselves. They must resort to extreme measures to protect themselves and those around them, which usually means rebelling against the powers that be.
  • Technology: Advancements in technology tend to play a key role in controlling or tracking the citizens of a dystopia. Rather than solving problems, technology creates them—damaging relationships, reinforcing hierarchies and power structures, and reducing quality of life.
(If you're paying attention, you might see signs of dystopian society in some of today's events, particularly where it concerns environment, government, propaganda, and technology. I suspect it is why there is more dystopian literature than utopian literature. It's not hard to look around and despair; it is much harder to look around and find hope and love.)

4. I have never played the Fallout video game series all the way through; I have Fallout 4, but I didn't like it. My glasses are too rose-colored, I suppose, to spend the hours required to play that video game. It was not visually pleasing, in other words. 

I have, however, read many dystopian books.

5. One of the first pieces of dystopian literature that I remember reading was Alas Babylon, by Pat Frank. Written in 1959, this book lays out how someone would survive a nuclear crisis in the US after the bombs fell. Of course, this book is older and so it doesn't have many of the technology components a similar book today might have, such as computers and cell phones, but it explored basic survival and outlined the loss of the US government, the devaluation of money (something like sugar and/or salt becomes a more valuable commodity), and tribalism as communities either came together or tore themselves asunder. The book still holds up as it is based on incidents in the Middle East as the ignition for the nuclear war.

6. Another book that had a big impact on me was A Canticle for Leibowitz, by Walter M. Miller, Jr., also written in 1959. (That must've been a big year for concerns about the future of mankind, as things are now.) The book tracks not one person but technological advances (at a monastery, of all places) through thousands of years, until we blow ourselves up again. In other words, the book takes place after we've blown ourselves up the first time, and the monks have dedicated themselves to saving books and other knowledge because the people who survived the apocalyptic carnage were anti-knowledge, anti-books, and anti-society for a very long time. But human progresses, as it seems to do, and apparently we cannot overcome our demons in favor of our better selves.

7. Margaret Atwood has given us two popular pieces of dystopian literature: A Handmaid's Tale, which is frequently referenced at this time as women lose their reproductive and other basic freedoms, and the Oryx & Crake books, also known as the MaddAddam trilolgy which is not referenced but which, like Fallout, presupposes that the wealthy will make out much better than the rest of us poor sots when something happens. In the trilogy, it is not nuclear war that takes out much of humanity, and creates a different sort of world, but a virus.

8. One of the scariest pieces of dystopian literature I have ever read is A Clockwork Orange, by Anthony Burgess. I read it in college, and we watched the movie, too, and it gave me nightmares for months. This book is about a gang of teenagers who terrorize their communities. This book and subsequent movie were full of sexual assault scenes and graphic violence. Like Alas Babylon, it was written before I was born, in 1962, and reflects the Cold War hype and propaganda people were living under at that time.

9. We've moved past the year 1984, but the book of the same name by George Orwell is still relevant and quite dystopian. In this book, humanity has moved onward technologically, and people lose their agency to Big Brother, who oversees their every move and even their thoughts. The government in 1984 is a totalitarian one, which means no individual freedom, the authority of the state/government is absolute, there are no political parties (or elections, or democracy, or any of the things some Americans and other people cherish) and that authority/government controls everything a person does. At least it's not all sand and there is grass and trees.

10. The Giver, by Lois Lowry, is another dystopian book, albeit one that offers nicer surroundings than Fallout. In The Giver, people live in an authoritarian-type of society. The authorities determine who will work in what job, and how the people will live. The book centers around a young boy who takes exception to this lifestyle. However, for the most part, people are portrayed as content in their surroundings and with their work, which is tailored to their skill and intelligence levels. Perhaps this is more a meritocracy run by authoritarian types. This book won the Newberry Award in 1994. It was made into a movie in 2014.

11. Another version of a post-apocalyptic world can be found in The Hunger Games, by Suzanne Collins. Published in 2008, the book trilogy follows the tale of Katniss as she first works in one of the poorer lands left over after war, and then participates in the "death games" put on to entertain the more entitled masses in the capital city. She eventually leads an insurrection against the tyrannical government that supports the death games. Bad government seems to lead to all sorts of problems, doesn't it?

12.  Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury, written in 1953, follows a fireman whose job is to burn books, not put out fires. Because of the censorship of books, this future society has increased interest in technology and entertainment—and an inability to think freely and creatively. Once again, government control is the problem in this dystopian future.

13. And finally, I'll mention some dystopian movies: the Mad Max movies in the 1980s (more sand), Blade Runner, The Matrix movies at the turn of the century (technology issues), Logan's Run (1976), Wall-E in 2008 (climate issues), and the Planet of the Apes movies (1970s and remakes). There are many, many more that I haven't seen.

As oppressive regimes across the globe work to control their populations—and we see our own government in the U.S. putting kids in cages and eroding privacies and rights we’ve taken for granted—we glimpse where we may be headed. It's no wonder dystopian fiction far outweighs utopian stories, because in reality, most of us never have our happy ever-after.
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