Friday, June 10, 2022

Birthday Tarot Reading: Tarot.com

SELF

Self

THE MAGICIAN

SITUATION

Situation

ACE OF WANDS

CHALLENGES

Challenges/​Opportunities

SEVEN OF WANDS

RECENT PAST

Recent Past

TEN OF SWORDS

HIGHER POWER

Higher Power

THE SUN

NEAR FUTURE

Near Future

QUEEN OF COINS

BLOCKERS & INHIBITIONS

Blockers & Inhibitions

FOUR OF WANDS

ALLIES

Allies

PAGE OF CUPS

ADVICE

Advice

THE TOWER

LONG-TERM POTENTIAL

Long-term Potential

TEN OF WANDS

The Magician
Self
The Magician
The Magician

You have a talent for creating something from nothing.

The Magus symbolizes imagination, creativity and an inventive nature. Your unique intelligence and talent for clever experimentation is a valuable asset. The Magus serves as a catalyst, an agent of change. His influence is a fresh breeze blowing through any situation.

So be playful, and stay open. Don't limit yourself, the possibilities are endless. Try things, see what happens and correct your course as you go. Tease open the minds of those who are watching to see what you will do.


Ace of Wands
Situation
Ace of Wands
Ace of Wands

You have an opportunity to help bring a group to a single, harmonizing focus.

The Ace of Wands in this position reminds us of certain unifying truths. One of these self-evident truths could be coming into focus around you at this time. Perhaps you are being called upon to witness or facilitate the gathering of the collective mind into a single focal point. Such situations are both awe inspiring and educational.

You have an excellent opportunity to rally the troops if you remain non-competitive. Apply yourself for the sake of the collective good and maintain the kinds of high standards that inspire people.


Seven of Wands
Challenges/​Opportunities
Seven of Wands
Seven of Wands

An opportunity to surpass past performances can be enjoyed; rivalry and vindictiveness are indefensible.

When the Seven of Wands is in this position, stay focused on surpassing your current record of performance in a clean, fun, energized way, avoiding the snares of stressful competitiveness. Resist falling back on negative comparisons, vindictive thoughts or actions that disable emotional energy.

Rivalry and petty one-upmanship is not your style -- no matter what people may expect of you. Don't lose your focus, which should be fixed on securing a "personal best."


Ten of Swords
Recent Past
Ten of Swords
Ten of Swords

You are moving forward from a devastating time, gaining distance from tragedy.

With the Ten of Swords in this position, you are just emerging from a very difficult time in which it was necessary to confront the end of a cycle or some kind of dead end. Things will never be the same. With this card, a sense of tragedy can hardly be escaped, but at least with it in this position, you are moving on.

Tragedy is in the past; its influence is waning. You are securing some distance from the defeated state that once prevailed. You are feeling better now. Be grateful. You are healing and things are going to be getting better.


The Sun
Higher Power
The Sun
The Sun

The exceptional circumstances that surround you are the natural result of pure motives and hard work.

Higher Power is blessing you with a shower of rewards. Relax and absorb them. Acknowledge that you deserve it. Let your self-image be enhanced by what the outer world and your spiritual guides are telling you. They are happy with your performance, the value you bring to the world and the optimism you stimulate in others. You are serving as a shining role model. Whatever you touch turns to gold. Even though such a state can't be maintained forever, the residual effect of these blessings will help you deal with the new temptations, challenges and twists of fate.


Queen of Coins
Near Future
Queen of Coins
Queen of Coins

Be prudent. Concentrate on what is most realistic and practical when it comes to your immediate prospects.

With the Queen of Coins in this position, you will soon have a chance to test your dream against reality. The effort and time you have invested in some enterprise or relationship is about to bear magnificent fruit.

We shall see how sensibly you behave when there are no external limits on where you spend your energy, talents and money. To maximize what is good about the Queen of Coins, you should focus on what is practical and sensible. Invest your energy and resources wisely. Otherwise her more exuberant side could take over and your gains will degenerate into one long, expensive party.


Four of Wands
Blockers & Inhibitions
Four of Wands
Four of Wands

Don't allow your independent streak to prevent useful teamwork from happening.

When the Four of Wands falls in this position, it indicates alienation from the very people with whom you could share creative work. No matter why you chose to isolate yourself or to hold your energy back, it is now clear that you will not be fulfilled until you emerge again.

Take action to find those like-minded souls you have been missing and renew your efforts to pursue your dreams.


Page of Cups
Allies
Page of Cups
Page of Cups

Don't overlook seemingly unimportant individuals; you may need their expertise.

The Page of Cups in this position serves as the eyes and ears in situations of power, and humbly gains the trust of decision-makers. With that in mind, never assume that a person's worth is based on rank.

This card holds the key to unlocking a mystery or solving a puzzle. It can inform you about certain developments, motives and patterns of behavior that will greatly advance your goals. The energy of this card can discover information you can't normally get. Be respectful of this service. You can benefit from what It knows.


The Tower
Advice
The Tower
The Tower

You are the one to serve as a catalyst for change.

With the Tower card, think of yourself as an agent of transformation. This self-sacrificing role is likely to create stressful situations. Your vision shows you that a radical change has already been unleashed by forces much larger than mere mortals, and therefore you are no longer resisting.

Now you may be at the forefront, acknowledging and accepting the bracing presence of the future bursting in on the present. Try to mediate the harsher parts of the changes as they unfold, so the most vulnerable are the most cushioned. Acknowledge yourself, as well as the others in your life, who are offering their resources to usher in a better future.


Ten of Wands
Long-term Potential
Ten of Wands
Ten of Wands

Closure will come as you complete your mission with confidence.

The Ten of Wands in this position reveals your potential to complete a long time mission that is very close to your heart. If you continue to stay your course, repeat your energetic efforts as much as needed, and build a solid body of accomplishments, you will succeed at fulfilling the goal you set long ago.

Closure is sure to come, freeing you for other endeavors. The process will have raised your self-esteem. You will possess the confidence of a person who can target an ambitious goal, work toward it systematically and achieve it in no uncertain terms. This experience will give you a strong foundation of trust in yourself, personal strength and reliability.


Thursday, June 09, 2022

Thursday Thirteen

Yesterday was my birthday. I am one year shy of 60. I never thought I'd live this long, really, but here I am.

Lots of things have changed in this long time. Here are some I remember.

1. When I was about 9 or 10, my brother, my two uncles, and me would walk to the Orange Market about two blocks from my grandma's house. We each had 50 cents, and with that we each purchased a comic book (we bought different comics books and swapped them), a candy bar, and a soda. This was a weekly routine. I strongly suspect my grandparents thought the $2 was well worth the peace they obtained when we all went to the store and then came back home and settled in for an hour or two to read the comic books.

2. Man walking on the moon. I was at my grandmother's when this happened. I remember resting my chin in my hands, my body splayed out long, while I watched the event unfold.

3. Music came over the radio, and every Saturday I listened to the Casey Kasem's American Top 40 countdown. When I was about 13, I taped the shows on a cassette player about once a month, or however frequently the top songs turned over.

4. I once had a little Disney jukebox that played songs. This is where I mis-heard the lyrics to Do Re Me. I always thought it was "Te, a drink with Jane and Fred" instead of "Te, a drink with jam and bread." I used to wonder who Jane and Fred were.

5. Nancy Drew was my favorite read, but I also read The Hardy Boys, the Black Stallion books, the Little House on the Prairie books, the dirty books my parents hid under the bed that I wasn't supposed to touch, Wuthering Heights, and a slew of abridged Reader's Digest books because my parents subscribed to those, and I read them all.

6. Prior to all of that, though, were the Little Golden Books. I had about 100 of them, and I can't think now which might have been a favorite, but I loved them. I don't know if they still have these.

7. The Scholastic Book Fairs at the elementary schools were the next best thing to cake and ice cream ever. One of the books I bought there, Miss Osborne the Mop, was a favorite book for a long time. Filled with magical realism, the book showed me that reality can be varied, and magic can make life fun and interesting.

8. Computers were not a thing in school, not even when I graduated in 1981. I remember my brother received an Atari and we had Pong, and then other video consoles and games. Later my mother bought a Commodore Vic 20 computer. I loved that thing and learned to write BASIC programs on it (does anyone still use BASIC?). She then bought a Commodore 64, complete with a dot matrix printer, and I took it with me when I married, and used it to write articles for the newspaper. I could see by then that the word processing power in computers would make typewriters unnecessary, along with other functions. I never thought they'd make newspapers obsolete, but here we are.

9. I learned to drive on a stick shift, and I had windows that one actually had to roll down, and door locks one had to push to lock the door, no air conditioning, and a key that opened the door and trunk. None of this electric start, automatic, use-the-key-fob stuff. That was old school, baby!

10. I remember gas being 25 cents a gallon, and then it crept up to 35 cents, and by the time I started driving, it was hovering around $1. Now it's $4.69 or higher.

11. The Patty Hearst kidnapping was one of the first national scandals to catch my attention. I was so shocked when she was arrested. I had never heard of Stockholm Syndrome but even I could see that she'd been captured and then indoctrinated. I mean honestly, who couldn't see that?

12. Vietnam ended about the time I hit double digits in age, and after that it seemed that, aside from a kerfuffle in the Falkland's (am I remembering that right?), we didn't have much war again until George H.W. Bush invaded Kuwait. I knew, though, that there were hostages in the Middle East that cost Jimmy Carter the election (I was not old enough to vote in the 1980 election), and that things were not settled, but after seeing the carnage of Vietnam in my tender years (even though I wasn't supposed to watch the news), it was nice to see Walter Cronkite and then Dan Rather talk about something other than a war all the time.

13. I remember when John Lennon was shot, and we're still watching people die of bullets. I guess some things stay the same.
 

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Tuesday, June 07, 2022

Chocolate Lush Recipe

Chocolate Lush

This is my grandmother's recipe, which I have revised somewhat, and which I am posting here for posterity.

Ingredients

1 cup self-rising flour
3/4 cup sugar
6 tablespoons cocoa
2 tablespoons shortening
1/2 cup milk
4 teaspoons vanilla
3/4 cup brown sugar
1 3/4 cup hot water
optional: 1/2 cup walnuts or pecans


Instructions
Part 1: Add flour, sugar, and 2 tablespoons cocoa together. Combine shortening, milk, and 2 teaspoons vanilla (and nuts if desired). Add to dry ingredients. Mix until well blended. Spread into 8x8x2 ungreased pan or dish.
Part 2: Combine brown sugar, 4 tablespoons cocoa, hot water, 2 teaspoons vanilla, mix well. Pour over batter in pan.

Bake at 350 degrees for approximately 40 to 45 minutes. The watery substance on top will magically fall to the bottom of the pan, creating a pudding with cake on top.

Cut into squares and serve hot with Cool Whip or ice cream.




Sunday, June 05, 2022

Sunday Stealing

Sunday Stealing

1. What is the best story your parents or grandparents tell about the good ole days?

A. Apparently my great ? grandfather was a Baptist minister who also owned a whore house.

2. The best things in life are . . .

A. blue sky, green trees, and loved ones. And cake.

3. Name a few things that drive you batty.

A. The news, my husband (bless his heart), the kids who think potato chips go in the bag with the Diet Dr. Pepper at the supermarket, and our healthcare system.

4. Name a place you'd like to live and why.

A. I like where I live now, but if I had to move, I would go to Scotland or Norway. I understand the landscapes there are much like Appalachia, plus they have better healthcare.

5. What is the best thing you've ever found?

A. I once found an envelope full of money at Target. But I handed it in and didn't keep it.

6. The best thing that happened recently is . . .

A. My husband has his appointment for his hip replacement. I will be glad to see him out of pain.

7. I admire people who . . . 

A. Say what they mean and mean what they say.

8. What makes you special?

A. I don't think I am special, but I do have a talent for writing, and a good sense of humor.

9. I am looking forward to . . .

A. My husband's surgery being over with.

10. What are some things that scare you?

A. My husband's upcoming surgery, bees, snakes, religious zealots, people walking around with guns, loud noises.

11. What are some complaints you have?

A. The politicians don't listen and neither does anyone else, apparently. The world has turned into one big bulk of noise.

12. I could never live without . . .

A. My husband. 

13. List some things that make you laugh.

A. Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Jeff Dunham, Bill Maher, my friends, my husband, and myself.

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Happy Birthday, Brother!

Happy birthday to my one and only brother, and the best brother ever!






Saturday, June 04, 2022

Saturday 9: Cinderella Rockefella


Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) This record and video were inspired by popular tunes of the 1920s. Looking over your lifetime, which decade produced more of your favorite songs?

A. The 1970s. I listen to more of those songs than any others, and know more of them, too.
 
2) "Cinderella Rockefella" topped the charts in England, yet barely broke into the Billboard Hot 100 here in the States. Still, the number was known to American audiences, performed as a duet on variety shows like The Smothers Brothers Comedy Hour (Tommy and Kate Smith), This Is Tom Jones (Cher and Tom) and The Dean Martin Show (Nancy Ames and Dean). Do you remember watching musical-comedy programs? Did you have a favorite?

A. I remember Dolly Parton on Porter Wagner, Sonny & Cher, the Barbara Mandrell Show, and of course, Carol Burnette. I don't know that I had a favorite.

3) It was written by Mason Williams, a prolific composer and comedy writer, as well as a talented guitarist. He is best known for "Classical Gas," his 1968 instrumental. Do you enjoy instrumentals? Or does a piece of music need lyrics to become one of your favorites?

A. I like instrumentals as well as music with lyrics. At one point, I could half-way play Classical Gas on the guitar, but that was a long time ago. I listen to the soundtrack from Lord of the Rings on occasion.
 
4) This week's featured artists, Esther & Abi Ofarim, were considered the Sonny & Cher of Europe. A married couple, they had hits in the 1960s in both the UK and Germany and were depicted in magazines as the perfect young husband and wife. Fans were disappointed when, in 1969, they quit performing together and divorced in 1970 after 12 years of marriage. Can you think of a couple you knew in real life whose split shocked you? Or can you usually see it coming?

A. Apparently, I am blind to such things, and easily shocked.

5) Comparisons to Sonny & Cher are apt because, as with the Bonos, the wife's show business career fared better than the husband's, post-divorce. Esther's BBC specials were "appointment TV" in the UK during the 1970s. Today, with the advent of streaming and DVRs, viewers don't have to make sure they're in front of the screen when their favorite show airs. Tell us about the last show you watched. Was it live, streamed, on DVR or DVD/Blueray?

A. The last show I watched was Gentleman Jack, and we'd taped it on our DirecTV Genie thing.

6) She had a solo hit with Esther in Kinderland, a collection of children's songs. Can you recall the lyrics of a favorite song from childhood?  Where did you learn it (home, church, Scouts ...)?

A. Oh, Senor Don Gato was a cat! On a high red roof, Don Gato sat! He was there to read a letter (meow meow meow) where the reading light was better (meow meow meow) T'was a love note for Don Gato! I adore you wrote the lady cat! Who was fluffy white, and nicely fat. There was not a sweeter kitty (meow meow meow) in the country or the city (meow meow meow) and she was in love with Gato!

I learned that in elementary school from Mrs. Tingler, who was the music teacher. I remember many songs she taught.

7) Abi continued performing after the split, but more often worked behind the scenes as a record producer and music publisher. Would you say you have a good head for business?

A. I have a medium sized head for business.

8) After they finished school, both Abi and Esther served in the Israeli Army, and Abi saw combat. Have you served in our military? Did you ever consider enlisting?

A. I have not served in the military, nor did I ever consider enlisting.

9) Random question: How many keys are on your key ring, and do you know what each one is for?

A. There are six keys on my key ring, and I know what they are all for. One of them I don't need, I don't know why it is still on there, as the item it fit no longer exists, but I know what it goes to.

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Friday, June 03, 2022

Promises Broken

When I was a child, and then as a teenager, I felt that there were certain promises made from me and from society. I found these promises, sort of, to also be in Tolkien's books, The Lord of the Rings, and from those I took heart that good always overcame evil, provided the people acted appropriately and with regard to one another and did the morally right thing.

From me was the promise to society that I would be a good citizen. I would vote, marry, have children, work a job as necessary, pay my taxes, volunteer my time to my community, and do all that I could for others.

From society, the perceived promise as I grew up was, at the least, a decent life-long job, a pension, Social Security, medical care when I was older, and affordable medical care in the interim years, safety from war and others who might mean me harm, roads upon which to drive, schools in which my children would learn, and a general acknowledgement of equality for all, even though I fully understood from multiple sources that I was not the equal to a man in anything.

I upheld my promise as best I could. Indeed, the only thing I did not manage was having children, and as that was due to a health issue, it was not my fault that said promise went unkept. I have voted in every election since I came of age, I married, I worked numerous jobs, I volunteered with the ladies' auxiliary of the local volunteer fire department, with historical societies, and with the library system. I considered my news writing to be an educational endeavor always, a way of explaining to those around me how their local government functioned and what role it played - or could play - in their lives.

No one has been injured in any extreme by myself, nor have I broken laws or otherwise attempted to do anything that would discredit me or my country.

In general, I feel I kept my promises.

Society has not kept its promises. Since 1980, the general mood of cooperation among members of society had degraded to the degree that we are where we are now, with the demise of our social experiment near at hand, and mass murders every day because instead of societal cooperation and concern for the welfare of one another, as I was raised, we have this mockery of independent self-concern that has somehow replaced the concept of the general welfare as advocated in the first paragraph of the U.S. Constitution.

No longer do we have job security. Health care became more expensive with the middleman of the insurance agency, so much so that now I know people who die simply from lack of care, even though such care might be available to them right next door. Pensions are rapidly becoming a thing of the past; I doubt with great seriousness that Social Security and Medicare will be available to me when I am of the age to use them, and I fear greatly that soon the schools will fall completely out of the public realm, leaving only the wealthy to learn. The roads are full of potholes; I can remember from my youth the days when the roadsides were well-trimmed, and people took pride in their streets and the way their community looked. And as for equality, the rise of nationalism and the degree to which this has degraded into the creation of so many cups of "others" is frightening and sorrowful. I never thought I'd see the day when someone walked around Charlottesville chanting, "Jews will not replace us," or the day when lies filled the airwaves and people believed them. 

To say that we are going backwards to the times of the peasantry and the oligarchy is not out of the realm of thought. Indeed, we are actually there.

I make the mistakes of reading the comments on online posts sometimes, and I am appalled that there are many people (well, mostly white people, and generally men but occasionally a woman), who believe that their right to own a gun outweighs the right of another person to have life.

To say that this astonishes me would be similar to smashing my foot in a vise, because while I know it to be true, to see it written and proclaimed so broadly is, at best, painful. The inaction of multiple administrations and persons of power, regardless of political persuasion, I find to be a complete breach of the social promise of keeping me safe. How can anyone feel safe when every day there are more deaths by guns?

Society made promises. By that, I mean too that the government made promises. These promises are being broken, the entire foundation upon which I grew up, is being completely dismantled. To say that I find traversing this new arena to be as difficult as maneuvering through the maze that trapped Frodo and Sam in The Fellowship of the Ring would be an understatement. Unfortunately, the way out of the maze for them was through Gollum, a two-faced villain who understood how to lead and persuade.

Is this then our Mount Doom? Are we to be led out of the maze by some multi-faceted messiah, a two-faced Smeagal who would see us find our way only to betray us at the end? I fear it to be so.


Thursday, June 02, 2022

Thursday Thirteen

My husband's family owns over 200 acres, and various places have names. This is how I'm supposed to know about where my husband is when he's doing something.

Grandma's old house. This is the original farmhouse. It was built with slave labor.

1. The field beside Grandma's old house.

The field beside Grandma's old house.


2. The field in front of Grandma's old house.



3. The field in front of Mom's house.



4. The triangle field.


5. The field in front of the old house.

The cut field is the "field in front of the old house." The old house
is not visible in this photo. This is from the rear of the field.

6. The big field.




7. The field behind the little green house.

8. The bottom.

9. The pond.

10. Graveyard hill.

There's a graveyard up near the tree line.


11. The shed.



12. Mom's.

13. The glen in front of our house.



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Happy Birthday, Darling

 

Happy Birthday to My Old Man!


Wednesday, June 01, 2022

A Poem

If you had seen what I had seen
The you would be as I have been
Never would you question me
If you could see as I can see.

Like the yarn caught in my thumb
Women's work makes the heart grow numb.
Manly men move hither and yon
Acting as if women's work - is none.

Blunder, bluster, pounding of chest
whilst holding closer to the inner vest
the beauty of life that soon departs
without knowing what is in a heart.

Gather round the corner store
where men boast and often bore
Leaving woman to her home and hearth
or hemorrhaging, giving birth.

Separate loves and separate lives
leading to life's little lies
Too soon the ending comes to be
If only you saw as I can see.

Tuesday, May 31, 2022

Tau Herculids Bust

Last night there was supposedly a great meteor shower, with a peak time at 1 a.m. The astronomy folks were calling it the Herculids, and it was visible near the Big Dipper.

The reason for the shower was a broken comet, SW3. The comet fell apart in 1995 and the debris from it was supposed to be visible. Or so they hoped.

I set an alarm for 12:50 a.m. and took my camera outside. I aimed it at the Big Dipper. I got excited when I counted eight meteor streaks in a few minutes, although they seemed to be outside of the camera's eye.

It's nice outside at night, though the air was a big soupy. I wondered if there was enough haze to keep me from seeing the sky looking like it was falling to earth. That's what I was hoping for, a great show.

And I saw and heard a great show - Mother Nature at her finest hour. The trees around me danced with fireflies, each one apparently dazzling itself with its green light. Fairies flirting about the trees, I thought. The peepers at the neighbor's pond were croaking mightily, too. The air smelled of sweet drying grass from where my husband cut the hayfield yesterday, and something else I couldn't identify. Pollen?

In my peripheral vision, I watched the fairies dance to the froggies croak while I searched the sky for a heavenly display of fireworks.

By the time I came inside, I'd seen a total of 14 meteor streaks.

None of them came out on the camera.

The fireflies did, though.


The green streaks may be meteors, but I'm fairly sure they're fireflies, especially that big fat one at the top.

This is not one of my better star trail photos, either. It looks like I shook the camera at some point, since the lines are a little shaky. I've lightened the picture in effort to see everything the camera captured.

It was a disappointing photo shoot, and not the "sky falling" event I was hoping for, but something a little different.

Everyone should take the time to look at the night sky once in a while.