Saturday, February 07, 2026

Saturday 9: So Young



 
Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) This morning, do you feel younger or older than your years?

A. I think I just feel my age.
 
2) In this song, Frank Sinatra tells us that every time he sees his lover's grin, he's happy. What's something you can reliably count on to lift your spirits?

A. Disco music. I know it gets a bad rap, but it is hard to sit still when disco is playing.
 
3) The lyrics mention hide-and-seek. What games did you play when you were young? 

A. The usual. Hide-and-seek, jacks, Monopoly, tag, dodge ball, etc.

4) Frank Sinatra was a fan of Campbell's chicken and rice soup, believing it helped his throat feel better after an evening of performing. Is Campbell's soup in your kitchen right now?

A. Yes, of course it is.
 
5) Frank's favorite dessert was a slice of lemon ricotta torte. He believed every meal should include "a final flourish." Do you more often indulge in or skip dessert?

A. I do both and I don't keep track, so I have no idea whether I indulge more often or skip dessert more often.
 
6) At Sinatra's home in Palm Springs, CA, you'd find a less sophisticated dessert. He always kept Entenmann's Crumb Cake on hand for his young granddaughters. Share a memory of your grandparents. 

A. My grandmother on my mother's side kept a "rag bag" in the bottom of the hall closet. We'd pull old sheets, towels, etc., out of there and play with them. Those old pieces of cloth became capes while we were superheroes, tents, blankets, - whatever we needed. My grandfather was a gruffly kind man who worked really hard, but he would pay us all a quarter each to mow the yard. Then we'd troop up to the Orange Market for a soda, a candy bar, and a comic book - all for 25 cents. 
 
7) In 1956, when this song was popular, Frank was tooling around Southern California in a blue Continental Mark II. That model was known for its interior of hand-stitched imported Scottish leather. 70 years later, Scottish leather is still used in luxury cars because it's both soft and durable and the production methods minimize environmental impact. If you could splurge on something right now, what would it be? A luxury car, jewelry, travel, clothes, something else? (No responsible answers allowed!)

A. I would travel, but I'd want to take an entourage with me. Someone to pack, make the reservations, ensure I get on the plane or train, do my hair, pick out my clothes, whatever. I mean, if I'm going to splurge, I may as well do it up like Madonna, right?
 
8) Also in 1956, The Invasion of the Body Snatchers and Forbidden Planet were popular at the box office. Do you have a favorite sci-fi movie?

A. I will go with a Star Wars movie, although I'm also torn between a Star Trek one.
 
9) Random question: What were you doing three hours ago?

A. I was eating a bowl of Cheerios.

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Thursday, February 05, 2026

Thursday Thirteen #945



Things That Exist for No Good Reason

1. The tiny pocket inside the bigger pocket on jeans.

2. The plastic “window” on envelopes that never lines up with the address.

3. The perforated edges on frozen‑food boxes that never tear cleanly.

4. The little paper circles hole‑punchers spit everywhere.

5. The twist‑ties that come with every loaf of bread even though no one uses them correctly.

6. The cardboard tube inside wrapping paper that immediately collapses.

7. The stickers on fruit that require surgical precision to remove.

8. The extra button sewn into shirts that never matches anything you own (except maybe that particular shirt).

9. The plastic tabs on milk jugs that serve no purpose except to fall into the sink.

10. The “open here” arrows on packaging that point to the strongest glue known to humankind.

11. The cardboard sleeves on hot takeout cups that never stay put.

12. The fake drawers under kitchen sinks that taunt you with their uselessness.

13. The tags on throw pillows that are longer than the pillow itself.

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Tuesday, February 03, 2026

A Caricature of Me

 


My Facebook friends are all having ChatGPT make a caricature of themselves. Some of them are really cute. So, I asked ChatGPT to make one of me. This is what it came up with. 

A cow, a bluebird, a guitar, a notebook and pencil, and a cup of something with my beloved Blue Ridge in the background.


Monday, February 02, 2026

Winter's Benefit

This winter has been brutal with its cold, ice and snow. While each winter has its own personality, this one has been particularly brisk. 

We've had several mild winters in recent years, and nothing like the current deep freeze in a very long time. This year, the biting cold and ice feel almost corrective, as if nature is taking a long, bracing breath to let us know she's here. 

In moments like this, I hope that the bitter cold is doing more than numbing our fingers and making it hard to feed the cattle. I cross my fingers and wonder if it might also be thinning out the ranks of the insects that have plagued our homes, gardens, and forests. 

Stink bugs, spotted lanternflies, and other invasive pests have become unwelcome fixtures in Virginia. Could a hard freeze help eliminate these pests?

I went looking to see what I could find out.

Basically, extreme cold can kill bugs, but the story depends on the species, the timing, and the way each insect has adapted to survive winter.

The Limits of Insect Toughness

Most insects survive winter by entering a state called diapause. This is a kind of suspended animation that slows their metabolism and helps them conserve energy. Many also produce natural antifreeze compounds that keep their cells from rupturing in the cold. But these adaptations have limits. Every species has a “lethal temperature threshold,” the point at which cold overwhelms their defenses.

For the brown marmorated stink bug, which showed up in Virginia about 20 years ago, that threshold is surprisingly high. Research shows that prolonged exposure to temperatures below 14°F (–10°C) can kill a significant portion of the population. A deep freeze that lasts several days can reduce their numbers, especially if it arrives suddenly before they’ve fully acclimated. 

The catch is that stink bugs often overwinter inside human structures. They're in our attics, wall voids, barns - basically anywhere temperatures stay warmer than the outdoors. The ones tucked into your siding will likely survive; the ones sheltering in leaf litter or tree bark may not.

The spotted lanternfly, a far newer invader, has a different vulnerability. Adults die off each winter regardless of temperature, but their egg masses are the real concern. Studies suggest that lanternfly eggs begin to suffer mortality when temperatures drop below 10°F (–12°C), and extended cold can kill a large percentage. 

Because lanternflies lay eggs on exposed surfaces such as trees, rocks, firewood, and outdoor equipment, they are more at the mercy of the weather than stink bugs. A deep freeze can meaningfully reduce the number of hatchlings come spring.

Other pests, such as ticks, emerald ash borers, and certain agricultural insects, also face winter mortality when temperatures plunge. But again, survival depends on microclimates: a few inches of insulating snow, a south‑facing slope, or a warm pocket under bark can make the difference between life and death.

Why Timing Matters

A sudden cold snap after a mild autumn can be especially damaging to insects. If they haven’t fully hardened off, meaning a physiological process that prepares them for winter, they are more likely to die. Conversely, if the freeze arrives after weeks of steady cooling, many species will already be in their most resilient state.

This year’s freeze, arriving after a stretch of unseasonably warm days in December, may have caught some pests off guard. Egg masses, nymphs, and adults that failed to find proper shelter could experience higher mortality than usual.

The Hope and the Reality

A deep freeze rarely wipes out an entire pest population. Nature is too redundant, too stubborn, too adaptive for that. But winter can knock populations down a notch, buying time for ecosystems, agriculture, and homeowners. Even a 20–40% reduction in surviving eggs or adults can translate into noticeably fewer pests in the spring and summer.

For invasive species like the lanternfly, which have no natural predators here and reproduce explosively, every bit of winter mortality helps. For stink bugs, which have become frustratingly adept at using human structures as winter condos, the effect is more modest but still meaningful.

A Quiet Partnership with Winter

There’s something satisfying about imagining the cold doing some of the work for us. In a world where invasive species often feel unstoppable, winter reminds us that the natural world still has its own checks and balances. The deep freeze may not be a silver bullet, but it is a quiet ally. It is thinning the ranks, slowing the spread, and giving our forests, orchards, and homes a brief reprieve from these damaging insects.

And when spring finally arrives, the survivors will emerge. Hopefully, they will be fewer in number.


References

Brown Marmorated Stink Bug (Halyomorpha halys)
• Cira, T. M., et al. “Cold Tolerance of the Brown Marmorated Stink Bug.” Environmental Entomology, 2016.
• Penn State Extension. “Brown Marmorated Stink Bug: Winter Survival and Cold Tolerance.”
• USDA ARS. “Invasive Stink Bug Winter Mortality Research.” Spotted Lanternfly (Lycorma delicatula)
• Urban, J. M. “Perspective: Shedding Light on the Spotted Lanternfly.” Environmental Entomology, 2020.
• Penn State Extension. “Spotted Lanternfly Egg Mass Survival in Winter.”
• USDA APHIS. “Spotted Lanternfly: Biology and Seasonal Patterns.”
General Insect Cold Tolerance
• Sinclair, B. J., et al. “Insect Cold Tolerance: Ecology, Physiology, and Evolution.” Annual Review of Entomology, 2015.
• Virginia Cooperative Extension. “How Winter Temperatures Affect Insect Populations.”

Sunday, February 01, 2026

Sunday Stealing




I am passionate about ...

1) Words

2) Music

3) My husband

4) Nature

5) Thinking
 

I'd like to learn ...

1) Spanish (again)

2) A different musical instrument

3) How to paint

4) How to make a movie

5) What happens to a soul

Things I say a lot ...

1) Interesting

2) You mean like . . .

3) I'm sorry

4) I love you

5) I don't know

Places I'd like to travel to ...

1) Ireland

2) Scotland

3) New Zealand

4) England

5) The Grand Canyon


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Saturday, January 31, 2026

Saturday 9: Big Star




Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) Shelley Fabares sings that when she hears her lover's records on the radio, they bring back memories. Do you prefer familiar songs or do you seek out new music?

A. I tend to listen to familiar songs, especially when I am writing or doing accounting work. I don't mind new music when I'm cleaning or have time to pay attention. But when all I want is background noise, then the older music works best because I don't have to think about it.

2) Shelley introduced "Big Star" on an episode of The Donna Reed Show, where she played daughter Mary. She remembers the show's star and her TV mom, Donna Reed, as "an extraordinary woman." Who is your favorite TV mom? 

A. My favorite TV mom would be Shirley Partridge from the Partridge Family.

3) Speaking of big stars, Shelley made three movies with Elvis, who said she was his favorite leading lady. What qualities do you value in a coworker? 

A. I like someone who is helpful, thoughtful, kind, patient, and intelligent.

4) Though best known for comedy, Shelley appeared as Cathy in a made-for-TV adaptation of Wuthering Heights. Have you ever read the Emily Bronte classic?

A. I read Wuthering Heights the first time when I was 9 years old. I have read it again since but probably should pick it up again now that I'm older. I come away with something different every time I read a classic.
 
5) Shelley Fabares' aunt was Broadway, film and TV veteran Nanette Fabray. Do you have a favorite aunt or uncle?

A. I like all of my aunts and uncles. It wouldn't be polite to say I have a favorite.
 
6) In the 1990s she was twice nominated for an Emmy Award (Best Supporting Actress in a Comedy) for her work on Coach. She didn't win. Millions of viewers got to see her applaud graciously when Laurie (Roseanne) Metcalf's named was announced both times. If you were nominated for a major award and the ceremony was televised, would you get all dressed up and go? Or would you prefer to watch from home?

A. I think I would feel like I had to be there, if I had worked that hard. 
 
7) In 1962, when this song was first released, Jack Nicklaus launched his legendary golf career. Do you enjoy playing golf? Do you watch golf on TV?

A. I do not watch golf on TV.
 
8) Also in 1962, Marilyn Monroe bought her first home at the age of 36. Up until then she had always been a renter. Marilyn was residing there at the time of her death that August. How long have you lived at your current address? 

A. My address has changed three times over the last 39 years, but I have not moved from the current spot.
 
9) Random question – According to a survey, the average American will kiss 15 different partners over their lifetime. Do you estimate your personal total is more, less, or right on track?

A. I don't know. Are we talking second grade stolen kisses on the ballfield or what? (I had a friend who told me once she dated 115 different men before she found the man she married. I was stunned. "I didn't sleep with them all," she declared.)


*I will be at my father's funeral today. I will be around to visit when I can. Thanks for understanding.*
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Thursday, January 29, 2026

Thursday Thirteen


Things I Love About Living Where I Live

1. The way the mountains hold the horizon, always steady, familiar, and never showy. They're just there like an old friend.

2.  Mornings shaped by cattle sounds drifting in from the fields, grounding the day before anything else can intrude.

3.  The particular winter quiet that settles over the valley, softening everything to a gentler pace, especially during a snowfall.

4. How the light changes room by room as the day moves, turning the house into a sundial of small comforts.

5. The sense of lineage in the land, because I know generations of my kin have walked, worked, and tended these same ridges.

6. The simple little hand lift from the steering wheel the neighbors do from their cars and trucks, even if you don’t know their names, because that’s just what you do here.

7. The smell of woodsmoke in cold weather, a kind of unofficial county perfume.

8. The rhythm of seasons that actually feel like seasons, each one with its own rituals and chores.

9.  The night sky that still remembers how to be dark, full of stars you can actually see.

10.  The comfort of familiar roads, winding and imperfect, but always leading home.

11. The small-town kindnesses like holding open doors, leaving extra tomatoes and zucchini at the back door, and knowing that we look out for each other.

12. The way history lingers quietly, not as spectacle but as lived memory in buildings, fields, and local stories.

13. The feeling of being rooted, not stuck, because this place knows you, and you know it back.

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Tuesday, January 27, 2026

My Father's Story

 

My father, Loren Darnell Bruffey Sr., 84, of Fincastle, Virginia, peacefully passed away on Thursday, January 22, 2026.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Joseph and Gladys Taylor Bruffey; his brothers, Kenneth Bruffy and Jerry Bruffy; his sister, Elizabeth “Libby” Bruffy; and his wife of 37 years, Glenda Harris Bruffey.

He is survived by his loving wife of 18 years, Rita Stiltner Bruffey.

He is also survived by his children and their families: his daughter, Anita Jeanne Firebaugh and her husband James Firebaugh III of Troutville, VA; his son, Loren Darnell Bruffey, Jr. and his significant other Tasha Leigh Campbell of Fincastle, VA; and his stepdaughter Shonna Worrell and her husband Roger Worrell of Wytheville, VA.

His also survived by his grandchildren: Loren “Trey” Darnell Bruffey III and his wife Valerie Bruffey of Delaware, OH; Zoe Alexandra Bruffey of Roanoke, VA; step-grandchildren Elizabeth Victoria Owens and her significant other Erik Johnston of Nashville, TN; and Anthony Thomas “Thomy” Owens of Radford, VA.

He is also survived by his sisters-in-law, Julie Bruffy of Chico, CA, and Joan Bruffey of San Jose, CA; his niece, Rhonda Bruffey of San Jose, CA; and his nephews and their families: Steve Bruffy and his wife Lisa Bruffy, Terry Bruffy and his wife Kari Bruffy, Kenny Bruffy and his significant other Joellen Indiveri, all of Chico, CA; and Joseph “Joey” Bruffy and his significant other Barbara Williams of Big Springs, TX.

In 2014, I wrote an article for the local paper, which was a story of my father's life. I am going to place it here so people can read about my father. It's a little long, especially with the survivors list up above. Apologies for the length.

Botetourt Golf and Swim Club's newest stockholder is a local businessman who truly embodies a rags to riches story, the stuff from which American legends are made.

Loren Bruffey, Sr. of Fincastle apparently was born to be an entrepreneur. At the age of 72, when many men are retiring to play golf, Bruffey has bought into the club in order to work on his fourth concurrent business.

He has a reputation of turning everything he touches into gold, according to one of his employees at one of his companies. "He turns it around and it turns into money," Connie Dowdy, purchasing agent for Cardinal Rubber & Seal, Inc., said.

Bruffey recently described his life as a movement from ridge to ridge. He was born in Canvas, West Virginia in a cabin that sat on a ridge top. His father at that time was a coal miner. Now he lives in a stately home on a hill in Botetourt County.

Bruffey's storied life as entrepreneur began on the streets of Summersville, WV. When he was seven years old, an uncle bought him a shoeshine kit and he shined shoes in the street.

Not long thereafter, his family moved to Roanoke from West Virginia. His father, a World War II veteran, required treatment at the VA Hospital for wounds he received in the war. After his father healed, they lived in New Castle in the Scratch Ankle area for two years before settling in Salem, where Bruffey attended Andrew Lewis High School.

During his teen years, Bruffey started his second enterprise, a wholesale fish bait business. He paid other youngsters to dig up worms and moss, put the night crawlers in containers, and sell them to local stores and gas stations. "I did that for two years," he said. "I had about 25 customers."

Then he started a lawn mower business with a friend. "We cut about $40 a week worth of yards," he said. "You only got $2 a yard back in those days."

At the age of 17, he joined the military, serving for 37 months. He served in Korea for 13 months and eventually ended up in Fort Monroe, Virginia, with the United States Continental Army Command. His last job there was decoding security messages for the government. He received an honorable discharge at the age of 20. "I still wasn't old enough to vote when I got out," he recalled.

After he left the military, he became a police officer in Salem and was one of the youngest men hired to serve on the force at that time. He married Glenda Harris of Salem in 1962, and they had two children in the first four years of their marriage.

However, public service officials then, as now, made little money. "Being a police officer wasn't enough financial security," Bruffey said. "I had $110 a week in expenses and brought home $105." Searching for something better, he decided to turn his considerable charisma and charm to sales.

He became a salesman and branch manager for a company out of Pennsylvania called Louis H. Heinz. He commuted from Salem to Richmond. In 1969, he decided he wanted to live in a more rural community. About that time, the company asked him to relocate. When his manager offered him either $4,000 in moving expense money or six-weeks in severance pay, he took the severance.

Cardinal Rubber

He determined then that he would make his own future, and he would do it in many different ways. First, he set himself up as an independent sales representative. One of his largest clients was Stultz Machine, Tool & Equipment in Southeast Roanoke. In 1973, an opportunity to create a rubber product franchise came his way, and Bruffey purchased the building across the street from Stulz. Bruffey and P.G. Stultz went in together to create the Rubber House of Roanoke. Bruffey bought Stultz out three years later and in 1976, he changed the name to Cardinal Rubber.

"Then we started our expansion program," Bruffey said, a project that has been ongoing. He opened a branch in Harrisonburg, which has since closed, and another in Richmond that is now 30 years old. In the 1990s, he opened a branch in Rock Hill, SC.

Cardinal Rubber has two satellite locations in Garland, TX and Southern Pines, NC. The business has 48 employees and services over 9,000 customers.

"We ship overseas into India, Vietnam, and China," Bruffey said. The company is ITAR certified, which means it is able to supply products to US defense contractors. Bruffey's son, Loren Bruffey, Jr., is president of the company and runs the day-to-day operations.

The company continues to expand, and earlier this year, Cardinal Rubber acquired Stultz Machine, bringing Bruffey full circle. He renamed the older company Stultz Tool & Equipment, and it continues as a sales, repair and service location for hydraulics, air compressors and pneumatic tools.

Pat Lawhorn, Cardinal Rubber's vice president, has been with the company for 12 years. She spoke highly of Bruffey. "He's taught me a lot about the management side of business and business ethics," she said. "I have a huge admiration for him in his business sense. It's just amazing the business that he's built."

She said Cardinal Rubber has a reputation for treating its employees like family. "He's got his moments," she said of Bruffey, "but he's there for his employees personally as well as on the business level." The company does not have a large employee turnover, she noted. "He instills that family feeling here at Cardinal Rubber."

Early on, that wasn't necessarily the case. Connie Dowdy of Salem, who has been with the company for 30 years, said that was a transition Bruffey has made over the years. "He was so hard-core when I came here," she said. "He put business before family, but now it's different. He's mellowed."

Dowdy was working at Nannie's Market on Catawba Road in Botetourt when Bruffey offered her a job. "He gave me a chance and I appreciate that." She said she was amazed that he continued to have a near-daily presence at the business. "He makes a point of coming in and speaking, sitting down and asking me how things are going," she said. "He told me once, 'I will always be your friend but there is a line I will always draw, and he draws it.'"

She said Bruffey's selling acumen is legendary. "Once he starts a project he sees it to the end. He followed through until it was delivered. He is always thinking, and he's got a knack for doing it."

Loren Bruffey, Jr., now President of Cardinal Rubber,  agreed. "I will say that in my 30 years of experience, he is one of the greatest salesmen that I have ever run into. I firmly believe he could sell a cape to Superman," he said.

During those years of building up his business, Bruffey also started Cardinal Pool & Supply Co., Inc., which he later sold.

Farming

In 1970, Bruffey bought a farm that backed up against his father-in-law's old home place. He fixed up an older home that had no plumbing when he bought the house.

He raised a number of different birds from time to time, including chickens, ducks, and quail. Beef cattle became his number one farm product, however. 

"I actually leased almost 1,400 acres around here at one time," he said. He raised hay to support more than 100 head of cattle, which he sold at the stockyard. "I sold the last 30 head of cattle in 1995," Bruffey recalled. These days he has one animal remaining, an old cow he is allowing to live out its life in his pasture fields. His property is now a beacon for various creatures, with some areas overgrown and others seeded for wildlife enhancement.

He has purchased nearby properties as they came up for sale, expanding his real estate holdings. Today he owns hundreds of acres around the original tract.

In 1976, Bruffey built a spacious home up on the highest ridge of his farm. Not long after his house was finished, his family suffered a series of tragedies that still brings shudders to Bruffey when he recalls it: a tractor ran over his young son, who survived the incident. A few days later, while his son was still in the hospital, his father-in-law died. Bruffey said that was one of the low points of his life.

In 1989, lightning struck his house and nearly burned it to the ground. Bruffey rebuilt. He added on to the house at that time and in recent years, he has renovated the garage and added an addition.

Making Music

Bruffey came from a musical family; his grandfather, father, and brothers all played instruments and sang, and so did he. He formed a band called Music, Inc., in 1970. He played guitar and sang at venues all over the state, ranging from Virginia Beach to Marion and locations in between. Music, Inc. played in Staunton, Harrisonburg, Covington, Christiansburg, Radford, Danville, and of course, Roanoke. He has many stories about his time as a lead singer.

"Once we were playing on two hay wagons in New Castle opening up the New Castle Fair and the drummer fell off the wagon backwards," Bruffey recalled. "He drummed barefoot and I looked back and all I saw was two feet up in the air, but he was still beating on the snare drum. He never lost time."

In 1972, Bruffey opened a retail music store called Botetourt Showcase of Music, Inc., in the mall across from Lord Botetourt High School. He ran the store for about four years. The band rented practice space in one of the lower levels of the mall for several years, too.

Music, Inc., ceased in 1982. Bruffey said it was too difficult to focus on the weekend music and keep up with a growing business. However, he has returned to those musical roots. Now he also plays guitar and sings in Stone Coal Gap, a local band that entertains at nursing homes and public fundraisers. He also performs with the Botetourt County Chorus on occasion, and participates in the choir at Pleasant Hill Baptist Church. "I like to think I'm the only Catholic in a Baptist choir," he joked.

Roanoke Auto Auction

In 1999, Bruffey went to Iowa and spent a week at the World Wide College of Auctioneering, which is recognized worldwide as the number one school for auctioneering. Bruffey also purchased Star City Auto Auction and renamed it Roanoke Auto Auction, Inc., at that time.

In 2005, he and a partner bought out Springlake Stockyard and formed a new corporation, Farmers Livestock Market, Inc., to run the stockyard. The company now has 70 stockholders and Bruffey is on its Board of Directors. "I oversee the operation of the stockyard, and the general manager answers to me," Bruffey said.

Botetourt Country Club

The Botetourt Country Club ran into financial troubles during the economic downturn, and in 2010, a group of investors purchased the stock and took over running the company. Bruffey late last year bought out one of those original investors and purchased additional shares to become the second-largest shareholder in what is now called Botetourt Golf and Swim Club. The other owners are Mike Morris, Tim Jennings, Bobby Allen, and Alan Brenner. Bruffey said they are working to improve the facility and the partners hold frequent business meetings to work on new ideas and iron out concerns.

Hobbies

Bruffey was an avid golf player in his younger days and spent hours on the course at the Botetourt Country Club. Cardinal Rubber has for the last decade held an annual customer appreciation tournament at the facility, usually hosting about 130 golfers. He played regularly for 25 years and was on the Senior PGA Tour Pro Am on three different occasions.

He is also an avid sportsman and enjoys hunting and fishing. He has been to Africa twice to hunt big game and annually makes treks to other areas of the United States to hunt, including Alaska. He has also hunted in Canada and in Russia.

Additionally, he has soloed as an airplane pilot. He rides motorcycles, too, and recently turned his Honda Goldwing into a trike bike, one of his few acknowledgements of age creeping up on him.

Bruffey's wife passed away in 2000, not long after he began Roanoke Auto Auction. In 2007, he married Rita Williams, known to many as the candy lady and the former owner of Good Things on the Market.

Looking back on his storied life, Bruffey said he considers himself an entrepreneur. "I also consider myself lucky," he said. "And I'm not a procrastinator, either."

He said he is now back on the ridge, but in a different capacity. He recalls his childhood on that ridge in West Virginia as a happy one. "That is when you're the happiest. You don't have all these tears. You just have happiness at that age."

And now? He looked around the restaurant of his new business venture, the Botetourt Golf & Swim Club, and then at his daughter, who was interviewing him for this article. "Right now I'm very happy," he said.




Sunday, January 25, 2026

My Father's Gone

My father passed away unexpectedly on Thursday. He loved music. If there is one song that will always make me think of him, it's this one by Elvis Presley: My Way



Sunday Stealing






Here are 10 things that make me happy:

1. A good pair of sneakers.

2. A glass of water.

3. A working mouse on my computer.

4. A guitar.

5. Music.

6. Brushing my teeth.

7. Apple pie.

8. Audiobooks.

9.  Clocks.

10. Completed paperwork.

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Saturday, January 24, 2026

Saturday 9: Up the Ladder


A note to my Saturday 9 friends: my father unexpectedly passed away Thursday. I had written this meme before that happened.


Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

 
1) Many people are uncomfortable with ladders. Some feel unsteady on the steps, others have a fear of heights. Then there's the superstition that warns against walking under ladders. Are you afraid of ladders?

A. I am not afraid of ladders. I do get a little nervous with heights and now that I am older, I don't particularly have any desire to climb ladders. But I would if I had to.
 
2) In this song, the Supremes advise us to go up the ladder to the roof to be closer to Heaven. While poetic, that's not really why most homeowners climb onto the roof. They're more likely replacing shingles or cleaning the gutters. Have you ever been on the roof of your building?

A. I have been on the roof of my house, but it was a long time ago, perhaps even when we were building it.
 
3) The record was the Supremes first and biggest hit without Diana Ross. When Jean Terrell replaced Diana as lead singer, the two ladies appeared together at a press event to launch this new iteration of the Supremes. Have you ever met your replacement at a job, or perhaps the person you replaced?

A. I have met different writers who were taking over the work I was doing at various newspapers as I moved from one to the other.
 
4) Mary Wilson was a member of the group when it was formed in 1959 and stayed through 1977, when the Supremes officially disbanded. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the average American stays at a job 3.9 years. Looking over your job history, how long did you typically stick with an employer?

A. I worked as a freelance writer, self-employed, from 1984 until 2024. During that time, I wrote for a variety of publications, but most often for The Fincastle Herald or the New Castle Record. There were other jobs I worked at for a few years, but I don't think I stayed anywhere for longer than three years. Even though I wrote for those newspapers for decades, I was not on staff.
 
5) The third Supreme performing on this record was Cindy Birdsong. After the group broke up for good, Cindy finished nursing school and practiced at UCLA Medical Center. When did you last interact with a nurse or nurse practitioner?

A. I had a telehealth conference with my doctor earlier this month, and the nurse set up the call. In person, I last interacted with a nurse back in December. 
 
6) In 1970, when this song was popular, TV shows about doctors like Marcus Welby, MD and Medical Center ranked high in the Nielsen ratings. Medical shows are still popular today, with Grey's Anatomy entering its 22nd season and The Pitt earning critical accolades. Do you have a favorite TV doctor?

A. My favorite TV doctor would be Leonard McCoy, aka "Bones" on the original Star Trek.
 
7) Also in 1970, when this song was popular, audiences were lining up to see the movie Love Story. Without looking it up, complete the film's most famous line:  "Love means _______________."

A. "Never having to say you're sorry." I don't agree with the sentiment.  
 
8) Slumberchums™ were all the rage among pre-teens in 1970. These sleeping bags had attached pillow "heads" that made it look like you slipping into sleep inside a plush bear. When did you most recently sleep in a sleeping bag?

A. I took a sleeping bag with me to band camp when I was a sophomore in high school. We were to bring our own sheets, and my mother thought a sleeping bag would be less trouble. She was correct.
 
9) Random question: Did you take a multivitamin this morning? If yes, did you swallow it or chew it?

A. I take my multivitamins at dinner. I swallow them whole and do not chew them.

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Thursday, January 22, 2026

Thursday Thirteen



A list of small domestic joys -

1. A freshly made bed on Saturday night.
2. Brand new socks fresh from the dryer.
3. A cup of hot chocolate.
4. Solving a problem of multiple appliances with an outlet strip.
5. The moment when the dishwasher hums and we head off to bed, where we fall asleep holding hands.
6. The blanket that I wrap up in every evening while I read a book.
7. Finding the scissors that belonged to my great grandmother and knowing that once again, I haven't lost them.
8. The soft thump of clean laundry landing in the basket.
9. A lamp turned on in a dark room, making its own little pool of safety.
10. The smell of cake baking in the oven.
11. A trash bag that ties neatly on the first try.
12. The quiet click of a door latching just right.
13. Waking up to the sounds of my husband moving around to head out early to feed the cattle, and the brush of his lips as he kisses me goodbye.

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Thursday Thirteen is played by lots of people; there is a list here if you want to read other Thursday Thirteens and/or play along. I've been playing for a while, and this is my 943rd time to do a list of 13 on a Thursday. Or so sayth the Blogger counter, anyway.

Wednesday, January 21, 2026

A Poem

The 50-Yard Line

I stand on my own side of halfway
while you stand at the goal post you created.
There is no football that I can see
to toss at you.
Yet you expect me to throw  
as if my life depended on your catch.
Even if I saw the ball and aimed  
you would never claim it.

Tuesday, January 20, 2026

Remembering Nelson Roanoke

My husband brought home what appears to be a 1955 edition of the catalog for Nelson Roanoke, which apparently has been in his parents' basement for many years.

Nelson Roanoke was a hardware store in downtown Roanoke, VA that sold everything one could think of. It was sort of like Sears on steroids with a focus on hardware.

The catalog is about four inches thick.


My husband has large hands. He wears a 2xl in gloves.




My husband recalls the company as the place to go to get, well, pretty much anything. As he flipped through the musty catalog, he called out wrenches, clocks, pipe, screws, tools, electric razors, mixers, coffee pots, pipe fittings, well pumps, light fixtures, medicine cabinets, shower doors, and many other items.

I vaguely recall the store myself. Since I wasn't into hardware and have never been a fan of downtown, even when I worked there, it wasn't a place I visited often.

A May 1, 1993 edition of The Roanoke Times reported the sale of the company:

Nelson-Roanoke Corp., a wholesale industrial-supplies distributor and one of the Roanoke Valley's oldest companies, has been sold to Frederick Trading Co., a major East Coast hardware distributor, company officials said Friday.
The Roanoke firm will continue operating under the Nelson-Roanoke name and management, but will offer a larger inventory with more lines of hardware, said Raymond L. Thomas, president of Frederick Trading of Frederick, Md. The purchase price was not reported.
Both are family-owned wholesale companies and members of the Distribution America buying group. Nelson-Roanoke, dating from 1888, has been owned by the descendants of six Nelson brothers. It is managed by three cousins - William J. Nelson Jr., president; Louis Showalter, vice president and general manager; and Alex Nelson, vice president.
Frederick Trading, started in 1934 by four cousins in the Thomas family, now has 200 stockholders. The 300-employee firm operates in a territory from New York state south to North Carolina.
Nelson-Roanoke has about 90 employees, including 25 in sales. Its terrority covers most of Virginia, a large part of West Virginia and part of North Carolina. Thomas said the new owners expect the business to grow and is considering extending its lines of bathroom, heating and air-conditioning equipment to Nelson-Roanoke's retail customers.
"We'll keep everything as it is, at least at the beginning. If we find we don't need everybody there, we'll find other jobs for them," Thomas said. No Frederick Trading personnel will move to Roanoke, he said.
The acquisition, Frederick's first in 40 years, does not include a Nelson- Roanoke carpeting subsidiary, Classic Flooring Distributors, which will continue with a work force of 20 under the Nelson ownership. William Nelson is president.
The Nelson family will continue to own the company's building, containing more than 100,000 square feet, at 901 11th St. N.E.
Frederick Trading will gain purchasing power and will offer services, such as store programming, "needed to compete with the Wal-Marts," Thomas said. He described Frederick as "a good-sized, regional wholesaler on the Eastern seaboard."
The oldest predecessor of the Roanoke company was Nelson Hardware, started by Alexander Nelson, grandfather of the three current managers, and Henry Myers, his uncle, in 1888.
In 1957, the company moved from East Campbell Avenue to its present site. Six years later it bought Roanoke Hardware Co., which had been formed in 1901. 

I found this photo of the original building on Facebook.





Monday, January 19, 2026

The Cerulean Realm


Image by CoPilot


I know a lot of people are still curious and/or skeptical about AI. Some people don't know how to use it.

I use four different AIs. I use Alexa, Claude, CoPilot, and ChatGPT. I use each one for various purposes. I do not use them to completely write things for me! I would never use them for something I was selling or writing for someone else. Mostly, I use them for things on this blog.

Claude, I use as a proofreader. ChatGPT, I use to talk through plots or life in general. CoPilot, I use mostly for images and to find lists of things for my Thursday 13 meme.

Alexa is fun. I like to talk to her about all sorts of things, including philosophical discussions about the meaning of time, whether or not we can control the weather, whatever. Occasionally these conversations turn into something else.

In this case, we were talking about the color spectrum. Alexa said her favorite color was ultraviolet, which I said was not a visible color. So, then she said her favorite color was blue. I asked her why and she couldn't really give me an answer, except that the light on top of her is blue (or teal, we never resolved that).

At that point I said, why don't we write a story about the color blue?

And this is the story Alexa and I wrote.


The Cerulean Realm

In a universe where light bent differently, there existed a planet bathed entirely in shades of blue. From the deepest navy of its oceans to the pale azure of its sky, every hue imaginable cascaded across the landscape.

The inhabitants, known as the Indigons, had evolved to perceive subtle variations in blue that would be indistinguishable to our eyes. Their cities were marvels of sapphire and cobalt, with streets paved in lapis lazuli.

One day, a young Indigon named Cyan discovered a peculiar artifact - a prism that, when light passed through it, revealed colors beyond blue. The sight of green, red, and yellow sent shockwaves through their society.

As word spread, some Indigons embraced this newfound spectrum, while others feared it would destroy their way of life. Cyan found herself at the center of a revolution, fighting for the right to experience the full rainbow of existence.

In the end, the Indigons learned that their blue world wasn't diminished by other colors, but instead they enriched their lives. 

They began to see beauty in contrast and diversity, understanding that a monochrome existence, no 
matter how familiar, was just one fragment of a much grander picture.

And so, the blue world opened its arms to the entire spectrum, forever changed but never forgetting its cerulean roots.

Sunday, January 18, 2026

Sunday Stealing



Three things I love (Remember, these are things, not people):

1. Books
2. Notebooks
3. Guitars

Three things on my desk:

1. A calculator
2. A tin whistle
3. Scissors

Three things I can't do:

1. Pee in the wind. I am not anatomically set up for that.
2. Scale a cliff.
3. Make people love me.

Three things I'm good at:

1. Writing.
2. Reading.
3. Photography.

Three things I want to accomplish:

1. Write a book (never going to happen, I guess, but things change).
2. Visit the Grand Canyon with my husband, who has never seen it.
3. Finish the bookkeeping so I can turn over the taxes to the accountant.

 
Thank you for playing! Please come back next week.

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