Monday, August 26, 2013

A Rabble of Butterflies

Down by the mailbox the other day I spied a yellow something fluttering around.



Fortunately I had my camera so I snapped some photos.


These are called "southern dogface" butterflies.


Sounds like fightin' words to me!



They were very pretty in the gravel.


A bunch of butterflies is called a rabble.


These were southern dogface rabble-rousers.

Sunday, August 25, 2013

A middle-of-the day squirrel: Q&A


1. Are you a young heart or an old soul?

A. I have been told by some that I am old soul.

2. What makes someone a best friend?

A. Empathy, good listening skills, and a desire to make the friend a part of your life. Bringing chocolate is good, too.

3. What Christmas present do you remember the most?

A. A blue bike I received when I was 5. Santa put a Batgirl doll on the seat.

4. Tell me a movie/song/TV show/playbook that has changed your life.

A. Xena: Warrior Princess. It was the first "fandom" I was ever involved with, and I made a lot of cyberfriends that I am still in touch with because of that show.

5. Name one physical feature that you like about yourself and one that you dislike.

A. Like: my smile. Dislike: everything else

6. Can money buy happiness?

A. No, but it sure helps pay the bills.

7. What’s more important in a relationship: physical attraction or emotional connection?

A. Emotional connection

8. Is there anyone close to you that you know you can’t trust?

A. Yes.
 
9. Where was your favorite place to go when you were a little kid?

A. Grandma's house.
 
10. Have you spent a night in the hospital?

A. Oh boy, have I ever.
 
11. Do you enjoy being only with 1-2 friends or with a large group of people?

A. Introvert all the way - 1-2 friends.

12. Have you ever been bullied?

A. Yes, and I've been sexually discriminated against, too.
 
13. If your partner wanted to wait until marriage until having sex, would you stay in that relationship?

A. I have been married for 30 years, I don't think this applies to me.
 
14. Do you believe in God?

A. Sometimes.
 
15. Out of all the social networks in the world why use a blog?

A. I like the freedom it gives me to write for however long and on whatever I want. It's my personal outlet.
 
16. What is your quirkiest habit?

A. I sing very loud when no one is home.

17. What is normal? Are you normal?

A. Normal is what the majority of any group deems it to be. I am not normal because I don't really belong to any single group. I live outside the lines.

18. Someone close to you is dying! You have the choice to let this person live for 10 more years but if you do you cause the death of 10 strangers.

A. Ah, one of those questions. Fortunately I am never in this position, and neither is anyone else.

19. What is one thing you could never forgive?

A. Betrayal. This takes many forms - lying, murder, stealing, adultery - all are betrayals.

20. When you’re alone in your own home, do you talk out loud to yourself?

A. Why yes, yes I do.

21. Who is your favorite super hero?

A. I have always had a tie between Batgirl, The Invisible Girl (Fantastic Four) and The Black Widow (Spiderman).

22. Could you be in a long distance relationship?

A. Sure. You didn't define relationship in the question, and isn't friendship a relationship? I have several long-distance friends. One lives in England. We correspond every day. Likely we will never meet. I don't think you can get more long distance than that.
 
23. Do you know what makes you happy?

A. I have a general idea.

24. Who was your first crush?

A. A boy named Jamie.

25. Where is your favorite place to go out and eat?

A. Bellacino's. It's close by, has good atmosphere, and decent food. Plus I can actually hear my companion talk and we can carry on a conversation. That's rare these days.

26. Are you an early bird or night owl?

A. I'm a middle-of-the day squirrel.

27. Give me an unpopular opinion you have.

A. I think churches should be taxed.

28. Do you believe in giving kids medals and trophies for participation?

A. No. Certificates are okay, though.

29. What song best describes your life right now?

A. The rest is still unwritten. Unwritten by Natasha Bedingfield.

30. How do you express your creativity?

A. Through writing and music. Sometimes through cooking.

31. Describe your neighborhood.

A. Rural farming community with a few kooks and characters.
 
32. Give me the story of your life in 6 words.

A. Rode too hard, put up wet.


From Sunday Stealing

Friday, August 23, 2013

The Hollow Tree

On a recent walk, I inspected a tree that blew over in early July.

 
It was hollow inside.
 
 
 
Mushrooms were growing in the tree innards.
 
 
And at the bottom of those mushrooms was a big hole where some critter lives.

Thursday, August 22, 2013

Thursday Thirteen

Thirteen things I like about summer . . .

1. Fresh home-grown 'maters. Yum!

2. Fresh home-grown cucumbers. Double yum!

3. Watermelon. I know you can get most fruits and veggies year round these days, but they certainly taste better when they are in season and come from local markets.


4. Thunderstorms. One of my best memories of my grandfather involves sitting on a back stoop with him, his arm around me, as we watch the lightning streak across an August sky.

5. Green colors. I love that everything looks lush and healthy, especially this year when we kind of missed July altogether and so far have not had that brown, too-hot look that most summers have.

Is this a view, or what?

6. Colorful roses. I love my roses, and though they have not seemed to enjoy the cooler summer, they are still blooming for me.

7. Ice water. That used to be iced tea, but I stopped drinking that in favor of water some years ago. I don't drink ice water in the winter but I enjoy it in summer.

8. Short sleeves. Okay, yes, I wear them year-round but in summer I don't need a sweater, too!

9. Cloud formations. The clouds seem fuller and, I don't know, happier, in summer.

10. Butterflies! You certainly don't see those when the weather turns cold.

11. Fireflies. You don't see these unless it is warm out, either!

12. June bugs. I remember we used to chase them around as a child, and sometimes we were very cruel and would tie a string around their leg and then fly them around. I was six, I didn't know better. I wouldn't condone this today but back then it seemed fun.

13. Summer rains. I can walk outside in the rain during warm weather, something I would not do in freezing temperatures!



Thursday Thirteen is played by lots of people; there is a list here. I've been playing for a while and this is my 308th time to do a list of 13 on a Thursday.

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

August Wildflowers


Queen Anne's Lace


I thought at first this was an anemone or a wood sorrel, but it has six petals, not five like those flowers. After searching through two different guide books, I think this must be a hepatica, a type of buttercup, except it is growing out of season. This is usually a spring flower, but we've had such strange weather I suppose anything is possible. If you have a better name for this wildflower, please share. I like to get the names correct.


Bull thistle. We try to keep this off the farm, as it is hard on the cattle, as they get the thorns in their feet. It grows well by the side of the road.


Goldenrod. This, along with ragweed, is the reason I generally can't be outside from now until we have a heavy frost.

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

A Feather in the Cap

On Sunday I took a walk and I found this turkey feather.


For some reason, I decided to stick it in this tree stump.


It's a feather in the cap. Er. Tree.


I hope it will stay there all winter. I hope the little stump gnome likes its decoration.

Monday, August 19, 2013

Katydid


A hitchhiker who decided my finger was a good place to take a ride.

Sunday, August 18, 2013

Once Was Enough

From Sunday Stealing


Let Me Give Your Heart A Break Meme

Q. Do you prefer a lot of ice in your drinks or just a little bit of ice?

A. No ice.
 
Q. Which condiment (ketchup, mustard, etc.) do you use the most of?

A. Mayonnaise.

Q. Does war scare you?

A. Yes. And it should scare you, too.

Q. Do you know any songs that are older than you are?

A. Yes.
 
Q. Are you comfortable sharing drinks with your friends?

A. Do you mean like sharing the same glass? No. I don't do that with anyone. I won't even drink after my husband. The last time I did that was when I was 18 and I got mononucleosis from it.
 
Q. What season were you born in?

A. Spring, ah the Spring!
 
Q. Have you ever spent over $100.00 on an article of clothing? What was it?

A. Yes, my wedding gown.
 
Q. Do you think you’re too hard on yourself sometimes?

A. Yes.
 
Q. What pizza place do you usually order from?

A. Bellacino's. They don't deliver so we always eat pizza out.
 
Q. Honestly, have you ever mooned or flashed somebody?

A. No.

Q. Do you have a least favorite color?

A. Yes. Orange.

Q. Honestly, have you ever written something on a bathroom stall?

A. No.

Q. Who do you consider to be the king of pop?

A. Michael Jackson
 
Q. Do you know all of the words to any childrens song?

A. Yes.
 
Q. Can you name 3 purple foods?

A. You do realize that you're asking yes or no questions, and those are not conducive to interesting answers, don't you? But anyway, grapes, eggplant, and NeHi soda.

Q. When was the last time you made a pinky promise?

A. Probably when I was eight years old.
 
Q. What celebrity do you wish would have a big comeback?

A. I used to be a big fan of Kate Jackson. It's be all right if she could come back young. The last time I saw her in something on TV she looked pretty bad. Too skinny.
 
Q. Do you think your parents know things about you that you don’t want them to?

A. I'm sure they do but that this point in my life I really don't care.

Q. Have you ever walked into a spider web?

A. Yes.

Q. What grocery store do you usually get your food from?

A. Kroger.

Q. What would be your happily ever after?

A. I'd write a book that was turned into a movie and it would sell a gazillion dollars and my husband could retire and farm full time if he wanted, or go play golf if he wanted.
 
Q. When was the last time you spoke in front of a large group of people?

A. In July.
 
Q. Who is the worst driver you know?

A. I can't think of anyone, really, at least, not in terms of wrecks or tickets.
 
Q. How about the best driver?

A. Me. My husband, however, would beg to differ.
 
Q. Are you shorter or taller than most of your friends?

A. Shorter.
 
Q. Do you know anybody who was born on a holiday?

A. I know someone who was born on February 29. And I know people born close to holidays. And I know one person who was born on Christmas Day.
 
Q. What is one thing you really don’t like sharing?

A. Saliva.
 
Q. Have you ever been hit on through text message?

A. I don't text.
 
Q. What was the last junk food you ate?

A. I broke bad and had a Milky Way Midnight the other day.
 
Q. Do you prefer sweet or sour candy?

A. Sweet.
 
Q. What was the last alcoholic beverage you consumed?

A. In 2011, I had a little blackberry wine. Aren't I the wild thing? 

Q. Currently waiting on something/someone?

A. Not really.
 
Q. What was the last thing you watched on television?

A. A rerun of Cagney and Lacey on DVD.

Q. How old will you be in 12 months?

A. A year older.
 
Q. Do you sleep naked?

A. No.
 
Q. Have you ever held hands with someone in a car?

A. Good grief. I am married and we're still in love after 30 years. We hold hands everywhere we go.
 
Q. Could you go the rest of your life without smoking a cigarette?

A. I don't smoke, so yes.
 
Q. What do you say during awkward silences?

A. I don't say anything. That is why it is called a silence.
 
Q. When will you next see the last person you texted?

A. Again, I don't text. So there. 

Q. Honestly, when is the last time you have been to Texas?

A. 1976. And once was enough.

Saturday, August 17, 2013

Wonderous Beauty


Friday, August 16, 2013

Was It the Golden Goose?



Apparently Jack jumped down from the beanstalk and landed with the Golden Goose in my back yard.

Having never seen a yellow bird around here, I can only guess that this is what happened.

Thursday, August 15, 2013

Thursday Thirteen

An eclectic Thirteen . . .

1. Google recently sent me a nasty note telling me it was going to do away with another of my blogs, the only one for which I have a registered domain name. It seems Google keeps dunning my credit card for $0.00 and my credit card had expired. Google wants you to have an updated credit card all the time, apparently. I don't like having my credit card numbers on Google. Bad Google, Bad!

2. We only managed to plant four things in the garden this year: cherry tomatoes, tomatoes, zucchini, and cucumbers. All are doing very well. In fact my kitchen runneth over with these veggies at the moment.

3. We are having September days in August: this morning I woke up to 50 degree temperatures. I don't think we're going to have a real summer this year.

Mums and Roses
4. Recently I went outside and pulled 8 weeks worth of weeds from my flower bed. I pruned my roses somewhat severely, which I don't like to do in August, but they had been neglected while I was recovering from surgery. Then I put some yellow mums out. It looks so much better!




5. The thing about online friends that you don't know any other way is . . . you don't really know them. Maybe you don't have a telephone number for them or even know a last name. But you care about them anyway, and when something happens to them or they are going through something, you worry. However, you can't really do much more than that and it can be a bit frustrating. I want everyone to be happy and well.

6. Yesterday I saw four turkeys in the field:


7. There was also a mushroom coming up in the side yard. Yesterday it looked like this:



 This morning it looks like this:


8. My book club is reading Flight Behavior by Barbara Kingsolver. I am supposed to like Barbara Kingsolver (but I really don't).

9. I have a storage and organizational issue with my entire house. Sometimes I feel like I need a shovel and a truck. It's not a hoarding issue but it feels cluttered to me. Maybe I need a yard sale?

10. I picked up new lenses for my eyeglasses on Monday. Tuesday I took them back. The doctor examined the prescription and there was no astigmatism correction in the new lenses. No wonder I couldn't see! They are replacing them free of charge.

11. My husband told me this morning that I woke him several times last night as I talked in my sleep. I asked him what I said and he couldn't remember. He asked me if something was bothering me. I told him I thought it was from eating too much cucumber.

12. We are overrun with rabbits. When I had a dog we never had rabbits, and for a few years after she died critters stayed away, but in the last 5 years or so they have decided the yard is fertile ground. Sometimes I miss having a dog.





13. The show I'm into watching at the moment is The Newsroom on HBO. One of my favorite characters is Maggie, though I think a lot of people don't like her. The show this season is different and more character-focused than Season 1. My husband doesn't like this season as well but I do. The characters talk really fast, and my slow southern ears sometimes need a second viewing in order to catch up.



Thursday Thirteen is played by lots of people; there is a list here. I've been playing for a while and this is my 307th time to do a list of 13 on a Thursday.

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

Botetourt County Fair

On Saturday, Botetourt County had its first local fair in at least 50 years.

Prior to this event, the fairs were held at the Fincastle Fair Grounds, and included horse racing and other activities. This year the new fair was held at the Buchanan Carnival Grounds in Buchanan.



This band had a very young singer, who did quite well.
 
 
An exhibit by Mountain Castle Soil and Water Conservation.
 
 
Erica Moore with Mountain Castle Soil & Water
 
 
An overview of the exhibors set up at the Buchanan Carnival Grounds.
 
 
Ikenberry Orchards sold fruits and veggies.
 
 
This fellow needed to see a man about a horse. . .
 
 
Waiting to show the cattle . .
 
 
A prize-winning pie . .
 
 
Prize-winning photos
 
An interesting exhibit
 
 
More cattle.
 
 
Prize-winning jams
 
 
Lots of ribbons, eh?
 
 
Mr. Bill the goat.
 
Arnold the pig.

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Three Miles of Fence

In late May I blogged about a new well on the farm and indicated it was part of a larger project.

That project is well underway, though not quite half complete.

We have embarked upon what is known as "best management practices" in our farming techniques. The reasons for this are many, but the biggest one is to fence the cattle out of the ponds and creeks that crisscross the farm property.

Why would we do this?

Because it is good for the environment, and because eventually the government is going to force us to. On our farm are several springs, which, along with springs and run-offs from neighboring farms, eventually feed into the Roanoke River. These springs turn into small streams, one of which is Carvin's Creek, which feeds Carvin's Cove, from which Roanoke City gets its water.

Carvin's Creek turns into Tinker Creek and a little ways down Tinker runs into the Roanoke River, making all of these little springs in this vicinity the headwaters for those creeks as well as feeders into the Roanoke River.

In plainer language, Roanoke City folks ultimately are drinking our cow pee. Sure, it's purified, but I won't drink city water. I know where it comes from!

The Virginia Department of Environmental Quality and similar organizations have been holding meetings about the water quality of all of these small streams. The goal is to fence livestock from all of these waters eventually. Right now the program is voluntary, and we are working hard to implement this project.

The first step was drilling the well.

The second step was running water lines. By the time my husband has run water lines for six cattle watering stations, he will have run more than 1.5 miles of water line.


This is a cattle watering station.


The cattle put their noses into these holes, which my husband demonstrated, and the water comes up. This is where they will get a drink. My husband says the cows smell the water.





This is the watering station as it looks from a distance.


 
 


This is an incomplete watering station. The line has been run from the well, which is about 1/3 of a mile away.
 
The other part of this project involves fencing.



Not only the ponds but also the little feeder streams going to the ponds have to be fenced off. The lines will be 30 feet back from the water sources.




New fencing going up around one of the ponds.



The fencing also takes in a few areas of marshland.

Additionally, the project calls for cross-fencing the cattle pastures into about five different areas. This will allow us to move the cattle from one field to the other and keep them better contained and allow the grass to grow back in areas where the cattle are not grazing. Right now the farm is only divided in half, so while we already do that it is not to that degree.

So far all of the work has been performed on the far side of the farm, which is about 3/4 of a mile from my house. Once the fencing and water stations are in place on that side, we will move the cattle from this side of the farm to that side, and the work will continue over here.

By the time all of the fencing has been put in place, it will add up to about three miles of new fence line.

Monday, August 12, 2013

Books: At Home

At Home: A Short History of Private Life
By Bill Bryson
473 pages
Copyright 2010

I had not read Bill Bryson's work before, though I had heard of it, particularly his book A Walk in the Woods.

In this book, Bryson explores the stuff and the rooms of a home, particularly his home, and explains how come forks have four tines and things like that.

Since I enjoy things like that, and am a history buff, I really liked the book and the way it was written. Having said that, I confess to not finishing it simply because it made me tired. I was reading this for my book club, and book club came and went, and I have not been too interested in picking this back up because I wanted to read some fiction.

However, I do intend to finish this at some point. I think it is important to note that you could skip around if you wanted and not miss anything, because this isn't a story with a thread of any sort. It's a bunch of interesting facts and annotations and commentary all weaved together, room by room.

I learned a lot in the 275 pages that I have finished and I expect to learn much more when I do come back to this book.

I highly recommend this if you're interested in history and would like to know more about the world around you.

Sunday, August 11, 2013

Something in the way she moves ... meme questions

From Sunday Stealing



Something that’s holding you back from achieving your dreams:

My own lack of self-esteem.


 
Something you think you could win an award for:

My writing (because I have).
 
Something you fear more than anything:

Living in a box under the interstate overpass.
 
Something you wish people would understand:

That society requires cooperation, empathy, respect, and mutual support of one another.

Something that keeps you going everyday:

The idea that there is something more - more to do, more to see, more to feel, more to learn, more to be.
 

Something amazing that happened last summer:

I can hardly remember last week, much less last summer. Nothing really stands out from last summer. This summer will be well-remembered for my 50th birthday, the loss of my gallbladder, a bathroom renovation, and a major farm project, though. All of which are rather amazing.


 
Something you hate that people say:

Um, like, you know.

Something you refuse to pay money for:

Bank fees. I hate fees. You should not have to pay a fee to have your money in a bank. I love small-town community banks because they are much better at not charging horrid fees.
 
Something you wish you could have told that person that you never saw again:

I'm glad we were friends.
 
Something that really stands out about last year:

I received my master's degree from Hollins University in May 2012 (which is spring, not summer). I was 49 years old, which is pretty old to be going back to school.
 
Something you like that everyone else thinks is weird:

Fantasy and science fiction. Not everyone thinks that is weird, of course, but many of my friends do not partake of those particular genres.
 
Something you do when you’re trying to calm down: 

I do tai chi or practice measured breathing. I also eat.


Something you do when you wake up at three AM: 

Get up and go pee.

Something amazing that’s happened this year:

Sigh. Such repetition in these questions. I turned 50. That's amazing.


Something you love doing on cold rainy days:

Curling up with a good book.

Something you listen to when you’re in a really good mood:

The music of the 1970s.



 
Something that irritates you more than anything:

Not being heard.


Something you’re addicted to/can’t stop doing:

Biting my fingernails is a habit I've been unable to break my entire life. I think I am also a sugar addict.


Something that really stands out about you:

I'm a pretty smart cookie and I can think things through to their inevitable end. That doesn't mean I necessarily do things to their end, but I can see the ending. I'm also pretty logical. I've been told I give good advice.

Something about you that’s like everyone else:

I'm fat, I have all of my body parts, my hair is graying, I have scars. Not everybody's fat, of course, but since about 1/3 of the population is I think that counts as "everyone else."

Something that makes you change the channel:

Right-wing anything. Faux News is not allowed in my house.

Something you think about every night before you go to sleep:

What I will do the next day.
 
Something that you don’t think will ever change about you:

The way I care about people.

Something about you that you think will soon change: 

Hopefully my weight.

Something that broke your heart as a child:
My grandfather, grandmother & one of
their four sons.


My grandfather's passing when I was 11 years old.

Something that really sparks your interest:

Good writing. Local government issues. Mysteries.

Something that truly disgusts you:

Dirty toilets, toilet jokes. And vomit. Eww.

Something the opposite gender has complimented you on:

Being smart.

Saturday, August 10, 2013

Books: Notorious Nineteen

Notorious Nineteen
By Janet Evanovich
Copyright 2012
Audio read by Lorelie King
Unabridged
6 hours


I am sure that if I were reading this series of books instead of listening to it, I would have given up a long time ago.

But Lorelie King is such a wonderful reader that I continue to listen to these books in the car.

The stories have grown thin, tired, and predictable, but even so, listening to them read aloud can make me chortle. This is not a bad thing while one is driving on the back roads of my rural county.

In this installment, Stephanie is still out of money, she still gets her cars blown up, and she is still a bounty hunter who seldom catches her quarry. Lulu her faithful companion joins her in her quest to find several nefarious runaways, including a man who stole $5 million from an old folks home and a homeless guy who put up a Hawaiian statue as bounty.

She still doesn't make up her mind about her two love interests, Ranger and Morelli, though it sounds like she is ready to settle with Morelli sometimes. He offers marriage; Ranger offers excitement.

This time the story became just a little too unbelievable for me near the end - Stephanie's reaction to a terrible incident in her apartment was, well, abnormal if you ask me, because she basically has little to no reaction. But it's fiction and I was on the last disk, so there you go.

These are very light reads, but as I said, I prefer to listen to them. If you've never listened to one of these read by Lorelie King, you might check it out just for fun.

Friday, August 09, 2013

A Friend Comes Through


Back in May, I had a hankering for some grape Nehi soda.

I don't know why, really. I don't recall drinking much of this as a child. Perhaps I was channeling Radar O'Reilly (from MASH).

At any rate, I hunted around Roanoke for the soda and could not find it. The best I could do was something called NuGrape at Cracker Barrel Old Country Store.

I asked about it on Facebook. A friend checked for me but couldn't locate it, either. Someone sent me a link for purchasing it online.

The craving passed and I forgot about it.

I met one of my dearest friends for lunch Saturday, and she climbed out of her vehicle with a big box in hand. She asked me to open my trunk, which I did, and she placed the box inside.

"This is part of your birthday present," she explained. She had mentioned when we celebrated my birthday that she'd ordered me something that didn't come in, but I had thought no more about it.

I looked in the box and there they were - six bottles of grape NeHi soda. The old-fashioned kind like we used to have when we were kids.

Don't I have the greatest friends?