Saturday, November 08, 2025
Saturday 9: That Funny Feeling
Thursday, November 06, 2025
Thursday Thirteen
Wednesday, November 05, 2025
Tuesday, November 04, 2025
Blog Blast 4 Peace
Speak Love is the theme for this year's Blog Blast 4 Peace.
Love. It's the thing we all desire, the emotion that many believe will save the world. But what is it, exactly?
When I ask my husband of almost 42 years how he knows he loves me, his answer is, "I feel it in my heart." But he shows me he loves me in a myriad of ways, from small kisses to helping me change the bed linens on Saturdays. Sometimes he even washes my car!
I show him I love him by taking care of him, making sure he's fed, washing his clothes, and keeping the house. These are acts of love, not chores.
Many people confuse love with control, though. A parent might say 'I'm doing this because I love you' while restricting their adult child's choices or demanding obedience. But love that seeks to control isn't really love at all - it's about power. True love empowers and trusts; it doesn't manipulate or dominate.
Other examples of control disguised as love include someone saying 'I love you' while monitoring their partner's phone, isolating them from friends, or making all the decisions. But that's not love - that's possession. Real love gives freedom and respects boundaries.
Throughout history, people in power have claimed to act out of love for 'their people' while restricting freedoms and silencing dissent. But love that demands submission isn't love at all. It's dominance disguised as love.
And love is love, and it's what many of us hope will save the world. It's what Jesus preached:
John 13:34: “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.”
John 15:9: “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.”
Mark 12:30–31: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.”
Matthew 5:44: “But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”
Luke 6:35: “But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High.”
John 15:13: “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”
These verses reveal the radical and inclusive nature of Jesus’ love. It is a love that reaches across boundaries, forgives deeply, and calls us to mirror divine compassion in our own lives.
It is the love that many of us have hoped would save the world. We've hoped for this for over 2000 years, feeling that in the end love will win. But those words have been twisted until they are no longer recognizable in many places.
Love is many things, and I believe each person defines it for himself or herself. What I see as love may be completely different from what others see as love. Perhaps love for someone is about control, and someone who does not submit is someone that person cannot love or believes cannot love him or her.
Sometimes people talk about love and show love in many different ways. Dr. Gary Chapman has identified five "love languages" that people use to demonstrate love. Sometimes if people use one type of "love language" it may not be recognizable to someone who uses another type of "love language."
The five love languages are:
Words of Affirmation: Expressing love through spoken words, praise, or appreciation.
Acts of Service: Showing love by doing things for your partner, such as chores or tasks.
Receiving Gifts: Giving thoughtful gifts as a symbol of love and affection.
Quality Time: Spending meaningful time together, focusing on each other without distractions.
Physical Touch: Expressing love through physical contact, such as hugs, kisses, or holding hands.
Maybe love is all of these things and many more. Maybe love is whatever we want to call it, but I do not believe anything that causes pain, whether physical or mental, can be love. It isn't love to cut off food to starving children. It isn't "love" to destroy. Love creates or nurtures.
There are lines we must draw between love and hate, between genuine compassion and empty words, between actions that build up and actions that tear down.
So, what does it look like to speak love for peace? It might be checking on a neighbor who lives alone. It could be listening - truly listening - to someone whose views differ from ours, seeking to understand rather than to win. It might be volunteering at a food bank, writing a letter to someone who's struggling, or simply choosing kindness when we're tempted toward anger.
Speaking love means acting with compassion, even when it's hard. Maybe especially when it's hard.
I try hard to love in all things, but of course I am only human, and I fail. I cannot always show love in the way someone needs, perhaps because I don't understand what they need. But that doesn't mean we can't try.
Let's all put a little love in our hearts.
Monday, November 03, 2025
Five Things
Last week, I:
1. Went to the chiropractor.
2. Visited the grocery store.
3. Worked on my project with Chad and Sage.
4. Spent a lot of time working out a problem with my camera. I think it has a bad sensor. It still takes decent pictures, but it isn't working in low light like it used to.
5. Wrote a short story.
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In solidarity with federal workers, who were tasked in late February 2025 with listing 5 things they did the prior week in order to keep their jobs, I started listing 5 things I did last week every Monday. On August 5, 2025, the federal government decided this was a waste of employees' time (as if we all didn't know that already). I have decided to keep it up, at least for now.
They Did the Mash
Here are some spooky shots I took recently as we passed houses decorated for Halloween. Some people really go all out.
Sunday, November 02, 2025
Sunday Stealing
1. What was the last thing you laughed at?
2. Who among your friends/family "gets" your sense of humor?
3. What jewelry are you wearing at this moment?
4. If you could offer one bit of etiquette that everyone should follow while dining out, what would it be?
5. What's the first thing a guest would notice when they walked through your front door?
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Saturday, November 01, 2025
Saturday 9: Angie Baby
Unfamiliar with this week's featured song? Hear it here.
1) This week's song is a spooky one about a young man who breaks into the bedroom of a troubled girl named Angie. Their encounter doesn't go well, and he's never seen again. Though there's been gossip, no one knows for sure what happened to him. Does your town have any scary legends that have been passed down through the decades?
2) Songwriter Alan O'Day said he drew upon aspects of his own childhood to come up with "Angie Baby." He was an only child who often stayed home sick from school, with only Top 40 radio for company. What do you recall when you think about sick days as a kid?
3) Helen Reddy said she enjoyed hearing what her fans thought happened in "Angie Baby." Can you think of another song that is open to interpretation?
4) When Helen and her husband/manager Jeff Wald heard "Angie Baby" the first time, they immediately agreed she should record it. She went into the studio that afternoon and in less than 10 days, disc jockeys were playing it and "Angie Baby" became an international hit. When were you glad you acted on impulse?
Questions inspired by Halloween . . .
5) Though best known as a recording artist, Helen Reddy also acted on occasion and appeared as a singing nun in Airport 1975. A nun's habit is a popular Halloween costume. Will you/did you dress up this year?
6) In 2024, more Americans than ever dressed their dogs up for Halloween. Have you ever taken your pup with you trick-or-treating?
8) In years gone by, the Irish celebrated Halloween not with pumpkins but by carving turnips, potatoes and beets. Are any of those foods in your kitchen right now?
9) Some Elvis fans insist his ghost hovers in the trees over Graceland. Have you ever seen a ghost?
Friday, October 31, 2025
A Halloween Treat
The Séance
I arrived at Willow’s McMansion at 11:40 a.m., just as she’d asked. I'd
almost been late: the phone call with my sister had gone longer than expected.
I rang the doorbell and listened to the odd chime of the refrain of
"In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida" echo throughout the huge house.
Willow, wearing her lavishly long skirt, white camisole, and no shoes,
answered the door. "We have to hurry!" she exclaimed, grabbing my
hand. "We have to start at precisely 11:47! That's when the full moon is
at its peak!"
I blinked. "In the daytime?"
"Time is a construct," Willow replied, tugging me past a lava
lamp and toward the kitchen.
The house, as it always did, left me feeling like I'd smoked a joint and
forgotten about it. While the exterior screamed lavish and rich, inside the
place reminded me of a 1970s mobile home, complete with avocado refrigerator
and a harvest gold table with matching chairs.
I ducked under a macrame plant hanger, sans plant, and followed Willow
over the shag carpet and into the kitchen. Steve, Willow's husband, sat at one
end of the table, his mouth filled with popcorn. He swallowed, choked a little,
then grinned. "You made it! I told her you'd show."
The kitchen table was buried under a jumble of scarves Willow had dragged
from the linen closet, The tassels dangled like jungle vines. In the center sat a jelly jar holding a candle, its flame flickering nervously.
My eyes moved from Steve to a few stray popcorn kernels. To me, they
looked like they were wobbling toward the candle. My eyes playing tricks, I
thought.
"Sit, sit," Willow said, pointing at the chair. "Of course
she came, we had to have three. You can't have a séance without three
people."
Steve rolled his eyes and winked at me. "Your old classmate is sure
that this time we're going to call up someone."
Willow, always lithe and breezy, practically danced into her chair. She
leaned across the table, eyes wide, lipstick glowing brilliantly. "Steve,
no laughing. Spirits have very delicate feelings."
"I'm not laughing," Steve said, squinting. "I'm just
questioning why we couldn't do this somewhere else. Like a cemetery or an
abandoned church, like normal people."
"Because the last time we tried that, you fell over a headstone and
broke your wrist, that's why!" Willow whispered dramatically. "So,
here we are!" She waved her hands around, and I followed them as they
pointed toward cupboards and the refrigerator.
Then I sat in the chair Willow had pointed at. My palms felt sweaty. I'd
agreed to document Willow's paranormal "investigations" for a
potential article, but I hadn't expected to be an active participant. Willow
looked at me and smiled. "Spirits need a fresh soul," she said.
“You’re just the blood we need.”
That was a new twist. I couldn’t help glancing toward the knives in their
knife block. Fresh blood? Should I be terrified, or amused? I wasn't sure.
Willow hit her phone and dimmed the kitchen light until only the candle
flickered, though with the curtains open there was plenty of light. "Close
your eyes. Join hands. Focus."
Steve's hand was cool on my left; Willow's trembled on my right.
"Oh spirits," Willow intoned, rolling her r's like she was
casting a spell, "we invite you to join us tonight. We are here for you.
Speak through this table, this candle . . . or one of us, if you must."
Nothing happened. “Om Salabbibi,” Willow said. “Come to us, spirit.”
“Om soybeans and salami,” Steve recited.
The room seemed to shrink. The hum of the fridge stopped and then started
again.
"Willow… did you pay the electric bill?" Steve asked. I opened
an eye to see him smirking.
"Shhh! That was the other side!"
The candle flickered violently, though no breeze stirred.
Willow gasped. "Did you see that? Steve, it's working!"
Steve frowned. "Yeah . . . working for who? The ghosts or us?"
The saltshaker rattled across the table, tapping the candle jar. I
flinched. I thought I smelled a hint of cigarette smoke over the smell of
popcorn. The scent was like the Camels my grandfather used to smoke.
Steve muttered, "Yep. Definitely ghosts. Or a very angry
mouse."
Willow leaned in, eyes gleaming. "No! This is real. Spirits! Give us
a sign! Knock once for yes, twice for no!"
The freezer door creaked.
"They're after my cheesecake!" Steve yelped. He started to
stand up, and Willow forcefully pulled on his arm to keep him in his seat.
The door slammed shut. Candlelight flickered.
The séance was alive.
Steve broke the circle then, shook his hand as if Willow had squeezed it
too tightly, and reached into his bowl of popcorn. "If I'm going to have a
heart attack, I may as well snack."
"Steve! Not during a séance!" Willow said. “You’ve broken the
circle.”
"It’s not going to hurt anything. And crunching doesn't break a
spell," Steve replied.
The candle spat hot wax. Popcorn flew from the bowl across the table.
"Steve!" Willow cried.
The kernels didn't scatter randomly. They spelled a word. We all twisted
our heads to see what it said. LISTEN.
Willow clutched my arm, circle forgotten. "Oh, Laura! I knew you’d
bring us luck. Steve, they're spelling things with snacks! This is
amazing!"
She grabbed my hand and took up Steve’s again. "Oh spirit, give us
your name so that we can help you with your need!" she intoned.
Steve muttered, "Really, Willow," and reached for his popcorn.
It spilled again.
The popcorn spelled out another word: CLAUDE.
Willow gasped. "Claude! The spirit's name is Claude!"
Steve tilted his head. "Claude! Claude is an AI! The AIs have taken
over the spirit world! I wonder what else is there? ChatGPT? Gemini?"
Willow huffed. "It isn't AI. It must be a ghost. Claude the friendly
ghost. Or maybe Claude from accounting."
Willow pressed on. "Claude… tell us something! Knock once for yes,
twice for no!"
A sharp knock came from the cupboard.
"Now we have mice in the cabinets!" Steve announced.
Willow shushed him, then whispered, "Claude likes snacks."
The cabinet door flew open. A box of Little Debbie Oatmeal Creme Pies
tumbled out and hit the floor.
My eyes widened. I couldn't believe it. I used to call those Granddaddy
cookies. I hadn't thought of them in years.
Willow leaned forward, squinting at the box. "Oatmeal cookies? Is
the spirit hungry?"
Steve shook his head. "It’s an AI, I’m telling you. We need tech
support so some guy can tell us to turn a computer off and on again."
A cereal box fell from the cabinet, spilling its contents across the
counter. We all stood up to look, dropping our hands. The cereal spelled:
BEWARE THE TREE.
Willow and Steve moved closer to study the words.
"Beware the tree?" Willow nodded. "I get it. I told you
that we need to get that big dead ash tree cut down, Steve."
"Maybe he means a tree someplace else," Steve muttered. “Maybe
the tech guy is talking about the file tree in DOS.”
I swallowed and felt a throb in an old scar on my thumb. I remembered the
day I’d cut myself with a saw when I was helping my grandfather with a mulberry
that lightning struck. The scar seemed to pulse and grow. It can’t be that tree,
I thought.
We returned to the table and took our seats.
“Om Salabbibi,” Willow said, closing her eyes. “Do you have more to say,
Claude the spirit?”
“I’m telling you it’s AI,” Steve muttered.
The sugar bowl rattled and exploded in glittering crystals. I looked at
the mess in front of me. DON'T TRUST THEM, it said.
Willow tilted her head, trying to read sideways. "Does that say
something?"
“It’s nothing,” I said.
Steve looked at the table, now littered with popcorn and sugar.
"What a way to spend lunch," he said. He couldn't tell there were
words as he was looking at the sugar upside down.
I dropped my head, feeling a headache coming on. The overhead light suddenly
brightened and the candle went out. The séance was over.
Willow clapped. "That was wonderful! Oh, if only we knew who Claude
was! That was fabulous, just fabulous, wasn't it, Laura?"
I started to gather sugar and popcorn with trembling hands.
Don't trust them. Don’t trust who? But I knew, deep down, who I
shouldn’t trust. How could I, I thought, when I know they blame me?
For Willow and Steve, they had made contact, and they were thrilled. For
me, it was a warning.
A warning from my grandfather, Claude.
Thursday, October 30, 2025
Thursday Thirteen
Spooky Short Stories for the Threshold of Halloween
1. “The Lottery” by Shirley JacksonA sunlit village gathers for its annual ritual, one that is cheerful, ordinary, and horrifying. Jackson’s masterpiece of social horror exposes the violence lurking beneath tradition.
Read online (XpressEnglish)
2. “The Yellow Wallpaper” by Charlotte Perkins Gilman
A woman confined for “rest” begins to see movement in the wallpaper. A descent into madness—or a haunting critique of domestic repression and medical gaslighting.
Read online (Project Gutenberg)
A murderer insists on his sanity, but the sound of a beating heart beneath the floorboards betrays him. Guilt becomes a rhythmic torment in Poe’s classic.
Read online (PoeStories.com)
A cursed talisman grants three wishes, but with cruel irony. A meditation on grief, fate, and the danger of tampering with the unknown.
Read online (Project Gutenberg)
In the catacombs beneath carnival revelry, a man exacts revenge brick by brick. Poe’s tale of betrayal and buried secrets chills with its calm cruelty.
Read online (PoeStories.com)
A couple decides to extend their stay past Labor Day only to find that the locals grow strange. A quiet dread builds as the landscape turns hostile.
Read online (PDF)
A utopian city thrives, but at a terrible cost. Le Guin’s philosophical fable asks what we’re willing to sacrifice for comfort, and who bears the burden.
Read online (PDF)
A Southern woman clings to the past and to something more disturbing. Gothic decay and denial culminate in a macabre revelation.
Read online (PDF)
A woman receives news of her husband’s death and tastes freedom, albeit briefly. A haunting twist turns liberation into tragedy.
Read online (Owl Eyes)
A mother worries about her son’s unruly classmate, until the truth emerges. Domestic absurdity masks a darker reflection of childhood and denial.
Read online (PDF)
In a dystopia of enforced equality, beauty and brilliance are punished. A rebel rises—and is swiftly crushed. Satirical, eerie, and disturbingly relevant.
Read online (PDF)
A teenage girl meets a stranger who knows too much. Inspired by true crime, this story simmers with psychological menace and seductive dread.
Read online (PDF)
A young man checks into a cozy bed-and-breakfast. The tea is warm, the pets are still, and the guestbook never changes. Dahl’s tale is quietly terrifying.
Read online (PDF)
Wednesday, October 29, 2025
Battling Bucks
It's time for the rut, and the young bucks are fighting over the does. The larger buck just lay there and watched; I guess he'd already won his fight when I saw these two going at it.
Tuesday, October 28, 2025
Falling Spring Falls
Monday, October 27, 2025
Five Things
Last week, I:
1. Had a haircut.
2. Took a friend out.
3. Went to the grocery store.
4. Worked on my project.
5. Spent my evenings looking at Comet Lemmon through the binoculars. My attempts to take photographs of it were failures.
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In solidarity with federal workers, who were tasked in late February 2025 with listing 5 things they did the prior week in order to keep their jobs, I started listing 5 things I did last week every Monday. On August 5, 2025, the federal government decided this was a waste of employees' time (as if we all didn't know that already). I have decided to keep it up, at least for now.
Sunday, October 26, 2025
Sunday Stealing
I encourage you to visit other participants in Sunday Stealing posts and leave a comment. Cheers to all us thieves who love memes, however we come by them.







