Wednesday, September 09, 2015

Could Someone Explain . . .

I am not in the health insurance business, and have nothing to do with health care except that I use it. I spend a lot of time at doctors' offices these days, and as a result I spend a lot of time looking at my EOBs (Explanation of Benefits) from the insurance company.

What I'd like to know is why we're not all yelling "fraud" from the billings between healthcare providers and the insurance company. And before anyone yells "Obamacare," I know for a fact this has been going on long before that went into place.

Here is an example of my complaint: my orthopedic doctor gave me a brace for my ankle. The company that makes the brace charged my insurance company $92.19 for it. The insurance company "allowed" a charge of $54.69 and paid $43.75 of that, leaving me with a 20% copay of $10.94.

The company sells the exact same brace online for $33.94. If they'd charged the insurance company that amount, my copay would have been $6.79.

Why isn't this fraud? If the company can sell the thing online for $33, why is it okay for them to charge $92, and accept $54?

Here is another example: one of my doctors charged the insurance company $117.00. The insurance company "allowed" only $80.57. I had a copay of $20 so the insurance company paid them $60.57.

So can someone out there explain this to me? I don't understand why this isn't fraudulent. To me it is. If you can sell an ankle brace for $33 and still make a profit, then why are you charging the insurance company $92 only to agree to accept $54? If you will see a patient for $80, why isn't that the charge?

What the heck is all of this "allowable" charges BS? And I bet that it differs from plan to plan. I bet your plan might get charged $192 for the same ankle brace, or maybe it would be charged $72. I guarantee that nothing is same across the board.

This is what is wrong with our healthcare, and it wasn't addressed in the Affordable Care Act, apparently, since companies are still doing these kinds of billings.

Can I be the only person out there who thinks this is wrong?

I remember a very long time ago, if a merchant advertised something at a certain price, that was the price they had to sell it at. If there was a misprint, they ate it. I don't know when that changed, but at some point it did, and it became acceptable for companies to backtrack, change prices, and do all sorts of price-fixing that I long thought was illegal. I suspect the rules changed under Reagan and his deregulation movements, but I can't be sure of that. I'm not a business major, either.




Tuesday, September 08, 2015

Autumn Lighting


Monday, September 07, 2015

Pink Full Moon





The last full moon rose lovely pink. I wasn't home in time to catch it on the horizon, but a bit later I went out to try to capture a few shots of the orb that so fascinates me.

During this little misadventure I managed to bash myself in the face twice with camera. I forgot to tighten a doodad on my tripod. Then I couldn't walk back to the house and my husband had to rescue me.

It's become difficult to take good photos with my limited mobility. It's hard to find the best angle to get the capture when you are limited in where you can place the camera. At least I'm still trying, eh?

Sunday, September 06, 2015

SS: Checking It Twice

From Sunday Stealing

Making a list Meme


1. Do you like making lists?

A. I don't particularly like it, but I do it.

2. Do/did you play sports with your siblings?


A. That was 40 years ago. I am sure I did, but I can't think of anything specific at this moment.

3. Would you rather go to a University or a community college?


A. So long as I am learning, I am fine with either one.

4. What’s your favorite kind of bread?


A. The kind you eat.

5. What toppings do you like on your pizza?


A. I like veggies on pizza.

6. What color or design does your shower curtain have?


A. It's blue.

7. What kind of car does/did your mom drive?


A. My mother's last vehicle was a Jeep.

8. What’s on your cell phone’s home screen?


A. Um. I have an old flip phone. I don't think it has a home screen.

9. Do you like to watch the National Geographic channel?


A. Yes.

10. Are you the type of person to correct the grammar and/or spelling of a survey?


A. I have been known to do so, yes. Sometimes I have rewritten the questions, as I did above.

11. What color is your microwave?


A. Black.

12. Do you have a fan in your bedroom?


A. Yes.

13. Mountain Dew or Sprite?


A. Sprite, but I don't drink colas much.

14. Does it rain a lot where you live?


A. No.

15. Do you shop at Walmart regularly?


A. I shop there but not on a regular schedule.

16. Does it bother you when animals lick themselves?


A. Eww. I've never really thought about it and I have to wonder about the mind that created this question. Seriously.

17. Have you ever been to a Trader Joe’s?


A. No.

18. What’s the longest time you’ve ever been stuck in traffic?


A. I have no idea.

19. Do you wear black a lot?


A. Yes.

20. Are there stairs in your house?


A. No.

21. Have you ever held $500 in cash?


A. Yes.

22. Do you like onions on your burger?


A. No.

23. Could you ever give yourself a shot?


A. I have done it before, so yes.

24. Do you wear shoes in the house?


A. I wear shoes all the time, including in the house. I have problems with my ankle and it requires support.

25. Have you ever worked as a cashier?


A. Yes. I did a little stint in retail back in the early 1990s.

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Saturday, September 05, 2015

Saturday 9: Working My Way Back to You

Saturday 9: Working My Way Back to You (1966)

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) We're celebrating the last holiday of summer with The Four Seasons. Which season is your favorite?

A. Autumn. I like that the weather is cooler and the changing colors of the deciduous trees. I also always loved school and this is the time of year for buying new notebooks and pencils.


Ain't that just the prettiest site?

2) Before they settled on The Four Seasons, they called themselves The Four Lovers, The Romans and The Village Voices. If you were/are in a band, please share the name. Or just make up a cool name for your pretend band.

A. The band I was in during my high school years was called Almost Famous.

Me rockin' it out circa 1979.

3) Lead singer Frankie Valli has occasionally fudged the year of his birth. Have you ever lied about your age?

A. Not that I can recall. I don't really see the point. You were born when you were born.

4) Frankie Valli, Frank Sinatra, Jon Bon Jovi, Bruce Springsteen . . . New Jersey has given us many music superstars. What is your state known for?

A. Virginia is for lovers. We're the Mother of Presidents (8 have come from Virginia). We settled the country in 1607 at Jamestown. My beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains are here. We also spawned Dave Matthews and the Carter family, not in that order. We have Virginia ham, Virginia wine, and Virginia furniture, though the latter not so much these days. We have the great colleges of William & Mary, University of Virginia, and Virginia Tech. My alma mater, Hollins University, was founded in 1842, making it one of the oldest single-sex universities in the country.


Hollins University Chapel

5) In 1965, Frankie was arrested in Columbus, Ohio. But it wasn't his fault! The bandmate he trusted to pay the group's hotel bill neglected to do so. Tell us about a time when your trusting nature got you in trouble.

A.  I once went flying over Botetourt in a two-seater airplane with the county's known drunk. My husband was furious with me.

6) Clint Eastwood directed the movie version of the Four Seasons biography, Jersey Boys. What's your favorite Clint Eastwood movie?

  A. Sigh. I am such a non-movie watcher. I do know, however, that I don't particularly care for Clint Eastwood and never have. The only movie I remember without looking anything up is The Outlaw Josey Wales.


Since Labor Day is the holiday established to celebrate the American worker …

7) According to the U.S. Census, more and more Americans are working from home. Are you one of them?


A. I was when I was able to work.

8) Of those of us who work outside the home, 75% travel to work alone. 15% take public transportation and the remaining 10% carpool. How do you get to your job?

A. I walk from one room to the other. When I was working as a news reporter, I drove to wherever the story was.

9) Do you have any big plans for this holiday weekend?

A. Nope. Nary a single one.

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Friday, September 04, 2015

It Was 20 Years Ago Today

It wasn't Sergeant Pepper that happened 20 years ago today. No, it was the first episode of a Hercules: The Legendary Journey spin-off show.

This was the day that Xena: Warrior Princess, debuted. I was already a Hercules fan and had fallen for the character of the Warrior Princess on the three episodes featured in the fantasy series about the legendary Greek God.

Xena was no goddess. She was a sometimes deranged and damaged woman who decided she had to "do good" to circumvent her dubious and dreadful past. It took viewers six seasons to learn what that past was, and it wasn't pretty.

The first episode was called Sins of the Past and it set up the premise of redemption that ran throughout the entire show. It also introduced us to Gabrielle, Xena's sidekick. Gabrielle was a feisty non-warrior who saw something in our heroine that intrigued her enough to cause her to leave her home to travel with her. The relationship between these two became something of a tease - were they or weren't they lovers? - at a time when such things still weren't overly accepted on television. (It was the late 1990s, remember.)

The show was a campy fantasy, and while Greek gods and goddesses popped in and out, XWP was irreverent with history. The writers didn't care if the Trojan Horse took place when Caesar was alive or not. It had a weird timelessness about it, as if Xena and Gabrielle were constantly popping through some dimensional porthole that the viewers never saw.

I loved it. I loved the characters, the dialogue, the fanciful play with the notion of redemption, the idea of gods and goddesses interfering with lives. I loved the fact that these two women were roaming about ancient Greece all by themselves. I loved that Xena was strong, powerful and quick to fight while Gabrielle was a writer and poet who preferred peace to the sword.  

The show had a different tone from Hercules, which grew darker as the seasons progressed. Xena had some dark moments and a few story lines that were, well, horrifying, but the show eventually always came back around to finding itself (except for the last two episodes, which set up a hue and cry from every Xenite on the planet).

XWP gave me something to look forward to, and it was also the first big fandom to develop courtesy of the Internet. Star Trek fandoms were already in place, but Xena fans took things to a different level. Xena fans had online arguments over shows. They developed the term "shipper" with regards to fandoms. 

By its second season, Xena was the top-rated syndicated show in the United States, and it remained in the top five throughout its run. The show ended in June 2001. It's always had a cult following, which continues to this day.

Okay, yes, I am among those followers. I became a weekly contributor to Whoosh!, an online magazine devoted to all things Xena.

Around the Xenaverse, I was Bluesong: Spoiler Princess. I had a C-Band satellite back then, and on Sundays the show would "feed" to the various shows that would then play the episode at some point during the week. I watched the feeds, making me among the first folks in the U.S. to see the episodes, and I wrote a synopsis for nearly each and every show. At first they appeared in a newsgroup, and then after Whoosh! became established, they showed up there beginning with episode 19 in the first season. After that, I did most of the synopsis updates. Folks waited anxiously for those things to go up.

Eventually I was given the title of Associate Editor at Whoosh!. You can find me listed on the "Staff Emeritus" page.

More importantly, I made friends. I can't believe I have known some of these folks online now for 20 years. They're on my Facebook feed. One of those Xenites is my email pal, writing to me nearly every day for 15 years. We've talked about everything from the show to the state of the world. We even exchange Christmas and birthday presents.

No TV show has captured my imagination as much as this one. There are others I've enjoyed (Buffy, the Vampire Slayer), but this is the show I would watch multiple times. It's been about six years, though, since I last pulled out the DVDs. Maybe its time for a reunion of me and Xena?

"You are what you do. You can recreate yourself every second of your life." - Xena in Forgiven.

Opening lines of the show:

"In a time of ancient gods, warlords and kings, a land in turmoil cried out for a hero. She was Xena, a mighty princess forged in the heat of battle.

The power.
The passion.
The danger.

Her courage would change the world."

Thursday, September 03, 2015

Thursday Thirteen

Things I would like to learn more about:

1. Photography. Even though I take lots of photos, and have been paid for my work (effectively making me a professional photographer even though I've never considered myself such), I would like to learn more about this art. I have had a couple of courses, but they were long ago and well before the digital age.

2. Cooking. I can roast a chicken, boil an egg, cook up veggies, make great fudge, and am decent with baking. However, I do not like to cook and therefore don't make fantastic-tasting recipes or attempt very many new things. There are millions of ways to cook a chicken besides baking the parts, but that is what I do unless I cook a whole one. I don't want to be Julia Child, but I think our eating habits would be healthier if I could actually enjoy the process of creating a meal.

3. Astronomy. I can find the Big Dipper, Venus, and a few other stars, but that's about it. I would like to know the night sky better.

4. Writing. I have read hundreds of books on this subject and written enough sentences to make many, many books, but I have yet to actually write a book. I've been a newspaper and article writer, not a book author.

5. How to eat better. This probably goes along with cooking, but I am a dunce when it comes to nutrition. My knowledge can be summed up with "cookie bad, carrot good." Every time I read a diet book, my head starts to spin. It's like being faced with an alien language that I cannot grasp.

6. How to meditate. I have the basics of this down: focus on your breathing, feel the air going through your nose and down your throat. But I think mindfulness, as living in the present is now called, is probably key to better health. I tend to worry - about the past, the future, AND the present - and mindfulness seems a way to slow that.

7. Art. I took a few art appreciation classes and I loved them. I enjoyed learning about masterpieces and what makes them so great.

8. Drawing. I would love to be able to draw something besides a squiggly line. However, I am pretty bad at this. I took a couple of courses in drawing in college and the best compliment my professor could come up with was "well, you have the perspective on that left leg right" or something along those lines.

9. Music. I already play a lot of music, but my music-reading skills have declined considerably. I cannot read guitar tab quickly, though I can eventually sort it out, and I've forgotten the bass clef altogether because that's not used in guitar. I haven't touched a piano in years.

10. How to grow stuff. I used to be much better at this when I was younger. We had a big garden and if the deer didn't eat it all, we had a harvest. Now we have a tiny little plot and this year we harvested very little. The squash bugs killed the zucchini and the groundhogs ate all the tomatoes. The rest is overgrown with weeks. I would like to have raised beds that are waist high, so I don't have to bend over. Wouldn't that be great?

11. Yoga. I would like to be able to do yoga. I know a few poses but most of them are beyond me. I do a few tai chi routines and would like to learn more about that, too.

12. Genealogy. I have traced some of my lineage back to the 1700s but not all of it. There are always more things to find and learn.

13. Foreign language. I took four years of foreign language in high school and can barely remember how to say "Si" in Spanish. I had a year of Latin as well, and remember none of it. So I would like to relearn some of that. I would hope it comes back easier than it was to learn the first time.

I "borrowed" these ideas from The Great Courses, an advertisement I received in the mail yesterday for DVDs or audio CDs of lessons to learn. You can see what they have to offer at
http://www.thegreatcourses.com/


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Wednesday, September 02, 2015

A Lucky Find

The other day I walked into my office and I spied something on the floor. I bent to pick it up and found this:


The four-leaf clover was flattened and dried. Puzzled, I wondered where it came from. I'd done a little cleaning and arranging but did not recall seeing a clover.

I picked up the little prize and took a picture of it. When I lifted it again, one of the leaves came off, making it a four-leaf clover no longer. I was glad I snapped the photo when I did.

The thing may have fallen from a picture frame when I swapped out a couple of photos recently, but I don't recall saving it.

For a long time, back in my 30s, I found four-leaf clovers everywhere I went. It became a running joke because I'd look down and find the lucky charms at my feet. They jumped out at me and I had a small collection of them at one point.

After a while I stopped looking for four-leaf clovers and it has been a long time since I spied one out in the grass. Maybe this is a sign to try my luck again?

Tuesday, September 01, 2015

Reseeding the Fields

My husband decided that this year was the year to reseed about 40 acres on the farm. First he sprayed the existing grasses and weeds with Round Up.

This is not my ideal way of replanting. I prefer the old way of plowing and turning over the ground, but farmers instead spray weed killer that I feel sure is not healthy or good for anyone.

After the grass is dead, then you have to put fertilizers on it. We had the soils tested at Virginia Tech so we
would know what kind of fertilizers to apply.


The killed field.


Another part of the killed field.


As you can see, it is a lot of ground.


The fertilizer truck and my husband with the seed planter.


Planting seeds with a no-till drill.


Fertilizing the fields.


Truck full of sacks of seed.

More of the killed field.
It had been probably 20 years since these fields were last seeded, and they were mostly full of weeds and Johnson grass. We have planted orchard grass and, provided it rains, it should come up lovely and green next spring. Unfortunately, it could also lie there and not germinate, leaving the ground with nothing, but that is a risk a farmer takes any time he plants.

Sunday, August 30, 2015

If We Make It Through September

From Sunday Stealing

Well, I'll Be .  .  . Meme

If I were a month, I’d be:  September.

If I were a day of the week, I’d be: Saturday.

If I were a planet, I’d be: Neptune.

If I were a god or goddess, I’d be: Artemis.

If I were a sea animal, I’d be: a shrimp.

If I were a piece of furniture, I’d be: a filing cabinet.


If I were a gemstone, I’d be: amethyst.

If I were a flower, I’d be a: blue rose.

If I were a kind of weather, I’d be: overcast and stormy.

If I were a color, I’d be: bluish purple.

If I were an emotion, I’d be: contentment (is that an emotion?)

If I were a fruit, I’d be a: kumquat.

If I were a sound, I’d be: the "D" chord on the guitar.

If I were an element, I’d be: earth (went with the Four Elements there, not the Periodic Table).

If I were a place, I’d be: home.

If I were a taste, I’d be: chocolate.

If I were a scent, I’d be: vanilla.

If I were an object, I’d be a: guitar.

If I were a body part, I’d be: a brain.

If I were a song, I’d be: Song Sung Blue.

If I were a pair of shoes, I’d be: sneakers.

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Saturday, August 29, 2015

A Lifetime Ago

Saturday 9: Viva la Vida (2008)
Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.


1) The song refers to the singing of choirs. Have you ever been in a choir or a vocal group?

A. I played guitar and sang in a Top 40 band when I was in high school. That was a lifetime ago.

2) Chris Martin sings of when he "ruled the world." If you were in charge and had infinite power, what would you change right away?

A. I would end all wars and violence and be sure everyone was fed, clothed, and housed.

3) Chris used to be married to actress Gwyneth Paltrow. USA Today, The Washington Post and The Daily Telegraph have all run articles about how Gwyneth seems to annoy so very many people. What celebrity gets on your nerves?

A. Donald Trump.

4) Coldplay's first big hit was, "Yellow." What color are you wearing right now?

A. Blue and purple.

5) Sam remembers when she used to hear this song everywhere and can't believe that was 7 years ago! When is the last time you had a similar "my, how time flies!" moment?

A. Yesterday when my husband was trying to remember when he did a major project on the farm. He thought it was last year until I reminded him that last year he spent the summer recovering from an accident.

6) In 2008, when "Viva la Vida" was popular, John Grisham's latest legal thriller, The Appeal, was jumping off bookshelves. What have you read this summer?

A. I just finished listening to a Nora Roberts book, Black Hills.

7) Thinking of books: Let's say a biographer has taken the task of writing your biography. What would you title your life story?

A. To Hell and Back 

8) 2008 is also the year Paul Newman died of cancer. Name a Newman movie.

A. Um. Something about walking in the rain? Or something about making drinks? Cocktails? Was he in that? I'm not sure and it's cheating to look it up.

 9) Random question: Do you like garlic?

A. I eat it on some things but not as rule. I don't add it to salads or things like that. I should eat more of it because it is supposed to be good for you but it is hard on my stomach.

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Thursday, August 27, 2015

Thursday Thirteen #410

I'm going to be honest - I'm having a tough time with Thursday Thirteen today. Yesterday my community was violated when two young journalists were gunned down on live TV. I have been in the news business for 30 years, so while I'm not a TV reporter, I have been part of the media. I always considered these folks colleagues. I had met the young cameraman and spoken with him at a local meeting some time ago. He was personable and I remember he stepped out of my way so I could take a photo (cameramen often don't do that). I remember thinking then that he was a nice guy.

I could do thirteen reasons why we should have tighter gun regulations. I will only say if you think the background checks we have in place are sufficient, you're an idiot. I have bought guns and the background checks, at least here in Virginia, are a joke. I'm not saying don't buy your gun. I'm just saying that there needs to be better checks on the people who buy and own guns. You have to have a license to drive a car. You should at least have to pass some kind of test to own a gun. And I really don't care what you think the Second Amendment says. This isn't 1776 and we don't use muskets now.

Or I could do something completely different - 13 butterfly types, perhaps. But my heart really isn't in it this morning. I tried yesterday to write a blog post about how I was feeling and gave up after a couple of sentences.

I had no words.

Ironically, last week for Thursday Thirteen I listed various stages of depression and how you could help a friend. The information is out there - are we paying attention?

I still don't know what to say. So I think today I will list all of the emotions that I and many other folks felt yesterday, though maybe the feelings were not in this order.


1. Confusion. When the incident happened, live on the air, it was hard to believe what you were seeing. Was it real? Were those really gunshots?

2. Shock. As it became clear to all that something awful had happened, shock crept in. How could this happen? How could this happen here? Who could do this?

3. Fear. There was, in the parlance of the day, a "live shooter" loose in the area. Who was safe now? Were the children at the schools alright? Would he go back to the newsroom to finish the job? Who else would this person kill?

4. Concern. We watched these folks on TV every day. Media people become a part of your day and your routine. You see their faces over and over, you hear emotions in their voices. You may not have personally met them but you think you know them. You're comfortable with them. Now you're worried about them, and their colleagues.

5. Heightened Awareness. Social media and the internet gives such things an immediacy that has never been experienced by humanity prior to the last 20 years. Suddenly we are interacting with the folks in the newsroom who are trying to understand what happened. It's like watching a car wreck. Everyone slows down to gawk. We can't help it, even though we know we should move along.

6. Denial. You can't believe this happened. Not here. Not in our little community. Not at the place where folks go to fish and eat and have a nice outing. Not during a story about tourism, for heaven's sake. They weren't covering a riot. They were in Moneta at the lake.

7. Anger. How dare he! How dare this man invade our lives and our community. How dare he take the lives of two young people, people who had done nothing wrong. People who were just out doing their jobs.

8. Hope. The hope comes with the chase. The police has to catch this guy. This is where hope happens in such a situation. We want this man captured and justice wrought.

9. Despair. We learn that the young people have died. We despair. We rage at the sins of the world, the evil, the things we cannot control.

10.  Bargaining. Please God, bring this man to justice. Please God, give comfort to the family and friends of the ones who were killed. Please God, step in and make this better. Heal us and make us whole.

11. Sadness. Two young lives taken. People crying on TV. How can we not cry with them?

12. Violation. We also all felt violated. This man took something from us, the viewers, the other media, and the community. Even though I know from my work and from my husband's work as a first responder how much violation actually goes on here, day in and day out, this felt much more personal. We could not remove ourselves from this because we were watching it play out live on TV, and then it played out even more on social media.

13. Acceptance. At some point, we will move on. Roanoke will move forward. WDBJ will regroup and hire new people and the news will continue. Unfortunately, I think in today's world we are forced to reach this emotion much too soon - to accept the loss and get on with job of worshipping the dollar bills as quickly as possible. We are all walking around wounded, each and every one of us, simply from living our lives, and we do not allow ourselves the time it takes to heal.

Emotions are tough and tricky things. Sometimes we go through them in rapid succession - they move so quickly through us that we don't even realize that in the space of five minutes we've felt 13 different things. We're not very good at analyzing ourselves, I think. We're not taught to, we're taught to shrug it off and stride on through. Sometimes though, you need to reflect. And then perhaps you need to act.



Thursday Thirteen is played by lots of people; there is a list here if you want to read other Thursday Thirteens and/or play along. I've been playing for a while and this is my 410th time to do a list of 13 on a Thursday.

Tuesday, August 25, 2015

Getting Rid of Stuff

We have lived in our home since 1987. Having not moved in 28 years, we have had no cause to go through drawers, closets, nooks and crannies.

While we are not hoarders (yet), we have a lot of stuff. Much of it is stuff we've been given over the years - items from deceased great aunts or grandparents, gifts we've received for birthdays and Christmas.

Some items I received when we married 32 years ago are still in use, and greatly appreciated. But other things are hidden in the dark recesses of forgotten areas of our small house.

And I don't how to get rid of it.

The easiest way would be to give it to Goodwill, but I have a bit of a moral problem with Goodwill. It does provide job opportunities for folks some consider unemployable, but its CEO makes a fortune, and there are rumors that it does not properly pay its employees. This article in Huffington Post calls it "a charity racket." I don't know if it is true.

Living in a rural area means yard sales are not the way to go. No one drives up my very long driveway to see what is available. That means if I want to sell items, I have to pack them up and haul them someplace to do that. For that I need my husband's help, and he seems to have an aversion to helping me with that task. The last time I tried that was in July of 2009 or thereabouts, and I nearly had heat stroke from the sun.

We have a few consignment stores but I don't know anything about them. I know one of them takes a 50 percent cut of whatever it sells - is that normal? I don't know. It seems like a lot but then again, they are helping me to rid myself of unwanted goods.

Books I donate to the library. I still have too many.

There are a few other charities in the area, but they all require more effort to get to than I can manage in my present state. Plus, I'll be honest, there is a part of me that wants the $5 for the old whatsit or the $3 for the thingamajig.

Some days I want to rent a dumpster and just haul load after load into the trash. But that seems a waste when someone else can use it. Plus I'm a bit of an environmentalist and don't want to muck up the landfill.

So how do you get rid of your stuff? What's your secret to decluttering and throwing away a lifetime?

Monday, August 24, 2015

The Maleness of Mother Nature



Sometimes you just can't help but see it.

Sunday, August 23, 2015

Not Swayed By Pretty Packages (or Chirping Birds)

From Sunday Stealing

Birds Are Chirping Meme

1. Name a product you buy mostly because it has a cool package.

A. I can't think of anything. Sorry. I'm generally not swayed by pretty packages.
 
2. What flavor cake do you like for your birthday?


A. White inside with white icing.
 
3. Have you ever been in love with someone much older or younger than you?


A. My husband is four years older than I. I doubt that counts as "much."
 
4. Have you ever had a job you loved?


A. Yes. When I was freelancing and doing it well, paying the bills with it and everything, I was very happy. Then the economy crashed, and every out-of-work journalist became a freelancer, and I went back to school to obtain my masters degree. Then I had surgery and now I just blog. I don't make any money blogging, but then again, I am not trying to, either.

5.  Have you ever been in a building that was on fire?


A. Yes. My parents house was struck by lightning and it caught on fire. I went into it while it was smoldering. I also took pictures of a controlled structure burn for the newspaper once and went inside.
 
6. Are you in an argument with anyone right now?


A. No.
 
7. Would you change your hair color to something outrageous if you would get paid to?


A. It would depend on the amount of money, I suppose. A million dollars? Bring me the bleach. $10? No thanks.
 
8. Have you ever written a poem for someone?


A. Yes.
 
9. What is a place you’ve vacationed at and would like to go back to?


A. Colonial Williamsburg in Virginia.
 
10. Do you eat samples at the grocery store?


A. Generally, no. I think they are germy.
 
11. What do you absolutely have to have to make your birthday feel special?


A. It is special is someone remembers it. I don't need anything but good wishes. Well, a piece of cake is nice but not a necessity.
 
12. What’s the last tourist area you visited?


A. Myrtle Beach, SC
 
13. Where do you go out to eat for a special occasion?


A. We generally go to Coach and Four, a locally owned restaurant that has been here for longer than we've been married. It is where my husband proposed and I can still show the booth we were sitting in when he pulled out the ring.

14. When was the last time you went to a post office?

A. Just last week.

15. Is there an item you are saving up to buy right now?


A. I'm saving up to pay off my car loan. Does that count?
 
16. Are you psychic in any way?


A. I knew you were going to ask that question. Of course I am. Everyone is. They're just not tuned into it.
 
17. Do you prefer a laptop or desktop? Which are you on now?


A. Desktop, and that is what I am using now.
 
18. Have you ever received a gift and truly did not know what it was?


A. I seem to remember receiving some kind of hair-curling hickey-doo from my grandparents in California when I was about 8 years old that left me clueless.
 
19. What’s your homepage?


A. This blog.

20. Is there a thing you enjoy doing, but quit because you are not good at it?


A. I like to draw, but I am not good at it, so I don't do it. I took a couple of courses in it in college but I've forgotten everything except for "negative space."

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